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I am going to start college for accounting to become an accountant because ... well, I like it. However, accountants have like the status of worse than a grocery store worker. I think even computer engineers are more attractive to girls than fucking boring ass accountants.
Will I be able to get a girlfriend with my targeted career?
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As long as you have a well paying career you can get any woman you desire.
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>>33730212
If you find accounting appealing, you have more issues than getting a gf. Make sure you double major so you have enough credits for your CPA.

>>33730218
No. It creates some sort of baseline, especially for girls looking for "good enough" latching on to you.
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femanon here: women do not care about your job. are you an interesting person outside of your job? that’s what matters
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>>33730230
Absolutely don't listen to the tranny. They "don't care about your job" because they pretend like 6-figs with 5 weeks vacation is the baseline.
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>>33730212
Women under the age of 35 don't care about your job. They outearn men
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>>33730212
Women do care about your job. People who are pilots or pro mechanics or lawyers probably get way more pussy than some wagie working in fast food or retail.
Accounting is an office job so it is probably in the area where it doesn't hurt your prospects but won't help you much either.
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>>33730227
>If you find accounting appealing, you have more issues than getting a gf
I like the boring office work. I like working with rules and regulations. Maybe because it's a nice contrast to what I like to do in my free time, sports, playing piano, singing, dancing, learning a new language (currently French) etc.
I tried engineering but hated it, I tried working in construction and hated it, I did an intern as an assistant in accounting and kinda liked it. Boring work but I came home refreshed and had time for my hobbies and friends.
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>>33730230
YWNBAW
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>>33730271
Pilots and lawyers might get many women but their long-term relationships are always a complete mess. It can't be good for a relationship or marriage that you are away from home for weeks or that you work 60 hours a week and come home tired because your clients and work suck the life out of you.
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>>33730230
Not true. The only times ive been able to easily get dates is when I had an “oilfield job”
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>>33730230
HAHAHAHAGAHAHAHAAAAA!!!
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You realize right that you can have a life outside of work and you can use that to define yourself? Like yeah I am an accountant for 40 hours a week but I spend 20 hours a week doing xyz which makes life worth living, etc.
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>>33730218
Completely false. Every of today has a well paying career and a big house. That’s literally minimum requirement.
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>>33731167
Does your job even come up when you are just getting to know a girl? Like if your friend invites a girl you don't know and you hang out together, I don't think I would even talk about my degree or job. I was at a houseparty once and tried asking a girl about what she does and she just told me "I don't want to talk about that here and now".
It's not a fun or interesting conversation.
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>>33731250
Your “job” doesn’t matter.

Do you have a boat? Do you drive a sports car? Do you live in a penthouse? can you take her to the fanciest restuarants? Can you buy her the classiest watches?

If it’s “no” to more than two of these, good luck ever getting a girl.
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>>33730212
If your job comes up, you need to work on your conversational skills. Its just something that girls ask me when I let the conversation kinda peter out and they want to keep it going, otherwise it doesn't really come up until much later.
Might be different if you're Online-"Dating" or going for golddiggers, I have no experience with that though.
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>>33731335
My goal is to get girls that are attracted to money, becusee that’s what I have.

The problem is I don’t know how to showcase to girls I’m rich because if you’re not Chad they won’t even talk to you for two seconds.
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>>33731262
>Do you have a boat? Do you drive a sports car? Do you live in a penthouse? can you take her to the fanciest restuarants? Can you buy her the classiest watches?
>If it’s “no” to more than two of these, good luck ever getting a girl.
Premium incel cope
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>>33731335
How do you talk about your job if you don't have one or are a grocery store wagie? Yeah, my conversational skills definitely need work but I am open to improve them.
>>33731356
Fuck off pajeet, make your own thread if you need advice.
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>>33731356
>My goal is to get girls that are attracted to money, becusee that’s what I have.

You do you, but thats well withing "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" category. I have a hard time believing you are that unlovable, but suit yourself.
On the other hand, as an accountant you may earn well, but are fundamentally a better off wagecuck and therefore way out of your league when it comes to actual money.
And lastly, any golddigger worth her salt will just execute a well timed divorce rape once she has done her time to be eligible for alimony, would be an idiot if she didn't. So I hope you have enough cash on hand to get divorce raped every few years again with your appraoch.
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>>33731448
>How do you talk about your job if you don't have one or are a grocery store wagie?

I mean that the topic doesn't really come up in conversation naturally. Its just a filler, something people ask in favout of saying nothing. Because its one of those questions taht leads to more questions and keeps the conversation alive.
I've had friends I've known for years without knowing what they do for a living, its totally irrelevant in 90% of cases.

And sorry for replying to the jeet, my bad.
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Lots of personalitylets in this thread. I'm not attractive and I am persistently borderline homeless yet I write and play music and girls think I'm deep so I've never had an issue dating. I've had women buy me hundreds of dollars of clothing and give me a place to sleep and then I've gotten bored and broken up with them. I can't relate at all to the problems you guys have.
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>>33731457
So, do you think it's better to just never mention it as long as she doesn't ask and if she asks then just answer her honestly?
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>>33731462
Let me guess. Tall and have a big dick? You THINK your personality does all the heavy lifting but for men it's always genetics.
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>>33731466
I just wouldn't put too much weight on it either, way, when it comes down to it its just a standard issue office wagie job like almost everyone has.

