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Are relationships supposed to be one sided?

>They only talk about themselves
>You have to talk about them or something related to them
>You have to ask questions and try to make it fun or interesting for them
>If you share something about yourself, they are instantly disinterested and don't care
>They don't care to ask you anything and don't want to know anything about you
>The moment you stop making any effort, everything stops
>They're sincerely not interested unless it's sharing something about themselves or their interests
>When they are having a bad day, you want to be there for them. If you are having a bad day, they don't care
>People who only ask how you are so they can talk about their problems
>Friends sometimes need more support after a bad day or life-altering event. That is normal. But if you have a bad day or life-altering event, they literally don't care
>They will dominate a whole conversation no matter how many people are present. If it's a one on one conversation then it feels like it's 90/10.
>Most advice about being a good listener and putting in effort is met with being it totally one-sided
>People just talk about themselves constantly
>If you are on a 2 hour date, they'll just talk about themselves constantly
>You may as well be invisible
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>>33710547
Too many people are like that. Thats why Im single
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>>33710547
No, that's why you need to find a person that's as much into you as you are into them
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>>33710547
>They only talk about themselves
Find someone else. That person is not a long-term partner.
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No, you're in a relationship with a narcissist

Like htf do you even talk about yourself for 2hrs?



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