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Why is there so much mass hysteria around age gaps? Is this something I have to be wary of as a man in his 30s?
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>>33710222
I'm 40 and dating an 18 yo
is it weird sometimes
of course it is, sometimes we don't have anything to talk about
but things haven't changed to the point where there is 0 things to talk about, and even then, I tell her about how we had to pay for each message and she tells me about tralalero tralala or what the fuck is a 24 gold karat labubu or something.
People usually mind their business, that's for sure, I have been looked with scolding eyes just once, and curiously it was by a dude that must have been around my age and surely had a daughter around the age of my gf.
Who sent him to have a daughter so young tho.
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>>33710279
Seems like its mostly other men that are mad
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>>33710222
Because there's such a maturity difference, the gap tends to shorten as you age up but people who are freshly leaving high school mentally speaking still wear diapers. You can do whatever you want but I'll still think it's weird if you're of an age where you can make mentally sound decisions and choose to be with someone who can't precisely because of their inexperience. It'd be like a student getting with their master, or a child with someone of their parent's age. A couple years isn't bad, it just matters where the gap is at in my opinion.

But honestly, you don't have to give a rat's ass about my opinion, I'm just a stranger on le frog forum.
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>>33710482
18 year olds can join the military and have an OF (which they’re routinely praised for), I don’t see them as infants and think it’s weird when people do honestly. Even more so with 20+ year olds. Adults can make adult decisions and there are levels to maturity across all ages both ways. I feel like people like you paint too broad of a picture.
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>>33710543
Just because an 18 year old can join the military doesn't mean they should and the same can be said about OF. The only people who support these things are knuckledragging retards who are either warmongers or libtards/gooners. When you look at young adults they're simply more babyish across the board. They make worse financial decisions, are more impulsive, are in far more reckless crashes to the point where car insurance is astronomically higher than them since insurance companies consider their entire age bracket a financial risk. They're more likely to drink and drive and generally practice unwise things. Young adults are still adults, don't get me wrong, but compared to other adults of other age brackets they may as well be tit-sucking toddlers with a ID.
>Adults can make adult decisions and there are levels to maturity across all ages both ways.
I do acknowledge this. There are people who are wise beyond their years, and there are middle-aged manchildren (like in /r9k/ lol). But in general, less mature people will be younger and more mature people will be older; yes, outliers do exist, but because they're outliers actually reinforces the idea that there is a standard level of maturity across ages. Unless if every single old guy who is with a younger girl is finding the exemption (which must mean that there are a lot of exemptions), I just think it's a little weird. People can do what they want but from my experience most of the younger gals who go for men that are much older than them typically have issues that stem from their father or lack thereof: not all, but most. I know for certain that when I was younger most people my age weren't ready for a mature relationship. So being the enabler of the mature relationship is weird to me. Also I realized I never really addressed your question in OP.
>Is this something I have to be wary of as a man in his 30s?
Not really, as long as they don't look like they're freshly out of highschool no one really cares.
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>>33710222
Depends on the age gap. If you're going for 18 because that's the legal limit people will question how low youd go otherwise (I would question it). But 25+ and age gaps don't really matter except to people who view it as generational market manipulation.
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>>33710586
I think you’re talking about like 50 year old men going for 18 year olds, I’m 30 and hopefully won’t be single by 50
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>>33710627
Yeah, like the other anon said. If you're dating low simply to go low, yeah that's pretty weird. The mass hysteria over age gaps is akin to how we have minimum wage laws in place, it's to stop businesses from taking advantage of their employees because we know they would pay lower if rules weren't in place to keep them accountable. If the age gap is just a secondary side-affect of the relationship, go date away and pound that pussy my man. Just don't go for any age that ends in "teen" geg.
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>>33710627
Even a 30 year old going after 18 years old is pretty weird. It's the 18 part that's weird, not the degree of gap.
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>>33710639
Fortunately you don’t have a say between consenting people then
>>33710636
I would date a 60 year old woman at this point, I’m not specifically going for teens but long term I want someone younger and don’t think it’s weird. I don’t just want to pump and dump but if I’m on an app I’m setting between those ranges
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>>33710222
It's just another part of the depopulation agenda.
>>33710279
What do you mean, nothing to talk about? You don't need to be the same age to talk about any topic, except for maybe work.
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>>33710636
I don't intentionally choose to go low but that's the age where I get along the best with them
I've tried talking with girls around my age and it's always crap about work dynamics, mortgages, other people's success or failures, the impending doom of death of our parents, etc
when I talk to someone in their late teens or early 20s we can still talk about art, about history, about architecture, about movies, about memes and parties, about futures and hopes
I didn't know she was 17 when we started talking and I didn't have to wait since her country allowed a 16yo to date someone older but I didn't ask for her age until we were a couple days of all nighters talking about everything that made our hears and minds go wild
I'm the 40yo anon dating an 18yo the other girl is from another story and another time when i was 33, I've tried dating older, I don't like them physically that much but that I could tolerate if only I had stuff to talk about them
my parents never had to mortgage stuff, we're not poor. I never had to worry about work, my parent's health is pristine, I don't live to work, I work to live, etc etc
I just don't go along with people my age, I don't feel like I have anything in common with them.
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The objective, honest reason is that both older men and younger women like age gaps and always have, but women tend to do everything they can to reframe their perception of reality to help them cope with shortcomings.
I'm not trying to bash these women, but you're never going to find a truly happy one. The 30-somethings that hate it probably dated older but had too much attitude or pride (or were perhaps just not wise enough to tell when they're being used for sex) and broke up, never finding another relationship that checked as many boxes as the age gap one. They know they're losing out to younger women, so they react to age gaps the way incels react to interracial relationships.
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>>33710279
Where do you live?
Is she a fatass?
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>>33710821
Forgot to mention
>t. 30 dating a 22 year old
I'm not even saying that all age gaps are fine. Someone my age dating an 18 year old would make me think the guy is a loser because I fucking hate girls that are fresh out of high school. They're still on that "OMG LOOK AT ALL THE FREE DRINKS AND ATTENTION!!" high. But anything else is genuinely just cope from people who can't manage it.
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>>33710822
south america
she's of average weight, very skinny in american measures
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i'm 39 and dating a 25 year old and nobody in my social group thinks it's weird
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>>33710222
The reason is that millennial girls were told they should spend their 20s soul searching and building a career which is a fine choice if you know what you're getting into but then they end up depressed and holding a laundry list of "icks" that they've built up from past failed romances. So now they're left with higher standards and fewer suitors than if spent that time dating with intention.
Women my age seem jaded, materialistic. They're looking for solutions to their problems - money, self esteem - rather than a human connection.
Early 20s women give me way better energy, more green lights and signs that they are ready to bond

