>be me recently broken up with working on myself>6 foot, 6 figures, working on 6 pack>meet girl, she is funny, tall, thin, white>she moves in super quickly>her mom is weird and obese but not dating her mom so idgaf>we date for 2 years, propose>my family asks "any health issues in your family?" hers replies "diabetus">engaged 6 months, married>get pregnant on the honeymoon>"wow this is easy">baby is born, healthy baby girl. wife is normal for one week. Slowly slips into insanity>Talking to herself / hearing voices, seeing things, staying awake for weeks, delusions>Get her into the mental hospital>"oh yea grandma was institutionalized 4 times for bipolar, and everyone on her moms side is bipolar, we saw some signs with annoette but didn't think it was a problem">Psychiatrist "you now have a Bipolar 1 psychotic wife anon gods speed">She goes on anti psychotics, sleeps all day and gains 100lbs>My once beautiful thin, funny wife is obese and mentally ill, perpetually tired all within a year.>doesn't play with the baby just sets her on the floor with her toys and scrolls on her phone or watches disney movies with them.If I divorce she will probably get almost $100k for being married 1 year to me, and lying about her mental health.
>>33693268I had dreams about having more children, but it seems like i would basically just be raising them by myself at this point. Also she just constantly talks shit about me to our friends and family saying I am a terrible person etc when i have done nothing but support her and our daughter. I am fed up and at the end of my rope.
>>33693268that's what you get for marrying based on looks, and making your entire personality based on looks/numbers as well.Not choice but to zig with her zag and let yourself go fat and bald and spend all your money on beer & smokes.
>>33693268Quit your job and divorce her, so she can't charge you alimony. When you are of her radar you can try and get another job
larp. you will not demoralize me. you will not convince me to not get married and have beautiful american babies.
>>33693268>she moves in super quicklyFirst mistake. Haven't even finished reading, but you clearly didn't make her work for anything to be with you. Lets see if this is relevant.>If I divorce she will probably get almost $100k for being married 1 year to me, and lying about her mental health.Okay, would you rather stay with her for 10 years, and make that 200, 300, 500k? Get the fuck out as quickly as possible. Speak with a lawyer, and plan accordingly. But you're on an upward trajectory. Divorce is only gonna get worse the longer you wait. Get a lawyers advice about lying about health issues. Don't assume you know the outcome without getting professional advice.
>>33694188This is sadly very much real anon. i dont know what to tell you I am living through hell. Also kind of sad that people would think this is so fucked up it had to be copy pasta because it is literally my life.>>33694232I have been trying to get an official diagnosis from the psychiatrist for over 6 months now. At this point I am going to tell them either diagnosis her or take her off the meds.
>>33694130I spoke with a lawyer, you pay 1 year of alimony for every 4 years. I am waiting on a "official" diagnosis because psychiatrist are fucking scam artists and want to wait 1 year to diagnose someone.
>>33694329>>33693268Bipolar 1 , holy shit anon , I just learned about that shit in my psych class , you are grade A fucked , the minimum required for that diagnosis is an episode of mania and mania...In mania , anything is possible. They fully believe their truth so if she ever hops off her meds , she could believe she can fly and jump off a building or kill her own child cause she thinks it might save the world. They definitely hid this shit with that kind of record and are counting on the legal system to protect her. They are probably holding off on the diagnosis because she fed them some sob story about it being after pregnancy etc. I would be speaking to a lawyer immediately. This is the kind of shit that dad walked out to get a bag of groceries or milk for and never came back.
>>33694349that probably doesn't include child support btw , alimony is just to help the spouse , the child support is for the kid. If she's on medication and getting her basic duties with the baby done - there's not much you can do as the courts have to be fair
>>33694388Maybe he could get her doctor to testify that the kid is better of with anon
>>33694388>that probably doesn't include child support btwWhat child support? The court can't possibly give custody to a woman who is prone to psychotic episodes.
>>33694474Depends on what country and state and whose laws we following. if she's medicated and considered "stable" they will STILL factor in a mothers right to be with her child. Of course they could make an argument that quality of life is drastically lower considering how she doesn't engage with the child and I think they should/its a worth a shot trying to get full custody. If full custody is a LOCK from that lawyer , what are you waiting for anon get the paperwork started, its the best outcome and you ain't getting any younger. If that doesn't pan out anon....hard choices will have to be made
Hell yeah
>>33693268>If I divorce she will probably get almost $100k for being married 1 year to meNot likely, depends on your state, but almost everywhere she's only entitled to half of what you both made AFTER the marriage. If youre clearing $200k a year then so what, you'll make more money.
>>33693268Thinking with your dick wasn't a smart move.You always check out the mother/grandmother before seriously considering marriage, because she will end up somewhat like her mom.But going forward (assuming you have matured past being a retard), document everything so you can portray her as neglectful and batshit insane.Get her committed for mental health a couple times, even if it is a 72 hour hold. Hire the best divorce attorney you can.Sue for full custody.Alternatively you could bail on your daughter and just pay child support but this would be a loser move, because your wife obviously can't care for a child.
>>33694379i (had) bi-polar 1, and this is true. ((((it developed into a schizo illness, lol))))
What the actual fuck? This is nightmare fuel. I'm never getting married or having kids.Reminds me of a joke:>Why is divorce so expensive?>Because it's worth it!
>>33693268sounds like the end of the pregnancy triggered postpartum psychosis/latent mental illness in a woman who was already prone to mental illness. according to official sources ppp lasts 6-12 months but can last much longer. id say you give it at least another year and try to get her to improve, or try to ween off the meds. i think it is very hard for women to be un-convinced that their neuroses and diagnoses don't define them so try to work on that too, maybe therapy would help
OP you also absolutely need to prevent your daughter from reproducingDon't let her ruin some dudes life in 20ish years
>>33693268N
>>33693268marriage annulment for false representation of health bill
get yourself away from this woman at all costs and more importantly you need to already start researching symptoms to look out for in your daughter as she grows up. i am sorry this is happening to you and your family.
>>33696362and oh yeah, document everything. EVERYTHING. more is always better in a case like this.
