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Is there any point in believing in "love" or trying to get into a relationship if you have yet to have one at 25?
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Love is gay.
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at 26 i was married, owned my first house, and had my first kid
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>>33720682
Now how old?
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>>33720685
36 with 2 kids and own 2 houses now
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>>33720663
Yes, it can happen any time. I was my wife's first bf at 27. You should continue putting yourself out there
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>>33720701
>>33720700
No fear of divorce rape?
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>>33720710
i almost divorced her. she got fat and mean. she’s changed a lot. she lost the weight. but she’s different now. the reason i loved her before she no longer is that person. i think what has changed the most is she’s still my friend but i rely a lot more on my friends. i have more friends now than ever. and my wife is a good person to me and insanely loyal and loves me. but when i need to feel alive my friends can provide as much as she can. sometimes more. because me and my friends do epic shit. me and my wife do husband and wife shit. it’s nice to have both i guess
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>>33720663
Have you looksmaxxed and self-improved as much as possible
If you have and you still have nothing then yeah you can give up, you almost certainly haven't though
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>>33720794
I Incline bench 225lb and Squat 315lb. I buy nice middle class designer clothes like Michael Kors and Tommy Hilfiger
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>>33721007
What's your body fat %
How facially attractive are you
Do you have autism
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>>33721052
I don't think I have autism. I am Indian, so I don't think any Indian man can ever be attractive in America.
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>>33720746
>she got fat and mean. she’s changed a lot. she lost the weight. but she’s different now.
How? Please, tell me, because my wife has gone through the same thing and I don't want to give up on her but I need her to be the woman I fell in love with again
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>>33721093
You are skinnyfat and definitely not lean
>Indian
Honestly your worst trait, sorry man
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>>33721119
There it is
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>>33720663
Hey bro. I am rooting for you. I don't really know what to say besides that. Can't offer you any advice.
I'm turning 35, Kissless Virgin, cliche of cliches. You are not alone. One love.
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>>33720663
I used to know a woman who went on her first ever date at the age of 40. Last I heard she was happily married. It's not too late.
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>>33722716
Jesus christ though, can you imagine the toy collection? Vrrr vrr.
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I want a serious relationship but I want a good woman that is a teammate rather than a liability.

Someone who is in my corner and vice versa
Someone who I can trust
Someone who I can take care of
Someone who can help me experience what love really is.

One day. I know im handsome, but God damn it. Being hot complicates things, because you gotta filter out bad options while also not psyching yourself out when good ones come along.

I'm 26 but I feel 45
I'm so close to just losing my shit and giving up being a perfect man. I used to fuck around but stopped because I kept getting hurt/got sick of that temporary life.

It doesn't help that my family are unironically nutjobs who I have to take care of.

It's like trying to fight with one arm tied behind your back and your opponent has a knife.
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>>33720663
Love is easy. Find a dog to cherish, and it'll return the favor.
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>>33722857
Underrated. Had a Husky for the past 12 years. That boy was the goodest boy.
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>>33721099
i had to sort of give up on that. me and my wife were partners in crime at parties. we were partiers. we would drink a lot. take e pills. she could drink me under the table. our apartment was the party house. we had people over every weekend. we went out to bars and our house was home base.

now she can barely stay up past 11. a big drinking night for her is like 4 drinks. i think she’s been drunk once in the last 5 years. i got her to take some e and cocaine with me a couple times, but she doesn’t really want it anymore. but this has been the biggest help is telling her i need you to do this. being really clear. we are going to this music festival and i’m bringing a ton of cocaine and we’re doing it all night. or i brought e to this trip and you’re rolling with me. she’s been ok here and there but might do things like this 1-3 times a year and before it was 20+.

the thing i had to accept is that’s not who she is. i can’t force it because she doesn’t want to be forced. i have my own friend groups now that still party like this and i just do it without her. i would like her to be there. but i know if she was there it would be worse because she would want to leave.

she does enough stuff that’s worth staying. the big thing i kept going back to is let’s say i left her for someone else. that someone else would change too. i would go through the whole fucking thing again. women are the same. so it’s not that i want another relationship and another series of pain. that would be way worse than keeping what i have now and finding ways around it
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>>33722845
>I'm 26 but I feel 45
lmao just lol

you haven't the faintest idea what 45 even feels like. not in a million years
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>>33725664
these doomers are hilarious because they don’t even know what pain is yet
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>>33722716
Well yeah no one wants fat gargoyles
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>>33722908
A knot fan I see.



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