I'm not perfect though. I've been using sex as a means of bolstering my self esteem for 10 years so its not like I'm better than the women of my generation. Heh, they might even say I'm to blame but the facts are when I was ready to date - back in high school, in my early 20s - women avoided me like the plague. Then I dropped a few pounds, made some music with my friends and started fucking for fun and I haven't really seen the need to stop.

I think its a truly sad fact that men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Even true of guys who feel they've been dealt all the wrong cards. So we do in fact have the power to date younger. And older women are powerless. It's actually a sad thing but fuck my life is not a charity case.
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>>33710889
See no one ever has a story like your in the USA because of this >>33711100
>The reason is that millennial girls were told they should spend their 20s soul searching and building a career
Except most people aren't musicians either
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>>33710222
There’s a lot of reasons
>overcorrection from past larger age gap norms like 20+yrs
>infantilization of adults
>coping from older women who’ve wasted their best years
>college and urban life creates a bigger lived experience gap
>feminism going against the traditional view that the man should be the more powerful one in the relationship
>women in the workforce makes women see themselves more as equals in the relationship rather than gender roles with separate expectations
>younger women are dating older for security as the economy worsens but want to be able to cry victim at their convenience
Gender gaps can enable abuse sometimes but it’s hardly the main factor. And the way people demonize it means that’s it’s really about a broader belief system and trying to assert female power and autonomy. In some time it’ll fail and we’ll go back to somewhat traditional norms
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I dont get it either. It's pretty crazy. When I was 13 all the girls in my class were dating college guys who were 10 years older. No one ever said anything or complained. Now they're all complaining about age gaps on Instagram Twitter etc.
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>>33710222
Old women are just angry and don't want to have to compete with younger women. So instead of making themselves more desirable, they try to shame you into not getting with younger women until she becomes your only option.
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Bitter gen X and millennial females is why.
I looked through dating profiles just to see what a shit show it is.

