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red flags on women?
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looking to the general direction of a faggot who uses the word red flag
get a grip subhuman
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>>33695652
Those are moon phases, not flags.
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>>33695652
Wasted opportunity to post a tattoo of a red flag, like Switzerland or Turkey
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??????
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>>33695707
get a tattoo removal
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>>33695740
That is cute.
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>>33695652
If she:
>has cut marks
>has tattoos
>has a broken pussy/prolapse
>has kids and is a single mom not widow like Kirk's wife
>stinky pussy, some sluts going out there giving persistent balanitis
>looks way older than her real age
>talks over you all the time
>she can't imagine paying for her restaurant bill not even once
>completely ghosts you when you're sick
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>>33695863
Stinky pussy is caused by men's pp and or untreated uti
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tattoos and piercings are always number one.
Overly extroverted and loud.
Assertive Masculine personality.
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tattoos, in moderation, are actually cool and you're gay sex homo faggots if the sight of ink on skin makes your dick crawl back in your bussy.

same with piercings

also these threads are always extremely funny because dudes will post itemized list that are over 12 items long and be like
>I am not asking for much
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>>33696787
>is that.... an extroverted woman??? AAAAAAHHHH BE QUIET I'M TRYING TO THINK ABOUT MY INNER MONOLOGUE
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>>33696814
See what I mean
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>>33696866
Brother, you need someone to carry the conversation in a relationship and clearly it's not gonna be you.
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>>33696875
But of course not, I’m gonna sit in the corner and put my head down in shame and never say a word ever because that’s what introverts do right?
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>>33695652
openly misandrist or misogynist
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Based on mutiple girls I've met irl.

- Has no female friends or only has guy friends
- Has no close friends period
- Distant from family (Redder flag is if she's disowned by family)
- No support system whatsoever (she'll be dependent on you for everything)
- Does not get along with coworkers or classmates
- Does not have a job or trying to be independent
- Obsessed over serial killers
- Disney adult or collects a lot of Hello Kitty stuff
- Watches anime (especially if she likes to ship 2 male characters together)
- Does not cook, eats out every meal
- Reads Danielle Steele novels, H.P Lovecraft, or Harry Potter
- Terrible with money in general
- Spends all their free time glued to their phone
- Watches tradwife or fds content
- Refuses to learn anything about basic home repairs, lawncare, or automotive repair as they deem it as a "man's job," yet they expects a man to do at least 50% of the house chores while working at least 40 hours a week.
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>>33696866
Checked and kek'd
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>>33695652
>when she has tattoos
>when she has piercings
>when she has dyed hair (other than natural colors)
>when she's travelled somewhere
>when she has social media
>when she goes out to dance clubs, concerts, or music festivals
>when she drinks
>when she smokes
>when she eats frozen pizzas and junk foods
>when she's a health freak who only eats plain chicken and brocolli
>when she plays video games
>when she watches Youtube
>when she enjoys going to out to watch movies
>when she watches video essays on Youtube about movies
>when she has male friends
>when she has female friends
>when she's had sex before
>when she's dated someone before
>when she's looked at her own vagina before
>when she has a male sibling, who probably saw her naked before
>when she reads fiction books about wizards and/or sexy vampires
>when she reads non-fiction books about leftist politics
>when she watches MSM news
>when she rides horses or has ridden horses when younger
>when she's taken dancing lessons
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>>33695863
>like Kirk's wife
lol it's all you can think about don't you
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>>33695652
Most "red flags" people say in threads like this are just dealbreakers outright (tattoos, piercings, feminism, etc.). They don't hint at anything else; they're just awful in themselves.

Some actual red flags:

-Poor relationship with her parents. Red flag for all sorts of self-destructive behavior and personality problems.
-Shitty exes, especially if more than one. Red flag that she's attracted to those traits.
-Hello-kitty type aesthetics. Lots of borderlines do this for some reason.
-Also speaking of borderlines, women who throw themselves at you for *no apparent reason*. Women approaching isn't a red flag per se, but if she does it for you, she'd do it for another guy in similar circumstances. This also applies to how she reacts to being approached, though, so it's not like a passive but easy woman is any better.
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>>33695707
fpbp
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Biggest one for me is when she talks shit about her friends behind their backs to me.
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>>33695652
Everyone has tats now even grandmas. But if she has a LOT of tats like a sleeve or like 10 or more she has fucked a tattoo artist.
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>>33697449
And almost everyone is a degenerate, so what? Doesn't make it any less bad.
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>>33697924
I never said it was good
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>>33695652
25+ and unmarried.
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>>33695652
Tatts, smokers, vapers, drunks, druggies, high body counts, purple or rainbow colored hair outside of normal coloring, very slutty clothes, constant attention whore selfie takers, majorly religious or obsessed with their work (shout out to the AMWAY guy whose girlfriend did more with them than he). Mean, narcissistic, violent bitches who get overly angry over the smallest things.

