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Are escorts, brothels, paid girlfriends, and girlfriend experience worth it for men that are truly unlucky with dating and relationships?
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>>33728781
Yes and no. They can make you feel better for a while if you buy into the fantasy and let yourself enjoy it rather than lamenting the fact it's not real, but if you can't do that then it will probably feel horrible.
It's also expensive and can be incredibly addictive.
If you do try it, DO NOT GET AN ASIAN, they're often trafficked, usually ugly and will treat you like a production line. Communication is a huge part of the experience, get someone of your ethnicity. Not that that's cheap.
Beyond that it's luck of the draw whether you get someone compatible with you, but generally speaking they've been extremely kind, patient and open in my experience. I could have been lucky, but you can also do some pre-vetting via online reviews, profiles or just meeting them (brothels usually sit you in a little room, they come and say hi and describe what they offer one by one, then you choose).
One fundamental thing though is if you're a staggeringly socially incompetent retard, it won't be easy for you all the same. They'll be very nice to you but it could still be an anxiety inducing situation.
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Don't be a fuckin John.
Stupid boy, fuck it nevermind go be a sucka' and hand that bag over baby.
It's fucking pathetic no wonder you can't lock a bitch down. Happily paying for it' for convince because you can't be damned to try and romance a woman.
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>>33728781
Never as a man give in to lust
Use it to fuel you to become stronger

The problem with the world now a days is that we fail to see the power of lust
We feel the energy and give in to the easy way out:
>porn
>hookers
>anime

What you should instead be doing is feeling extremely frustrated and using that frustration to fuel actual GROWTH in your life
Chasing dreams improving your position

Once you give in to the easy way out too much your life never improves
so don't goon or give in to cheap pleasure
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>>33728781
When you say "unlucky with dating and relationships" is this after you've tried
>getting fit and/or losing weight
>dressing better in cooler clothes
>nicer grooming and haircut
>socializing more by getting involved in group activities and making friends
>reading up and practicing improving your social skills if they suck
>approaching/flirting with and asking out a few dozen women and not just 1 or 2 before giving up
>getting better photos on dating apps if using them
or some combination thereof to get there or are you just another "woe is me" /adv/ lurker who barely gets out of the house, is a lazy slob and has asked out either none or one girl in the past 5 years in the most awkward way possible and didn't bother learning from it?
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>>33729032
I also would like to point out that you don't need to be 100% on all of these to be finding success, you have to be actively trying to fail to not have even a bit of dating experience here.
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>>33729032
If you have to do all those things to get a girl you'll never keep her
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>>33728781
The answer to whether almost anything is "worth it" or not will depend strongly on how rich you are.

The "girlfriend experience" isn't real, of course; but it can *feel* quite real if you get the right woman: it can engage the same emotions in you. The question is whether you can afford to pay for enough of it to make that desirable, or if it's just going to frustrate you because there's so little of it.
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>>33729061
You don't have to do all of them but each one maximizes your chances of getting the hottest and sanest girl possible. It's not even some super complicated stuff just basic shit that every guy should be capable of.
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>>33728781
Fuck no. They are for wrinkly old farts who want to feel young pussy again, or for conservative marriagefags who would rather stay in a sexless marriage than divorce.

If you try to replace genuine relationships with hookers, at it will get you is an expensive addiction and possibly even worse if you end up developing feelings for one of them. Or mistake their professionalism for genuine affection towards you.
Do this instead: >>33729032

>>33729061
>don't be fat
>don't be a sperg
>don't dress like you get your clothes from dumpster diving
>talk to women instead of hoping they will just materialize in your room
>nooooo its impossible

Really nigger?
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>>33729032
>>33730186
Not OP or those anons but I IMPROOOOOOVED all last year and it did absolutely nothing for me. My weight loss was super visible, TONS of compliments from dudes and older women (like grannies not hot cougars) about my "transformation." Flung myself into like half a dozen social activities and was constantly around women who I talked to, interacted with, got contact info from.
Zip, nada, nilch nothing.
In fact I only got into a relationship after I started letting myself go again. I had to dump her because in terms of everything but looks and sex she was very low quality. And that was from a dating app.

Now, your next trick will be some cope about how I'm ugly or "don't have a personality." Because truth is none of you faggots actually know anything about women. How the fuck could you, you're on 4chan.
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I've been wondering this too.
Got out of a 3 year relationship almost 3 months ago, and I really don't want to get into a relationship right now... but god damn, I'm horny as fuck.
But I hate hook-up culture. Apps just fucking bore the fuck out of me. I just want to feel some physical intimacy. I think I'd be willing to even pay to just spoon with someone. Feel home bodily warmth.
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>>33730270
Dunno, if your IRL seethe reaches even a fraction of the intensitiy of your post, then its pretty clear why no one wants to be part of that.
Its pretty obvious that looks aren't your problem if you can score outwardly attractive women through dating apps.
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>>33730270
>Zip, nada, nilch nothing.
Skill issue.
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>>33730380
nta
So reacting and expressing in normal human ways bad, gaslighting and smug negging good? I see...
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>>33730380
>>33730586
>Vacuous intangible reasons
Will someone please pick up that phone? Because I called it.

Also do you think I'm going to be talking to women, or to anyone at all in public, the way I need to scold you zoomer shitheads?
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>>33731155
>Vacuous intangible reasons
"Give shit, get shit" is neither vacous nor intangible. If your persona in this thread is any indication of who you are IRL, you're an unlikeable entitled asshole. Simple as.
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>>33731556
nta again
You are at minimum equally unlikeable and entitled from your persona in this thread
Maybe you're a retard who extrapolates far too much, or maybe you really are unlikeable and entitled
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>>33731155
>the way I need to scold you zoomer shitheads?
I am much older than you anon. And much, MUCH wiser and more experienced than you.
It is not your place to "scold" anybody, let alone your betters. This is a perfect example of your shitty persona the other anon pointed out.
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>>33731556
Hearing people say retarded and incorrect shit tends to bring out the asshole in me.
>>33732053
>I am much older than you anon. And much, MUCH wiser and more experienced than you.
Ok kid I think I hear your mom calling you, time to stop playing pretend as a boomer.
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>>33732068
How old are you anon? It's a simple question, no larping or bullshit please.



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