Holly crap what a freak show.
2/10 woman demanding millionaires, 56 year old woman wanting kids. 35 year old woman wanting a man to pay for their world trips.

Seriously man 99% of these woman are not worth the headache. I'd rather fatally dive into lava than interact with the majority of modern western females their mindset is literal mental asylum's tier.

Heard one dumb bitch on tiktok call the female fertility window a quote "conspiracy theory made by men to oppress woman".

I have a high IQ. Probably can't tell from this because this shit pisses me off so much. None of these bitches are worth the effort. I wouldn't wish woman like this on my worst enemy.
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>>33712220
Big reason I can't stand some of them. At least boomer woman generally had the sense to not harass younger men. Gen X and older millennial woman they'll literally stalk.
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>>33712030
>When I was 13 all the girls in my class were dating college guys who were 10 years older
this is not okay anon
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>>33710279
I’m 35 and my “girlfriend” is 19. I just don’t know what she wants or needs sometimes.
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>>33710222
I find it's rarely ever women who object to age gap dating/relationship, but other men.

Probably just them trying to act more mature than they really are, talking all sorts of shit like how they're no longer a stupid and immature 22 year olds they're a wise old 27 year old and as such could never relate to the world of immature young 23 year old children.

>>33710279
If you can't hold conversation with someone, that's your problem. You couldn't hold a conversation with someone your own age.

Especially if you're posting on 4chan now, how are you acting oblivious to internet trends?

>tik tok? No I never heard of that, is that something you find in the yellow pages? can you fax me your email address?
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>>33712469
I only stay at her side, listen to her talk about her problems, give her advice as best as I can and try to put myself in her shoes and try to be understanding and supportive
most of them have daddy issues, mine has, so having an older male that is there for them is more than enough
yes you have to remember what it was like to have someone bad mouth you in front of your classmates and how would that make you feel back then to get interested in that (nowadays I wouldn't care, back then I cared a lot), I've always had younger friends than me so I'm very used to this dynamic, I guess if you've never done stuff like this it must be tiring or unbearable even, I like it a lot.
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>>33712496
>>33712508
this is me
I can hold conversations no problem, I was trying to approach anons on the thread from a non bragging angle because people just stop taking you seriously unless they are those lame retards that want everyone to be sigma chads or something to pay attention to them, not realizing those people don't exist actually and it's all a lame act to get money from them.
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>>33712469
That’s because she hasn’t grown up yet
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>>33712522
if you're having problems with your kid and you talk with another dad on the line of the supermarket and the other dad tells you "I have 0 problems with my kid, he's just perfect and we get along just fine" do you keep talking to him about your problems or do you just shut up and bottle it up.
of course I know what a labubu is and of course I know what a tralalero tralala is, we even play steal a brainrot from time to time, I was putting random examples
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Honestly I think that if you are a good-looking, handsome, fit man who doesnt act or look like a weird freak, you should be fine.

If I had a daughter, I wouldnt like her dating a 40 year old man. And also, it is not about the age gap per se. It is about mental development gap.

Women tend to grow faster mentally, but their development, although fast, is short. Meaning at the age of 25 she will stay more or less the same for the rest of her life.

Men tend to evolve, grow continuously all ther lives. Yes, there are exceptions to both of these rules, but I am talking about general trends, not exceptions.

Sometimes a 20 year old women can be much smarter or wiser than a 35 year old average woman. I remember thinking the same thoughts that I do now, when I was a 18 year old myself. Of course my thoughts have developed, but the core thinking process always remained the same.

So, when you see a 20-year old smart woman, and she is much smarter than your average 35 year old Stacy, that is also normal. She will stay like that most of her life. She is mentally advanced already. And you might be on the same page with her mentally-wise, if you are a 30 year old man. Or 40 year old.

