It’s making me desperate and I think about it every day. I just want to stop but I think me never being in one makes my mind gravitate towards the idea. I know they are overrated. I just want to stop thinking about them altogether because its ruining me.What hobbies do I get in order to stop this. Yes I go to the gym every day and have been for the last year. Please do not say this.
>>33692998Is there a reason why you're depriving yourself of a relationship or why you feel like you don't deserve one?
>>33693352Most women can definitely smell the desperation off of meI become too clingy and less focused on the person and moreso on the idea of having a girlfriend. I’ve always felt unloved but I’m becoming fine with it. I just can’t stop thinking about relationships. I need to focus on myself and myself only. People say when you stop thinking about it you’re more likely anyways
I recently heard one of the podcasts talking heads referring to this story of the Japanese guys as apocryphal. I don’t think they know what apocryphal means.
>>33692998>>33694461The only way I can think of with the situation you provided is that you should give in and you'll realize how much stupid you are wanting this non sense shit afterwards.You don't need a partner or a relationship, it's your sexual desire taking over you and that's just life. Go get yourself a girlfriend til you're sick of having one or just pay a whore out saving you time and trouble mentally with all those relationship issues you'll ever have compared to girlfriend.