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And I'm the opposite
Seems like whenever I'm doing well it makes him have a spell of psychosis
He "has" to be superior to me and talk down to me, we can't be equals.
I can't even ignore him for too long or he'll end up in the mental ward as well.
What do I do?
It's mostly from my dad who's the same way except he doesn't have schizophrenia and my brother is trying to ride on his coattails by treating me like shit like our dad does.
He hates drugs cause our dad hates drugs and he got schizophrenia from them while I've been using them to succeed.
I honestly don't like my dad or my brother on their own but them together is especially insufferable.
Any practical advice?
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Theres probably a huge minority of people out there with better social skills than you who could control them
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>>33700014
What?
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If someone is psychosis is causing duress to their family you can usually have them involuntarily committed
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>>33700014
In my case its the opposite where I have good social skills and my family are abunch of whining martyrs who I live 200 miles from, never talk to, mind my manners to
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>>33700039
I primarily only interact with him through text message
I just find his neediness/arrogance obnoxious specially when he's spending time with my dad and it just comes off as they've been talking shit about me as extroslops always do but for him to not allow me to just go and do my own thing without him going into psychosis just makes it extro suck
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>>33699670
I am sorry you are experiencing those issues in your family.

I don't have any experience with those things, like schizophrenia and psychosis, but I'm familiar with the diagnoses because I work in psychology.

I'm so sorry that you have those things going on on your side and that must be very difficult to live with.
Do you live with your brother currently?
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I wouldnt bother to deal with them, too annoying
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>>33700173
It sounds like OP will have to do that because he lives with that person. It's an unfortunate circumstance that he is dealing with
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>>33700123
No. He was off his meds and built this narrative where I was helpless without him and needed him to help me build my website(despite him not knowing anything about web development) and I guess I didn't realize this fully enough and sent him some updates on it basically being complete and that night he checked himself into a mental hospital
A week later my dad picks him up and he's basically shit talking me saying he only knows real code but he could probably help me build my site anyway even though I just had surgery and then he and my dad were pressuring me to pick up a water distiller I tried to gift to him cause he's trying to move out of our parents condo due to losing his job while I'm still in a sling.
I would never pressure someone like that not even a week into recovery from surgery where I'm still on meds and can't even drive let alone two hours through the mountains with one arm.
Sensing his financial distress I told him about a way to invest in land and that I'd help him build it as a rental and he just ignored me and said yeah 'I guess you shouldn't code in a sling" like that's all that matters when it comes to financial success when I already own a rental property and he just wasted $30k or something on a cyber security course that didn't get him a better job.
It just seems like him and my dad are banging their heads against the wall trying to look good as extroverts do and then SEETHING by acting passive aggressive and snotty and fake with me cause I'm succeeding out of passion and straight forward investments while they spin their wheels barely making ends meet being eternal renters in expensive cities and also being insufferably straight edge shitting on me or people who just want to have a drink once in awhile or whatever when I'm clearly doing better and damn well trying to have some joy in my life
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>>33700190
Christ that’s a long ass comment. I am not reading all of that but I hope you figure stuff out
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>>33700173
Just seems like I have to at this point. Like if they can't make me as miserable as they are I'm the enemy and I have to be "dealt with" and yet they need me to be on "good terms" cause they're always bragging to everyone else about how great they think they are.
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>>33700211
You're not Mike
Would you prefer I reddit spaced saar?
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>>33700221
What’s a saar
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>>33700284
An Indian gentleman
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>>33700295
Oh ew god
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>>33700321
You're trans
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>>33700324
Nigga what
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>>33700342
You talk troon
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>>33700351
I swear the people here need to put a key somewhere because the amount of words yall use that make no sense is frustrating, what’s a toon?
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get a cartoon gf to help you move out
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>>33700414
Why do underage zoomers always project their piss poor living conditions on to others?
Can I not attempt to stay in contact with my brother via cell phone before pondering his terrible behavior with the help of so-called experienced individuals?
Millennial website.
GTFO
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Why are you dehumanizing him, and in the same post asking for advice to "help" your sick brother. You should go into healthcare lol
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>>33700494
Nothing inhuman about narcissism, extroversion or schizophrenia, they are all extremely human traits
I just happen to possess none of them and would like some advice on how to deal with them whilst being so estranged
You low IQ zoomer
*Gives you a swirlie"
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>>33700504
Extremely common human traits*
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God who cares
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>>33700602
People who's brains aren't too rotted to think
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>>33699670
Honestly anon your brother sounds sexy. That aside, try to use his competition to fuel your drive. If your retarded brother can do things, why can't you? He's so pitiful he can't end up in the ward, but not you. Be successful anon, and leave him behind.
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>>33700190
Yeah that sounds like a lot you're dealing with. Sorry to hear you have to deal with all that
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>>33699670
He'll most likely end up in prison or some kind of facility or institution. Just ignore him.
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>>33700324
he wouldn't know what to do with this, "eW GoD, a VaGInA of cOLoR" sCaRY
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>>33700433
imagine the smell of her dutch oven
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>>33699670
>Narcissistic
>Schizophrenic
>Extroverted
He'll go far. Be like him.
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>>33700772
We sniffachads stay winning
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>>33701502
Despite having stereotypical normie traits like yourself, he actually just wasted a fuck to of money on a cyber security course and lost his job so me trying to help him build a rental property like I already have as a sure source of passive income and him dismissing me arrogantly is not going far. It's the opposite
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>>33699670
Just interact with them as little as possible. That's all you can do with people who are determined to be a pain in your ass to cover their own insecurities.

I've got family like that as well. I'm not sure if yours will act like this, but after they've been as huge faggots as they possibly could, and make me want to get away from them, then they start the asspained whining and neediness and they want me to talk to them and visit. It literally makes no sense.
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>>33702888
Trips of TRVKE
Sadly



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