20 year olds, male population, most of them are underdeveloped. It is not their fault though. They will catch up later in life if they want. So, mental compatibility is the most important thing. And it can span different generations and ages across genders.
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>>33712817
>Meaning at the age of 25 she will stay more or less the same for the rest of her life.

Dumb as shit, people always evolve.
What you say goes for the average cuckservative as well, he marries and then believes he has "made it" and no longer any need to learn new thigns and develop.
Then he looks stupid when his wife ditches him ten years later for being a boring fat fuck who only wageslaves and watches TV.

Your post is just pants-on-head retarded, some people develop at all stages of life, others do not. Its not gender specific.
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>>33713106
>Cuckservative
As opposed to actual cuckold leftist basedboys and their wives black boyfriends?
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>>33713205
nta but both sides are pretty cucky
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I had a classmate who dropped out of highschool because his 80yo dad died. I'd hate that if that was my kid, I prefer to die childless.
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>>33710675
it's not that you don't get a long with the rest of your age; it's that you sound like you're still 18 yourself. they were attempting to have actual adult conversations with you while you're clearly mentally behind and probably believe something like having favorite mangas in common is a sign of 'twu luv.'
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>>33710222
I'm under impression that it's mostly libtards seething, men or women it doesn't matter.

Go on generic subreddit and you will most likely get called a pedo, go to conservative subreddit and it's way more likely people will be cool with it. Go on japanese speaking forum and you will find that people don't care. I think that europoors are also more open to age gaps than burgers. I'm polish and I also have few examples in my life where girl in her teens is/was in age gap relationship. Most recent would be my friend in late 20s dating 17, now 18yo and her father pretty much wanting to be buddies with my friend

>>33710829
Either all of it is ok or none of it is. That's pretty hypocritical for you to bash your peers for going after 18-19yo where you are dating with a relatively large maturity gap yourself.

I just love it how people come up with dozen of reasons why what they are doing is ok but going further than that is crossing the line
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>>33713746
funny part is older people do go back to having a favorite piece of music and feeling like life is worth it because they heard that music, it's only adult people that are trapped in a rat race and unbearable to talk to.
some of my best friends my age live a carefree life like me and worry about attending concerts overseas or what car are they buying their dad for his birthday and they are a delight to talk to, but you know, they still don't look as hot as an 18 yo girl you can talk about the same stuff with.
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>>33710222
Being the ripe old age of 25 and having worked with numerous 18 year olds fresh out of school, from my experience I have very few things in common with them. I don't get a lot of their references. I don't understand some of the shit they say. I think they come off very childish.
This has been universal across all 18 year olds who have joined the company.
I could not see how anyone else can be around them and not find them childish in their current state, and going on for at least 2 years in their careers.

I find ±2 years of my age is my preference. In this range I do not experience any of the things mentioned above.

I think anyone who is only going after fresh 18 - 19 yearolds as an adult (25+) is for lack of better terms, attempting to use the 18 - 19 yos lack of life experience and general stupidity to for their perverse gain.

