One of the most attractive girls I‘ve ever seen is giving me a chance, even though there are hoards of male simps in the replies on her social media. How do I not fuck this up?
>>33725598Just bee yourself
>>33725598Full story?
>>33725598what did you do that she's letting you in?
>>33725598Worrying too much about "not fuck this up" will inevitably (and ironically) make you fuck this up. Let things "flow" just as they did leading you to this situation. Make an update for us in the near future
>>33725598>giving me a chanceYou don't have any chanceAt best, she is letting you be an orbiterAll of these delusions are simply that, delusions of a ugly, lonely, and desperate incel
>>33725598>How do I not fuck this up?I’ll give you the non-nuanced version. Within moments of seeing a guy, a girl knows whether or not she would want them, and there’s nothing you can do to change that. (There is a four groups version with more detail, but that’s really needed here.) So, she either likes you or she doesn’t. If she doesn’t like you, there’s not going to be anything you can do to change that and you don’t want to be with her anyways. So, just act and behave if you know that she truly does like you. That you know she thinks you’re funny, smart, attractive, etc. Don’t wait for confirmation. Behave like that’s the truth.
>>33725606>>33725611We met on a random 4chan blogpost and exchanged socials, later confirmed identities and exchanged social media and such. It took some time because she doesn’t trust anons, that‘s why she was chatting on a sock puppet account at first. She told me she thinks I‘m really attractive and is open to being in a relationship with me. We have many shared interests and we‘re both pretty inexperienced sexually and romantically. I have no idea why on earth she chose me. Maybe personality does count after all.
>>33725598>there are hoardsreally? she has a hidden accumulation of men stored up? how is that possible
>>33725669Personality always counts! Never ever forget that
>>33725669Because this could be confusing:>exchanging socials>exchanging social mediaBy the latter, I mean popular social media where she posts herself. I had no idea about what she looked like at first.
>>33725674Fuck my ESL life>>33725633You might be right, but she is sharing a lot of personal stuff with me and wants to meet up, so she clearly seems to be interested.
I am exactly in your same shoes bro. Exactly in your damn shoes. My crush known as M is like that. She has guys who are million times more attractive than me in every way possible: intellectually, physically, emotionally, and so on and so forth. As an autistic I can't fucking compete with them. There is a guy who is 5 years younger than her who has more of a chance than me and he seems more emotionally immature than me, but what the fuck? I am literally the most cucked man in the world.
>>33725695Is this your Texas Maria ?
>>33725598I won't read app-addled threads. They're totally delusional.
>>33725709Yes my Texas Maria. She is a hot woman. She is so hot the sun can't compete. Literally everyday there is a guy trying to hook up with her.
>>33725717Weird … But have you heard the song Dear Maria ? You should , it fits perfectly
>>33725632I‘m attempting to. It‘s sort of hard for me to gauge whether this is going to lead to anything serious.>>33725643>There is a four groups version with more detailI‘m interested in those, anon. Feel free to talk more about them.>just act and behave if you know that she truly does like you. (…) Behave like that’s the truth.That‘s good advice, thank you. I tend to be a tryhard when it comes to relationships. Thin line between eagerness and desperation
>>33725717gross madison, maybe you would like me too- if i was a sluttinga around, cheating whore with an endless stream of orbiters. why keep doing this? just go be with her and leave the girl you are with. thats what you really want, right?
>>33725768Who’s Madison ? Give us the teaaaa
>>33725669so just stay the way you have been so far and don't change anything
>>33725751When people say to be confident or that confidence is attractive, that’s basically what they mean. Same as “just be yourself”. Women have a fundamental level of insecurity that is ingrained biologically, and that drives them to seek security from men. Not just physically and materially, but emotionally as well. Insecurity is unattractive in men because they are seeking their own security through you. If you behave nervous, then she can’t find safety in you for her own nervousness. Etc, etc.Also, there is nothing wrong with eagerness as long as it is genuine and not simpy. If she likes you, she will WANT you to like her. Be the positive aspects of their opposites: calmness during chaos, courage when their should be fear, etc. Just one last thing, consider that every single thing that you are nervous or fearful about, that she might be too. So be the person to her that you would like done for you.
>>33725669She's probably crazy. But you're going to be the same level of crazy so it might work
>>33725852Or a scam
>>33725936Still worth it to try
