Almost all men agree that I'm beautiful, but the only men who ever actually hit on me are creepy rapist types. Is it because they see me as vulnerable and easy prey? I'm mute in real life (I can't speak because of neurological problems that I was born with), I'm physically tiny, and I don't have any friends, so I'm probably seen by men as someone who they can easily rape and/or kill without anyone noticing. How can I make myself less attractive to creeps?
You're attracting people who think they stand a chance with you. If you were beautiful then beautiful men would hit on you. Evidently you aren't.
The only men who hit on women are creeps. That's especially true if the woman is good-looking. Most men probably see you as unapproachable. Creeps will hit on literally anyone.
>>33705791Go back to pleddit.
>>33705795>le rebbit boogeymanI've literally never had a single account on reddit, but okay.
>>33705776nah, you're misreading.Sensible men are largely witholding first approach because the risk of offending women, especially attractive women who are likely getting approached more, is too high. Social damage and criminal accusations have sensible men playing very distant.so, OP, the ones left over that are approaching you have less sense of propriety, manners, less to lose socially, less common sense, and your muteness to any kind person who would hit on you is likely going to be seen as a huge GO AWAY signal you're giving without any other context.Most men don't see you and think RAEP BAIT. Its one thing to be cautious because you're vulnerable. Its another thing to be dum.
Make yourself look more like an adult rather than a teenager. I don't know?
>>33705776That's not true, a beautiful but meek girl easily attracts creeps.
>>33705769>I'm mute in real life (I can't speak because of neurological problems that I was born with), I'm physically tiny,This is not very beautiful, so when men tell you are beautiful they may be less than honest.
>>33705848being mute wouldn't have any affect on someone's physical appearance
>>33705862Being beautiful is not just about phys appearance, it's also about personality and attitude.I personally feel disgust for social media narcissists who otherwise are very good looking.
OP is literally this: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/CuteMute
you sound ugly, tits or gtfo
>I don't have any friendsBiggest change youcan make.
>>33705769>the only men who ever actually hit on me are creepy rapist types>I'm mute in real lifewell, you aren't going to be yelling for help apparently so that's perhaps part of it
>>33705769Well you can't tell them to fuck off.What even is a creepy rapist type?A awkward guy that can't read social signals? An ugly man?Maybe get a deaf boyfriend or something who can sign with you and protect you from creepers.
>>33705862>being severely disabled qualifies as beautiful.I know what you mean but the reality is that disability takes several notches off attractiveness, to use a better word. That's probably why the "creeps" (she probably means not-so-hot men) think they have a chance. She's cute but with a major flaw.
>>33705769Get friends who can accompany you when going out, workout more, learn self defense strategies, develop more confidence and situational awareness. The common creep targets people they perceive as weak. Since you're mute I assume that means you can't scream for help, so having an alternative way of making a loud noticeable sound (such as an alarm of some type) can deter people who try to harm you.
>>33705769Women constantly signal that they don't want to be approached. Thus respectful men don't approach women and only creeps do.
>>33706597>implying most men wouldn't kill to have a pretty woman who doesn't talk
>>33705965What do you mean? She can't sound like anything.
What the hell is a creepy rapist type?
>>33705769if you're mute then the answer is simple, unfortunate people who come off as creeps will think you wont judge them as hardits likely not they're fault, you could just be stereotyping them by looks
>>33705769Non-rapey men don't want to get involved with a mute because it's an abnormal relationship that comes with huge stigmas and challenges, and the only thing the rapey ones care about is fucking and controlling you. Also >>33710470 to an extent. I'm sorry but that's the truth.
>>33710374A jeet.
>>33705769Nazi here. Wouldnt touch with a 6 foot pole
>>33705769Meth, lots of meth, a great way to go from looking 25 to 85 in an extremely short period of time
>>33705791No this is actually trueCreeps and pervs will run their game on women way more than actual good guysI’ve seen and noticed this in multiple places
>>33707986Very boomeresque.
>>33705769Being mute is a handicap, which top tier men don't want and bottom tier men don't careBeing beautiful is the single most important aspect for a woman to be successful in relationships so you will be fine eventually, but you know that increases dating difficultyAlso this is simply a fact >>33705842>a beautiful but meek girl easily attracts creeps
>tfw no qt3.14 mute loner gf
>>33705769Its cost/benefit.I dont hit on women because the negatives outweigh the positive.For a guy who is already a 'creepy rapist' the positives outweigh the negative. I think their brains are wired different to REALLY enjoy women.creepy rapists are our future.> Is it because they see me as vulnerable and easy prey?they do this to everyone> I'm mute in real lifethats weird> (I can't speak because of neurological problems that I was born with),its all in your head> I'm physically tiny, and I don't have any friends, so I'm probably seen by men as someone who they can easily rape and/or kill without anyone noticing. You sound insane.> How can I make myself less attractive to creeps?Bulk up. Even rapists avoid fatties.
>>33714267>its all in your headIs that your professional opinion as a doctor?