Saying this however, I don't particularly care deeply about this. I think the types of girls who have the long term ramifications of these kind of relationships are not ones I would probably get along with anyway - hence not really on my dating radar so it's not my problem.
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>>33710222
Your pic sums it up
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>>33713839
Some people have no respect for anything least of all themselves
I know someone who dated not only a high schooler, but a fat high schooler. It's like dude what are you doing
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>>33713839
>attempting to use the 18 - 19 yos lack of life experience and general stupidity to for their perverse gain.
This is you projecting. If you go on a dating app and an 18 year old sets their preferences to 30 let’s say, it’s mutual consenting and beneficial agreement. There’s hardly any significant difference between an 18-25 year old. Just because you’re an autist who can’t connect with young people doesn’t mean everyone else is
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>>33713795
All i said is that they're losers for dating that age group for dating someone undesirable and annoying. I never bashed the age gap.
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Do incels actually believe that 30-year-old women look like elderly grandmas? Kek. No wonder they can't get laid.
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>>33714478
NTA but thinking there’s a huge difference between 18 and 21 is absolutely retarded and speaks more on you than anyone else honestly
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>>33714486
The OP pic is hyperbolic for the sake of being silly. We don't think they look elderly, they just look older and usually have tons of emotional and mental problems if they're single at that age.
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>>33714486
Less about looks and more about baggage, bad attitudes, fertility, being coal burners, being extremely libtarded, etc etc. and yeah the consensus is that men age better than women.
>incel
Roastie
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>>33714493
Think what you like I guess. There's not a huge difference, 18-19 year olds are just unpleasant to be around.
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>>33714498
>roastie
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>>33714506
>Need seething strawman images to rebutt a word
Roastie is the nigger word for women kek
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>>33714506
Everything the chud on the right is saying is correct thoughbeit
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>>33710222
Depends on the individual.
I am a older zoomer who dates within the elder millennial bracket. I think for me it may have to do with the ages of our family members, parents, and siblings.
I was born in 2002, but my oldest sibling was born in 1984, and subsequently my siblings are in the millennial-zillennial generation. My parents are boomers-early gen X, same goes for my aunts/uncles.
I have coworkers that are my age or younger and their aunts and uncles are closer to my age, or their parents are closer to the age of my siblings or even younger.
So while my partner may be older than me, the ages of our family have no gap at all. This makes it easier to relate to.
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>>33714506
Brown incels exist
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>>33710222
there is an actual psyop happening. there is some organization or foreign government doing this to destabilize america. it's one of many psyops meant to demoralize americans and make them give up. it's also to lower our birthrates when men are driven away from the most fertile demographic of adult women
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>>33710482
>>33710616
>>33710639
>>33710636
you are NPCs and have been brainwashed
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>>33712817
>>33713106
>>33713839
>>33710616
>muh 25
25 has no significance and isn't the "real" adult age. This is a redditor pop science myth that gets spouted by uneducated people who don't understand what it even means
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>>33710586
>>33710482
>>33710616
there is literally nothing wrong with a 30+ year old established man dating and marrying an 18 year old. that's how it was done for 99.9% of human history. Only in the last 10 years has that suddenly become an issue
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>>33714486
why do you care if they go for 18 year olds?
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>>33710636
>because we know they would pay lower if rules weren't in place to keep them accountable
>Just don't go for any age that ends in "teen" geg.
this is an NPC canned line about how "you would go lower if you legally could" when talking about 18 year olds. 16 is already the legal age in most of america and the world. and in the majority it's for anyone older. your argument makes zero sense
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>>33717926
>>33717934
>>33717941
>>33717957
imagine samefagging this hard
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>>33713589
Pity be upon you
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>>33718079
you don't even know what samefagging is, you are retarded
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Lol I'm 27 and I have two male coworkers in the early 20s range and they get furious whenever one of the 18 year old girls starts flirting with me, it's hilarious and I love rage baiting them about it, always ends with them seething.
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>>33718174
Yeah fuck them I'm gonna date legally aged young women and there's nothing they can do about it.
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>>33710222
>be 33 y/o
>get crushed on and hit on by a 23 y/o
>god damn thats 10 years, theres no way I land this when she finds out
>eventually it reaches a point where I have to say it because she outright confessed
>is actually okay with it
>i was the only one freaking out at the gap
idk man
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>>33718230
Same here, some girls get spooked though
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>>33718230
10 years when you're 33 and she's 23 isn't much verse 10 years when you're 28 and she's 18
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>>33718299
What about 26 and 16?
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>>33718311
that was me and my ex (legal in my country)
we stayed together for 5 years
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>>33718331
Why not longer?
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>>33713205
shitberals being literal shit eating faggots doesn't make cuckservatives not cucks.

both "sides" are on the "left" as far as i am concerned. if you don't support the Divine Right of Kings you aren't really right wing.
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>>33713795
>go to conservative subreddit and it's way more likely people will be cool with it.
the christcuck brand of conservative is against it too. church ladies and their cuck husbands are just as bad as feminists and their cucks.
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>>33713795
>uses reddit
the absolute state of this board
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>>33713839
>I think anyone who is only going after fresh 18 - 19 yearolds as an adult (25+) is for lack of better terms, attempting to use the 18 - 19 yos lack of life experience and general stupidity to for their perverse gain.

or maybe, just maybe, hear this out
they want to be with younger, hotter, tighter.

you don't need to "have things in common" with the hole you squirt inside. you don't have things in common with them anyway, they are fucking FEMALES. you want to be with someone you have things in common with you are basically a faggot cause what you want is a MAN.

