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politics tore me and my bro apart. we've been through a lot of shit together and we've been the best man at each other's weddings. we used to banter and say 'faggot haha tranny' all the time to each other one-on-one, but over time I came to know an FtM and i've felt awful about all the transphobic stuff i've said in the past.

my buddy and i talked about politics often, i'd always share crazy tweets and was like 'lol dude they banned trans people from bathrooms in X state this country is going under, these conservatives want these shooters to be trans so bad' and he just replies 'since when did you care so much about trannies' and i lost it. i told him that it's time to grow up from that shit and he just said 'jesus you're one of those now? fuck off then' and we haven't spoken in months.

what do? apart from my wife i don't have many friends left in my life.
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>>33721097
just leave him if hes a cunt man
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>>33721097
It's hard not to let a wedge form on topics like this. It feels like both parties have just become openly violently opposed to each other and nobody but the politicians pretends to have civility. I can have my views on trans, while being sympathetic to them too. They're being blasted on national news as groomers and evil people when all that trannies really have done by and large is adopt a persona they feel comfortable with. As someone who hates my paternal family, I've got plans to change my name, because being named after my dad upsets me a little. That's just...choosing my identity. Maybe trans is more extreme but outside of the few who do try to groom or abuse children, I'd rather just live and let live.
I wish I had answers anon, I really do. I only have one friend myself. Friends are hard to maintain. Gotta find people who don't dump you for briefly mentioning politics they disagree with...quite an endangered species of people.
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>>33721097
OP the tranny experiment from 2016-2020 is over, only a few nutjobs on the left and trannies themselves are still clinging to their identity movement. 10 years from now we're all going to look back on this and say 'what the fuck were we thinking'.

cutting off a best friend is a little extreme desu but no rational person in 2025 wants to be friends with screeching leftists anymore and i say this as someone who hates trump and wanted bernie to win
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>>33721151
The experiment is much older than that. I recently saw archives from the 90s internet and can't help but feel like society since the death of geocities has failed those folks
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>>33721170
>oh no society faileed 0.1% of the population that's disproportionately dudes who watch too much anime cutting their dicks off

the only wonder in this shitty thread is OP claiming to actually have met an FtM in the wild
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>>33721188
>minority therefore discarded
What do you think of white people and bald eagles?
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>>33721097

what precisely do you mean by 'support?' and what made you change your views?

lacking that, this is a thinly veiled /pol/ thread.
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>>33721097
as >>33721125 said.
what you should do after? just meet new people who aren't cunts
besides that you are correct about having to grow up, at the end of the day we're human and if we continue believing in backwards beliefs we'll never grow, best of luck lad
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You already crossed the line, you'd basically have to renounce your beliefs if you still wanted to be friends with him. Which I wouldn't suggest because I know you'll just relapse.
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>>33721097
You can be more christlike and feel compassion for the gender cripples without being a smugfag about it, OP. That only works when you're both in the same echo chamber and shitting on the same Others.
With many of the anti-transfags it's not knowing how GD works, what dysphorics' life is like, and rightfully not having a lot of tolerance for preachy cunts. All about the approach with those.
Some will be too set in their ways, some will have developed Tranny Derangement Syndrome, and their echo chambers don't help. But with a lot the approach will make the difference. Not sure if it's too late for your ex-bff (no bromo), but that's another reason the lizards (politicians, women) say to talk about F.O.R.D. and not RAPE (religion, abortion, politics, economy) in polite (i.e. possibly incompatible) company where you don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Tldr lol urmumgay
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>>33721097
>apart from my wife i don't have many friends left in my life
boohoo nigga
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>>33721097
>best friend of 10 years wants (...)
Based friend. Stopped reading right here, because you're a cringe tranny apologist.
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Dear leftists OP, I get that from your perspective "growing up" seems to mean "not making fun of trannies" but there is another growing up beyond that which comes with the inevitable realization that you should not worry about other people's problems.
If you feel bad for transgender people, well, you know what, I feel bad for them too. But you don't need to "protect" them to the point of destroying your friendships. You're picking sides in a fight that doesn't concern you.
And it's tempting to think that, actually, it concerns all of us but there is no us. There is no we. There never was
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>>33723919
This
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>>33721097
You're a faggot and you ruined your friendship by insisting on being a disgusting degenerate. Sorry



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