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I saw a woman at the gym today who was so unbelievably beautiful that it genuinely made me depressed. She was ethereal, no exaggeration. Picture a slightly taller Sydney Sweeney but with a 12/10 face, and the softest most radiant skin you could imagine. Long blonde hair, flawless body shape. Truly the type of woman you think only exists in Anime and Blender Models.

We walked past each other and locked eyes, and as soon as I walked out of the gym this wave of misery just consumed me. Because I know, deep down, that girl will never find me attractive. She'll never look at me in the way I look at her.

It doesn't matter how much I workout, how much I work on my dress sense, my hygiene, et cetera...that girl will never want me.

I was not born with the natural gifts and the stable trajectory during childhood to end up in the same social rank as her. I can only assume what her life is like, but I can guarantee a woman that looks like that is doing way better than I am. Academically, financially, socially, with everything.

And I'm not even an unnattractive guy. I'm no Henry Cavill, but I'm tall, I'm a healthy weight, and I have a decently symmetrical face. Even with that I just know I'm light years below her league.

So my question is should I kill myself? Or is there some hidden snakeoil trick I can use to make myself look like a gigachad and be in the same league as women like her?
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>>33708764
>I saw a hot woman
>Should I kill myself?

Men are so retarded, it's fucking unbelievable.
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>>33708786
>men are retarded
>comma splice two sentences later
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>>33708786
The foid brain can't comprehend. Don't even try.
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>>33708820
The comma slice was in the same sentence where I called men retarded.

>>33708825
Pathetic and weak.
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>>33708836
>comma slice
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>>33708764
I won't read yet another I saw this woman at the gym, drive thru, checkout, bar, class and what do I say to her/cope with the resulting limerence threads. See the archive.
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>>33708851
You don't understand. Your picrel is not even close to how otherworldly she was.
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>>33708764
>So my question is should I kill myself?
Being a pathetic simp for women is a good reason to kill ur self yeah
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>the girl in question
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>>33708860
Agreed. So many guys around me have lost their fuckings minds and act like women are the only reason to live. I get it, they're hard as shit to get and the feeling is like heroin when you do. But jesus christ so many guys are just giant faggots about it. Realistically you get the girl and after the honeymoon phase you're right back to being bored and miserable because they will never live up to what these guys build them up to be in their heads. Also, how do you not feel like throwing up in disgust at being such a pussy? Idk. Lotta chicks are fucking retards like the one above and will never understand but these dudes who think a woman is gonna bring them eternal happiness are just as retarded and delusional. They're basically women themselves.
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>>33709039
It's not about women bringing you eternal happiness. Getting the most attractive woman and reproducing with her has always been the sign of peak male success. It's natural to want that.
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>>33709054
Ok, and it's natural to want to be emperor of the world and have an unlimited harem. Are you gonna fucking kill yourself if you don't get that? Grow the fuck up. Also
>muh success
Get off instagram and tiktok and stop listening to retard normies.
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>>33708764
If you just thirst over women for their face then youre no better than them fucker
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The cool thing about attractive women is that most men think like you, and when men like me have the balls to actually talk to her AND be confident, our chances are better. Not amazing, but doable in my case.

It's important to recognize her beauty. I highly suggest you find a way to talk to her and have the feeling and experience in your head for when you talk to another woman of similar caliber, maybe even lesser. You would be surprised that a woman you may think is not as beautiful will turn into a beautiful woman after talking to her, kissing her and having sex with her.

Enjoy this life, anon, it's all you have.
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>>33708764
gotta kill yourself so us ugly niggers have a chance
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>>33708764
>what if.... I saw a hot girl?
>AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
okay

>It doesn't matter how much I workout, how much I work on my dress sense, my hygiene, et cetera...that girl will never want me.

how fuckin bad is your hygiene bro that it needs to be listed

and HOW do you dress?

>social rank
what social rank this isn't india

not yet anyways
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>>33708764
How do you know a woman won't find you attractive?
Self-defeating, loser mentality.
Unless you are brown, in which case please GTFO out and go back to India.
And how do you know you would actually find this woman attractive? You might talk to her for 5 minutes and find she disgusts you.
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>>33709696
There are definitely women who find me attractive. But they are women in my league. The kind of attractive but definitely room for improvement league. I wanna be in the top of the top.
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>>33708764
I'll give you an actually useful trick OP. Know that she knows how incredibly beautiful she is and her pain will be all the greater when she walls out. She will experience the same yearning that you have felt over something you can never achieve no matter how much you want it. The equation is balanced. There, now you can cope over any hot woman.
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>>33710271
Well admittedly that is how I cope. I tell myself that one day she will look like a wrinkly, lop sided, bag of chicken bones.

