i've recently turned 18, and i really don't know what the fuck i'm supposed to do. this place atleast has honest advice but, i've failed school, and i live in a shithole where you can't even get a job without previous experience or a diploma. i don't know what to do, or where to go. my parents refuse to let me rent out. i'm continuing my education, but it's not in the public, and i don't ever meet with anyone.people who i thought were friends once just revealed themselves publicly to be assholes and using me for money when i'm shit poor, and most of them were laughing about manipulating me. i feel like i'm going to have trust issues for life after what they'd done, and i'm already relatively secluded within myself.i don't know what to do, or where to meet people, or to just neet forever. i have an option to take up military service, but i have glasses so i'm fucked.i just wish i could meet more people but i don't know what or where to go. i'm extremely frugal to a point and never take anything i don't need. i have never been religious, but i wish i was. i just wish i had a purpose to keep going on. i don't know what to do anymore. thank you guys if you could give me any pointers. i'm tired.
>>33730899Just work toward being content for now, there's no such thing as "supposed to" when living your life, and also try not to rely on other peoples guidance, it'll be worth it for you down the line.
>>33730921thanks anon, i just entirely feel empty because i don't feel like i have any hobbies to dabble in or anything. idk where to meet people or form friendships physically but i feel like it's all lost and i dont know if ill ever find a way to forget what happened like years ago since im still affected by it. i hate how everything has bureaucracy and how i can't join the military or any group.
>>33730899It's tough but you'll get it past it
>>33730899Another 18-year-old that just wants to meet people. It's starting to actually make me feel bad for young people. Being as in we don't live in the era or world where you go "out" to meet people anymore and you guys grow up with all these wonderful expectations of how life is supposed to be then realize life doesn't work that way. This isn't a movie. Things don't happen the way you saw them in the movies growing up lol. There is literally nowhere that people go "out" to meet new people anymore without being looked at as off or weird. You gotta master social media. In whatever way you can. If I were you I'd start focusing on how I'm gonna get my parents to let me rent out so I actually can have a shot at meeting people. I think once you get your own place you'll see things a lot clearer and you'll be free to live your own life. And you'll never look back. Everyone is socially awkward and reclusive these days. Not just you.