Other than that, have fun! It will save you thousands of dollars and lots of heartache.
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>>33697924
>And almost everyone is a degenerate, so what?
The first tattoo was dated around 3700 BC, anon. Almost every single culture has a tattooing practice of some kind. You suffer from incel hysterics and a chronic case of recentism.
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>>33697087
This but unironically.
I also look like that.
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>>33695652
Everything.
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>>33695652
>red flags on women

On the top of my head
>tramp stamps
Never take a woman with a tramp stamp seriously.

>single mom
Too many baggages

>flirts with other men while already dating you
Self explanatory

>drug use/addiction

>poor hygiene and messy apartment
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>>33695863
>completely ghosts you when you're sick
kek same anon that said his gf left him when he went to have surgery? women are evil.
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>>33698556
>I have shitty taste in women and I suck at maintaining healthy relationships. This is women's fault.

I'll never understand this cope
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theres a lot of good ones but i'd say fatherless is a very major red flag. women are not good at discipling their children and instilling basic respect for themselves. if a woman tells me her father is not present in her life i just move on
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>>33698345
And every single culture since the dawn of time has been filled with degenerates. Except a bunch of past cultures also had such wonderful things as human sacrifice and cannibalism. Tattoos happen to be more common among those types of cultures.
Your point?

>anybody who disagrees with me is an incel
And you call me hysterical.
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>>33696866
Lol
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>>33695652
Anything that is currently popular with women. You want to look for the closest female approximation of a shutin neet you can possibly find.
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>>33696866
Based
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>>33695652
>red flags
for?

sex without commitment (fwb, ons, pump and dump, etc.):
>fat
>ugly
that's about it

for long term relationship, add:
>30+ yo
>annoying, argumentative, talks back, etc.
>mental health issues
>unhealthy lifestyle
>had a hoe phase
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Unless you generally don't like things like tattoos or other physical traits on principle you're going to have to at least entertain getting to know a person. My wife has a few tattoos, and has the hello kitty aesthetic at times but has not even begin to show any of the below in the last 4 years.

LEGIT redflags:

General unkindness
Shit emotional regulation
Lack of accountability
Transactional
Values mismatch
Lack of interest

I've definitely dated or have known virgin, tattooless, etc that have exhibited one or more of these traits. You're just going to have to know someone, treat them like a human and evaluate them yourself. Most of this other stuff is helpful in a very myopic sense and often used for engagement farming.
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>>33697426
Isn't that what you do?
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>>33697167
I was dating this woman, then we had sex on the third date where I found out that not only does she have a tattoo, it turns out she has a tramp stamp. RIP
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>>33695863
>looks way older than her real age
This is super common now. Something is very wrong in the american diet.
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>>33702642
you looking at her tramp stamp
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>>33702699
>This is super common now. Something is very wrong in the american diet.
And too much night life, drugs, alcohol or vices in general.
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>>33702740
nice cope zoomer, people partied harder in previous generations. It's your shit lifestyle of staying in staring at screens for 16 hours a day while eating pure slop that ages you.
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>>33702642
> then we had sex on the third date
You got the whore you asked for, baka
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>>33702740
My brother, what are you talking about? Alcohol and tobacco use are at centuries long lows in the U.S.
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>>33696931
clocked me so hard jesus h christ
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>>33695652
If she's a rape victim or had "abusive" exes.
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>>33697167
>Shitty exes, especially if more than one. Red flag that she's attracted to those traits.
But then what would that imply about her being attracted to you?
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>>33704849
Nothing? I know myself already.
It doesn't mean she's ONLY attracted to those traits. It's a red flag that she actively courts negative influences in her life, which will affect you even if you're not one of them. But again, that's not a given. A red flag isn't a dealbreaker in itself, but a warning sign for a dealbreaker being present. Her deliberately going after shitty dudes is a dealbreaker. Her being unlucky enough to run into them isn't one on its own.
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Feminism
Black
Fake trad
Liberal
Slut
Coal burner
Any girl from the ghetto
Bar stock normies
Rape victims
Severely mentally ill
Unkempt/unsanitary
Diseased (STIs)
Homeless
Ugly
Fat
Obese
Hamplanet
Landwhale
White trash
Spolied brat rich girl
Sorority whore
Prostitute
Stripper
Criminal
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>>33705719
this
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KANT BELEIVE NONE OF U TARDOS MENTIONED THE
>vaxinated with mod. mrna
literal chimera infertile mutant children
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>tall
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>>33695652
She doesn't treat you well, she makes you feel bad or weird.

I know these aren't general red flags as people expect from me to reply to, but I believe that red flags are from the point of view of the interested party, and so the best "red flag" or indication of compatibility, is how she made ME feel. I experience everything through my eyes at the end of the day, so my feelings are essentially indisputable. I think that people should follow this more - it's not a one size fits all, some people will enjoy what others find off putting and vice versa, therefore if she makes you feel bad - you know you aren't compatible. It didn't have to be extreme red flags like she pooped the bed. Anyway, good luck to you all



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