Talking about jobs used to be important because Boomers built their whole identity around where they waged. Unless you happen to be one of the few people who do something they're actually passionate about its just not a very relevant topic in general.
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>>33731484
5'9" and dick barely 6 inches but above average girth. Girls don't know that until I've already gotten them into bed, though. I have a recessed chin. I walk around in public sometimes and see how many guys I pass before I see one with a worse chin and I get up to like 40 sometimes. I'm not even really charismatic or confident. I fumble a lot of approaches and I'm often obviously flustered.
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>>33731484
>Saaar is not the personability is the penus is big
>is of the needful Saaar

You konw what. I'm just going to assume every incel is a jeet moving forward regardless as to whether its true. Because they are the only kind of "man" who is actually so repulsive the may be unable to find a man.
So fuck off back to Bharatchan, Suckdeep.
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>>33731493
>above average girth
Girth is the most important measure. Girls give you a chance and then they are hooked on your above average(!) dick. It's always the same with you people
>bro it's your personality
>for me? yeah bro no I have a big dick but that doesn't matter
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>>33731510
You're right bro. You can go back to doomscrolling now. There is no point in ever approaching a woman because you don't have a slightly above average dick like I do. I bet your chin mogs mine. That's a pretty important feature.
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The job title won't really matter unless you come home smelling like sewage or garbage everyday.

The key is whatever job you choose will place you in enviornments where you can interact with women/on the regular run into women.

Jobs take up a lot of time, and that's a lot of time not prospecting lovers. Focus on the job you like but keep in mind if you're on an oil rig as an under water welder in the middle of bum-fuck-nowhere then you're gonna have a rough time in the game.
>T. My job is very isolating which sabotaged my social skills and opportunities to meet a good woman
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>>33731549
Accounting is like 70% women.
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>>33731549
>if you're on an oil rig as an under water welder in the middle of bum-fuck-nowhere then you're gonna have a rough time in the game

Nah, those guys slay. Thats a super tough job, actually harder and riskier than going to space. The level of fitness and mental fortitude required is on par with Navy Seals, and also those guys generally work a few months a year at most as the work pust extreme strain on the body and also pays absolute shitloads of cash due to the risk and prerequisites. That was really not a good example kek
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>>33731501
>suckdeep
Kek
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>>33730212
It depends entirely on the woman and how much she likes the guy. I'm very successful myself and for the longest time thought I would only date someone at my career level or higher. But, I happened to meet my current boyfriend at a friend's birthday party. He has to be the funniest guy I've ever met, he makes me laugh so effortlessly and we have the type of chemistry you can't even put into words. I found out after that night that he works at home depot. I won't lie, I was disappointed as my first thought. But as the days went on and we texted back and forth, I was so damn smitten nothing else mattered. And I knew I could easily afford our lifestyle if we ever happened to date so I settled on that part of my criteria for a boyfriend for him. I gave it a shot when he asked me out and we've been happily together for almost 2 years. I'd marry him in a heartbeat if he asked.

So again, depends on the woman entirely and the man she happens to meet. There's not going to be a blanket answer. Yes you will have better luck if you were more successful attracting women. But that just gets them in the door, to make them stay and actually want you, you have to build your personality for that. And for anyone who would say that some women would stay regardless because of the success, sure, but I don't want a loveless relationship, more power to those that do.
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>>33732013
Chatgpt
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>>33732026
That kinda makes me feel good lol. Also, fuck AI.
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>>33732029
I guess it makes sense women write like mindless automatons
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>>33730212
People in these replies are only thinking about money, which is a bit retarded. If you have a creative/artistic job, work with your hands, or work with animals, most women will find that attractive. If you have a computer job, a retail job, or a cubicle job, most won't.
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>>33730212
As a broke dude who has no problem with women, it depends on the woman.
>>33730230
It's this.

If you have a personality that women want to spend time with, that's what matters. Of course, that's not universal. There are a lot of people out there for whom career status and wealth are must-haves, but who cares. If you're not interested in that, then you're not good fits anyway.

Just remember, a lot of the advice you'll get on this site will come from trolls and incels, so consider the responses here accordingly.
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>>33730230
Why did this simple factual post trigger all the gay psyoppers?
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>>33730212
Hijacking this thread to ask if accounting is a good career choice?
AI taking the job is a nothingburger right?
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>>33731462
This never happened.
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>>33732013
Kek. Writing imprompts are getting funnier everyday
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I think it's more about what type of girls you will meet and get on with. Your job in a way shapes you as a person, because you spend so much time there and you will do things that other people don't do. It's not about what job will get you a gf, it's about what person you become and what kind of girl you are going to get along with.

>>33732069
If you have a creative/artistic job, work with your hands, or work with animals, most women will find that attractive. If you have a computer job, a retail job, or a cubicle job, most won't

I guess it will rule some out. I think in a lot of ways, a girl is going to expect her man to be able to do the kinds of things her father can do. If she grew up with her dad running a ranch, she is going to expect in a way a man to be able to jump on a horse, skin/dress an animal or stuff like that. If she grew up with her dad being an accountant she might never have been exposed to such things.

At the end of the day if you really click with someone and have a good partner in life they aren't going to care what job you have any more, they will support you if you want to change it, I think.



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