I don't have nothing in common with no FEMALE cause I ain't one. The only thing I want to have in common with a female is my dick in her pussy. And that works best when she is at her best looking which is late teens. Sorry that's how biology works.
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>>33718550
He’s countering your flimsy argument that men “only” date younger women because of some nefarious abuse reason. Most men just find younger women more attractive, it’s that simple
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>>33710279
>who sent him
based mexican predator unc
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>>33713839
I'm 30, went back to school after a failed career. 18 yo, and even the few 16 yo guys i talk to, are immature in the sense of ditching assignments, not studying on their own and pranking each other roughly. They spend their time playing minecraft and browsing instagram, making references to local memes. From my experience people were like this all the way up to 25 when I was that age and lose contact with that cohort, except they worked harder the older they got.

As for me, I was a loner with my generation, I'm still a loner with the zoomers, except I'm respected and often looked up to by zoomers. Age doesn't make a difference if you're an autistic fuck who spent all his youth in anime, games and 4chan as an ESL. Nobody had hobbies in common with me then, nobody has them now.
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>>33711965
>In some time it’ll fail and we’ll go back to somewhat traditional norms
elaborate
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>>33717921
I agree. No way has it been this scrutinized before in the past
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>>33710222
It's dysgenic
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>>33718679
correct. I just don't find women my age attractive for some reason. I think it's because they're my peers
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>>33718754
And? The world was worse in many ways in the past.
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>>33718762
oh, don't worry. It's going to get much worse
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>>33718754
probably because most men in the past were noble and loyal. They would take on someone of a younger age and would actually provide and protect them. Nowadays most men simply only want pussy and that's it, no fatherhood, no providing, nothing. The men back then were in it for the long run, the men today only want cheap satisfaction like >>33718389 for example. They're spineless and unable to commit to anything, why should a young lady waste her life with a sack of shit who won't stay by her side when she gets older?
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>>33718908
I think we might be stereotyping a bit here.
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>>33718908
What about the young men her age who pump and dump her? Why is that fine but an older guy doing that an issue? And how do you even know an older guy doesn’t want to be committed and marry her?
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>>33718964
Nobody said it was fine dimwad, that's literally the problem I was describing is that most men nowadays pump and dump because the man/woman in question is YOUNG. Because the youth is untrustworthy and those that guide it, we shouldn't pair untrustworthy people together dummy. It's not like how it used to.
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>>33718762
>>33718908
it wasn't this scrutinized 5 years ago. this is clearly not organic and a result of a psyop. you people are probably bots that are part of this psyop
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>>33718908
>probably because most men in the past were noble and loyal
Premium incel revisionist history
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>>33718723
Dude, I'm in the exact same boat. Except that sometimes I can actually talk to those young people
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I was 31, dating a 21 and it was kinda shit. I had so much more experience with life then she did. I really didn't want to rub her nose in it so had to watch what I said. There's also the fact she wanted to travel and I'd spent the last 10 years travelling so I wanted to stay put. She was so fucking beautiful, though.
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>>33710279
>is it weird sometimes
You are old enough to be her dad.
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I’m the opposite, I’m 21 and find 30+ year old women so beautiful and great to be around. I want one to love me so badly but I don’t know where to find one that does
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>>33719800
if I had a kid at 22 and I'm not poor so I wasn't ever going to do that
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>>33710482
There is no maturity difference unless you're a pedophile dating underage girls. Once a woman is an adult, that's as mature as she will ever be, at least until she has kids, then she will mature a bit more.
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>>33710482
>It'd be like a student getting with their master
That's exactly what women want though.
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>>33719859
women also want to murder babies
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>>33719908
Some of them, yeah, and some guys also want to rape teenagers. People are just evil, bro. Try to find someone who isn't.
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>>33710222
I don't really see anything morally wrong with it as long as you're both consenting adults. But there are some practical issues. Someone born in 1990 isn't likely to have much in common with someone born in 2005 for example.
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Honestly the AoC should just be changed to 14