Not super comforting in the now, considering she will probably look incredible for atleast another 10 years. But one day our statuses will be equal.
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So much fucking cope and gaslighting in this thread, lmao, female creatures are straight up evil.
>bro just embarrass and humiliate yourself by inflating the egos of hot bitches even more

OP, I know how you feel and many men feel this way.
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>>33710300
Even your post is cope
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>>33710307
In what way? Life isn't a fairytale Disney movie where the non-Chad gets the hot bitch, you absolute fucking retard. Be realistic.
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>>33708786
It's not about hotness. It's unattainable beauty. There's a reason most art by men throughout the ages have been of or about beautiful women. Appreciation for the enigmatic and unattainable nature of beauty is definitively male.
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>>33708764
No.

If this occurrence breaks you, then you don't deserve authority over your life.

Then I claim your soul in aetherius.
And command you to live.
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>>33708764
She harvested your loosh when you locked eyes, that's what brought on the sudden depression. She was an extra-dimensional being disguised in human form which is why she was so impossibly beautiful. There are more of them among us than you think. You should go back and find her and beg to be her human toilet for eternity. If you are very lucky, she will grant your wish.
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>>33710329
>lmao, female creatures are straight up evil
Literal sour grapes
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>>33710462
Literal sour grapes? As opposed to figurative sour grapes? I would think they aren't literal considering we are talking in a 4chan thread.
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>>33708764
People are weird, maybe she'd like you. Will never know until you try
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>>33708764
>I saw the most beautiful girl ever and instead of saying something I want to kill myself because of imaginary thoughts about how other people see me.
You realize girls like that, in reality. are the least hit on *because* they're so beautiful and so many faggots are too weak to take a chance? An average to slightly above average chick gets hit on more than her because she's "low hanging fruit". You shouldn't kill yourself because "you'll never get that girl." You should kill yourself because you actually had a shot but were too pussy to realize it.
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>>33709039
Yup exactly some guys in the years of teenage and 30 yo just love all woman and like gooning a lot trust me

when I was a teenager I was gooning to some random women and think they are attractive, but trust me you'll drain out and lose interest in that girl after one month, I didn't try it with a real girl I tried that with a fucking PILLOW I was hugging the pillow so tight imagining it was a blond girl and ts but after like a month I stopped hugging it I lost interest in blond girls anyways so that's just desires and not a thing to trust
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>>33708764
No anon it's just hormones

try hugging a pillow and imagine it's that girl you liked you'll lose interest in hugging that pillow in a month or so trust me I did that when I was a teenager, that's just desire

>Should I kill myself?
No bitch that's just a fucking girl try asking her about anything, like really say to her "is there a conditioner here?" or something like that and just wait, if she didn't do anything leave and come back the next day if she didn't care or even look that means rejection so yeah it's that simple
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>>33708825
I'm a man and I agree that you're mentally ill and/or retarded.
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>>33708764
>So my question is should I kill myself? >Or
No or's ifs or buts mister, you know what you gotta do, cheerio

In all seriousness though, consider the following - you being this way is extremely unattractive, and you are not alone. The cycle of expectation and disappointment is present in the journey of every man who tries to get with women. My best advice to you is to try and let it affect you less, accept it but of course only up to a point. Realize that every woman who doesn't want you isn't the end because there are always more, and finally, do things that you enjoy that preferably have females in them too, and keep doing them and meeting new people.
That's how you'll get a gf eventually, as a guy who's well socialized with women and sees them as normal and not as something to either be obsessed over and feel so much FOMO over or something to be bitter about and avoid entirely.

I'm speaking from experience, I'm a 4channer who's actually breaking the barrier, I'm on the cusp of getting a gf. I've got three girl friends at the moment and all are single and I'm extremely excited about 2 of them.
You got this man
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>>33709402
LMA FUCKING OOOOOOOOO
THIS STUPID NIGGER THINKS HOT GIRLS THAT DON'T KNOW THEY'RE HOT EXIST
YOU STUPID RETARD JIGABOOO EVERY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HAS 100 MEN IN HER PHONE BLOWING UP HER DMS TRYING TO HIT, YOU THINK SOME CORNY NIGGER APPROACHING HER IRL IS GONNA MAKE A BLIP ON A HOT GIRL'S RADAR? LMAOOOOOOOO
>>33710300
This. Avoid the foid.
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>>33711952
>THIS STUPID NIGGER THINKS HOT GIRLS THAT DON'T KNOW THEY'RE HOT EXIST
That's not what he said my illiterate friend.



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