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I'm a gigastacy, but I'm not attracted to chads at all. In fact, I really can't stand them. But they're the only men who ever approach me. I genuinely want a wholesome nerdy guy who is intelligent and respects women, but they are all too afraid to talk to me.

>tfw
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If you were a gigastacy you would just pick one up and take him home.
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>>33707603
Ask out a guy that looks nerdy and don't break his heart
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>>33707603
Bait post
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>>33707603
Post face
>I genuinely want a wholesome nerdy guy who is intelligent and respects women
As long as he has an 8/10 face right?
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>>33707603
Well wholesome intelligent guys don't want a shell of a woman with no personality, don't cast pears before swine.

Goulou lmama goulou lmama
Ana manensachi
Goulou lmama goulou lmama
Ana manensachi
Allah ghaleb ya taleb rani makadeetchi
Allah ghaleb ya taleb rani makadeetchi
Goulou lmama goulou lmama
Ya ana manensachi
Goulou lmama goulou lmama
Ana manensachi
Allah ghaleb ya taleb rani makadeetchi
Allah ghaleb ya taleb rani makadeetchi
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>>33707672
I'm gonna need you to cool it with the misogynistic remarks, incel.
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>>33707672
What are you talking about? She just means a wholesome nerdy guy, like this!
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If this is even real, just dress like an egirl. You'll have them swarm.
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>>33707603
Worst bait ever, you could just ask any and have them if any of that was true.
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OP is obviously a gigatranny, but such women do exist. The problem is the flow of information:
if you want a handsome guy, just look at his face and decide to approach or not
if you want a rich guy, just look at his car and decide to approach or not
but if you want a "wholesome and intelligent" guy, whatever this means, then there's no obvious filter you could apply, and the only way if to find him is to keep dating shitty men until you find the gold nugget.
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>>33707603
You want one of those guys who foams at the mouth when his OCD goes off, not an actual smart guy.
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>>33707603
>intelligent and respects women
whos gonna tell her
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OP the reality is that a lot of Chads are actually the intelligent men in life. Almost none of the Chads I've known in life have been unsuccessful. It's just that there's a difference between knowledge and cognitive behavior that helps you navigate the real world ("street smarts"/the shit Chads learned) and geeky, Wikipedia article useless lore (incelligence).
Even the guys who appear "wholesome" by virtue of being nerdy are liable to do, say, and think unwholesome things once they've gotten with a girl like the one you claim to be.
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>>33708439
By "chads", OP is most likely referring to douchetard frat boy jock types.
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>>33707928
Its not too bad, intelligence is found out fast by discussing philosophy and politics, wholesome is something felt in combination with basic psychological skill to not fall for the larpers. Worst case test a bit by pinching here and there and track the reaction.
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>>33707603
agreed except the gigastacy part im bretty becky, i just cant stand normie men to any degree, ugly or cute. attractive men are nice to look at but if their personality is insufferable, bland, or basic there isnt enough sustenance to really *keep* a relationship or even a friendship. OP i recommend you just become friends with guys first for a little while, weed out the obvious creeps first, and the ones that genuinely are interested in shit you show interest in and have similar likes and dislikes, give them a try. the last thing you would ever want is to be stuck with a boring moid who you cant have conversations with. if you are confident in your looks, it should be easier for you to approach people in social settings and get to know them too.
oh and i know you know anyway but dont sex until youre officially dating
tldr be someones friend and have chemistry first and then shoot shots
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>>33708461
>tldr be someones friend and have chemistry first and then shoot shots
She has to pay attention he is single first or she is in for some not fun at all "friendly" platonic orbiting. dont ever bring yourself in such a situation let alone fall for such a guy.
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>>33708469
i suppose, thats counteracted by just being a friend first anyways with no expectations initially. if he's uncomfortable with having chick friends because he has a gf then they wont hang out long, if it doesnt matter or he isnt, a friend is gained and proceed to step 2
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>>33708480
What if they are genuine friends for a longer while and then all of a sudden the current shifts? It happens and i cant recommend it. It will hurt everyone involved sooner or later.
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>>33708482
this can happen, it is part of life and in even attempting the friend/dating game you will be at risk of getting hurt regardless, i have had it happen before too, but das laifu
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>>33708488
I dont know what happened in your case but I think its a danger-zone thats better avoided if possible. Dont know what happened in your case but in mine as im in the middle of it i wonder if i cut this friendship completely or what to do aside from that ill never cross any physical boundary if they dont split. It somehow slipped from nerd banter into intimate talk and from intimate talk into feelings for each other. And since then its stressful and I have no clue at all what to do. Its not a situation i can recommend.
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>>33708461
fucking beccy REEEEEEEEEEE

im giga autismo le ebin lofty supreme grande
if you cant into deep esoterical occult soph ea of the aeons
you wont be able to hold a conversation with me for more than 5 minutes REEEEEEE
God why did you made me this wayyyyyyyyyyy
AHHHHHH
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>>33708633
get a load of this guy
mom took too much tylenol eh? kek
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>>33709149
NO
radiation from fucking chernobyl yadarnij reactor
(true story)
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>>33707603
I'm a gigachad physically (white, tall, handsome, aesthetic, fit, yadda yadda) but I'm nerdy and introverted because my communication skills suck, all my points were into intelligence, appearance and other areas except god damn talking and connecting to people (outside work or competitive settings)
I've been in successful relationships with stacies and dominant women but ultimately it becomes a source of unhappiness because they seem to lack a soul
I'm fucking tired of all these women's hivemind of "traveling", meaningless drinking, watching whatever TV slop and rotting their brains on tiktok and instagram
If you don't do that and really are attractive (must be, can't stand ugly women) drop a contact so I can reach you
Other people may contact you but you will know when it's me, I'm not lying - I'm handsome and can't easily open up
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>>33707603
Unironically stay in your lane and date the Chads as you're supposed to. You don't actually want what you think you want.
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>>33707603
I hate you and I don't even have the reason
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>>33714103
Not OP, but how would you know what she wants?
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I’m not afraid, what’s your snapchat?
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>>33707603
Get on a dating site and message nerdy guys.
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>>33707603
Gigastacies can't be mentally ill
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>>33707603
stacy but low self esteem lol
dont put nerds on a pedestal theyre how they are for a reason
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>>33707603
That's unusual, the nerds I know are all horny AF.
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>>33707603
Lowkey internalized misogyny
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>>33715791
You would be surprised at the shit I've seen and heard about from more outgoing friends. There's some wacky people out there, women included.
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>>33707603
>I genuinely want a wholesome nerdy guy who is intelligent and respects women
If OP were an actual person, I have to wonder what they would imagine such a man is like. The question suggests that have an idea of what such qualities would be like, because current men lack those qualities. But those qualities are being described in broad strokes rather than the granular way an individual would be like.
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>>33707603
I was sure it would finally happen this year but here we are, it's almost Octover and I'm still a single Chud with no trad Stacy by my side.
It's fucking over.



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