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>>33710413
Women seem to prefer older men. I've been rejected more than once for being too young.
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>>33711965
Infantilization of adults is a big one. Go on Xitter and you'll see people unironically say "She's a 22 year old CHILD"
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>>33719969
you don't wanna say the quiet part out loud anon, I've known girls who were around that age dating guys in their mid 20s and no toxicity or anything was going on, but try to argue that with people, it's not as if every girl is doing it but those that do it would feel more covered about having access to proper sex ed and resources to avoid teenage pregnancies if the law saw them as an option instead of as an aberration of the law. It's not such an isolated phenomenon that it shouldn't be at least contemplated
but like I said try defending that position in any public place and see how you fare, even as a female doctor specialized in demographics
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It's mostly a Gen Z thing, but for the most part, the entirety of Gen Z has been psychologically subverted by feminist propaganda. Back then, the only people making a fuss about a man, say, 28 years of age dating an 18-21 year old, would, for the most part, be a man hating feminist bull dykes and jealous nerds or betas. It's gotten so bad now, that a man aged barely 25 years of age, can be openly called a pedo for dating a 19 year old by not just women in their early to mid 20s, but also "men" in the same age bracket. We've got literal hood niggas, actual ghetto hood rats spouting feminist rhetoric both online and in person. Imagine telling someone that lil D'Vontay will be calling another guy his own age a pedo for dating an adult woman in the future, they would have called you crazy. I've met actual zoomers who are. 19/21 tell me that they wouldn't date an 18 year old girl because they're afraid of being called a pedo, and even after me telling them that it's not wrong and it's completely natural they still adamantly stick to their ways. Societies fucked, well, American society anyways. Americans are constantly being psychologically attacked and subverted both online, and in real life, we're literally living in 1984.
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>>33717957
>this is an NPC canned line
Stopped reading. You need to learn to use you head for more then a hat rack
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>>33720053
It's important to remember that Gen Z grew up during the 2010s when third wave feminism and #MeToo were mainstream. We watched Brett Kavanaugh get put on trial for allegations that had literally zero actual evidence. If you spend your developmental years being told that talking to a woman is literally rape, you're going to be a little nervous around women.
It's about risk aversion. You watch men get their lives ruined over false accusations so you try to make that impossible by avoiding women at all costs
Even though feminist bullshit is largely going away, the damage is already done.
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>>33720753
>NPC called out and shuts down
you were literally programmed to spout talking points. you are the one not using your head or questioning things
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>>33721037
the risk aversion doesn't explain why they get mad at other men for dating younger
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>>33718741
As the economy becomes less equal women will start to date older men (5-10yrs) and eventually it’ll become irreconcilable with the anti age gap narrative. This is already happening along with lots of soft prostitution like OF or pseudo sugar baby relationships. It’ll essentially converge back on something resembling traditional norms but milder. The reality is women don’t feel satisfied in relationships where her man isn’t more experienced and dominant in the long term unless she’s extremely mentally il
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>>33710222
I'm 40 and date as low as 23 although there's no real reason I wouldn't date a 21 year old for example. Most women I date are in the 25-28 range. Exactly one person out of all of the people I know have had an issue and she was a ridiculously pissed off aging feminist that just finally gave me a reason to block her number. 99% of people, man or woman, don't care.
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>>33721105
what's funny is most zoomer males did this to themselves. most have given up on doing anything and not cry when older men take "their" women
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>>33721203
Based. I kneel. To hell with those fat aging mentally ill feminists.
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>>33721492
he would actually be based if he went for 18-23 instead of stopping at 23
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>>33721886
He said he's not opposed to that idea though
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>>33721492
Perhaps not
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>>33721083
Because they are slowly finding out that feminism isn't real, and that nobody in the real world gives a fuck about any of that.
When I was a Zoomie, it was widely accepted that older guys hogged all the same age girls, which turned arounda few years later once we became the "older guys". Those Zoomeis are just realizing that women , in fact, don't work according to feminist theories and value manly and confident men.
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>>33721907
Perhaps not what? I think you replied to the wrong post.
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>>33721902
oh then very based
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>>33721916
>feminism isn't real
This. So much this.



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