>be me>almost 23 yo>5'3 & something like 4-5/10>still no gf and virgin >considering it's not really a problem knowing i'm not physically attractive even i would love to be in a relationship >grandma ask about how it's going with girls >says there's nothing>grandma shocked>uncle ask the same thing>uncle shocked>mfw>subject comes to a conversation between my mom and one of her old friends, we will call her Anna>She works part time in a sort of bar where I like to go to eat a little, alone or with some friends>Anna is shocked that a 23 yo guy still don't have any experience>She says she will try to help me>ffw 2 weeks >I go to this bar for a drink and a small meal after workout>Anna is here working>she talks about my "situation">she points to a girl around my age >Its a girl that often goes here to read on fridays>ask me if I find her attractive>yes >She tells me to approach her>stress.png>She tells me to hide my phone in my shirt and record my approach>mfw i'll have to do my first approach ever under in this situation >after some minutes goes to try the famous approach while recording>i find that really weird but it's for Anna so i'll delete it after anyway>The girl is reading Tolstoï's War and Peace >Approach her trying to be nice and talk about the fact the reads and that she is currently reading a book that I liked >Gets rejected>a bit sad that my first approach ever ended with a rejection but I suppose it is what it is>Anna seems shocked >She ask me if she can listen to the recording >tells its a bit akward but nothing wrong>she goes to the girl and ask her why she rejected me >I hear what she says>She says that i'm too short and i'm ugly>It's a bit rough but i'm just not her type, probably dodged a bullet>Anna shocked>Ffw days>Anna tells mom all young girls are bitches >She hates girls now>mfw i accidently turned Anna in an sort of incelHow do I change Anna mindset back to normal? Did I do something wrong ?
>>33720219You did nothing wrong. It is not your fault that everyone close to you is stupid
>>33720219I don't understand why everyone you know is so shocked that it is hard for you to meet girls when you're short an unattractive. No offence to you or anything OP, I respect you being realistic, just strange the people around you are so oblivious. Anyway, I'm a complete retard when it comes to dating and talking to women and I still managed to find someone and you will too, so don't overthink it. It will happen.
Yeah i think it will happen someday, just a bit later than the average I suppose.
>>33720266>is shocked that it is hard for you to meet girls when you're short an unattractive.Boomers don't know how modern dating works.
>>33720219She'll work it out. Women often don't understand how it works in general but older people will have even more of a problem because back in their times you lived differently. The Anna woman probably rejected a guy or two(or twelve) in her life as well but she tried to be gentle about it, so the direct and confrontational attitude of that girl shocked her.
