>>33731620
it ends for both genders equally

Depends.
As the saying goes "familiarity breeds contempt"; just don't be in each others' faces too often/have too much sex, and everything will be gravy.

>>33731620
It's only a real issue with people with BPD, maybe someone who has never had a relationship may think something is wrong and that their relationship is going badly if the honeymoon phase ending but most adults will not breakup with someone because of that.

>>33731620
>Does honeymoon phase end in every relationship?
Yes, always, for both people. The question is whether, during that phase, you can build something good enough for the relationship to survive after the honeymoon phase fades.

>>33731620
It's just lusts. It applies to you as well. You see macho naked man around with more biceps or with eight packs that looks attractive to your eyes.

It goes the same for your man who sees a girl with a nice curvy body or thin as in sexy thin or if he's into bigger boobs/ass/thighs.

If you think you could seduce that guy with your body and other physical appearance of yours then so can your man with his looks and wealth and is willing to get a better deal than you are same goes to him with you. When you find a wealthy man whose into you you get bored with your man as well. It applies to both sides it's just that you couldn't understand the both yet to see the similarities.

>Does honeymoon phase end in every relationship?
To be fair, most woman out there gets fatter as they grow old and doesn't care about their body anymore. They just binge eat their depressions out.

Same goes with woman seeing their husband who kept seeing their husband drinking alcohol gets their belly fatter. It does but they still love them out of personality and deep connection not out of appearance anymore. They don't wanna sacrifice lust for invested time of deep connection and long term trust you had at the start of the relationship up til now.

>>33731620
I won't read ATOGA escapees.

Some women are retarded and will break up because "we don't go out a lot and do shit like we used to!". You can be married, engaged, together, have kids, work hard, do everything right, buy her flowers ad gifts, never hit or scream at her, do chores, etc. She will still find some stupid shit to whine about once her retard hormones shift for the 20th time that day.

>Do men really
NO
but
if u are boring, you are boring. end of story.
the woman has to make a conscious, daily effort to be interesting to and for me, out of her own will or love or being.
if i lose interest in you, the relationship is over

it is not about "being with the same ol´ woman" that makes one bored or "sick"
you might think that because you became numb to the things, things that you take for granted when they shouldnt be.

maybe ima hopeless romantic, but if you cant fire up my lust and love and interest for you anyday and any time of the week, you probably arent the right partner to begin with
also a relationship is constant learning, giving and taking too.
idk this is ofc highly subjective so take it with some salt

>>33731620
hello fellow femanon <3
in my experience yeah but the ones worth anything will keep that shit to themselves

>>33731620
>Do men really become bored and sick of being with the same woman?
Eh, they don't have to. It's entirely possible to keep it fresh and enjoyable.
But they often do.
It took me nearly a decade to be able to even properly think about another woman sexually, outside of threesome fantasies including her.

>Does honeymoon phase end in every relationship?
Absolutely.
It's infatuation. Ours probably lasted somewhere between three to five years.
Most end much sooner.

The idea is to develop and deepen the relationship by bonding through shared experiences during the infatuation period. Then when it fades, you've established loving bonds of healthy affection.
But too often people just ride the happy feels of the honeymoon phase and jump ship when it's not longer making everything feel easy.

>Femoid here.
Cool story bro.

>>33731671
That is not true. I have bpd, the raging petulant subtype, and I love for years.
Of course I often don't feel shit just like aspds and sometimes wish for my brother to die in a plane crash just because he is richer but that is just feelings. Feelings do not define me. And now I might hate but later I will love again so what is the point. And nothing scares bpd most than abandonment. So if a bpds learns how to manage rages and emotional amnesia, you cannot easily get rid of them. Unless you're a narc.

>>33731620
Everyone gets bored eventually regardless of gender unless you bring something on top of your looks to the relationship.

>>33731620
No. They falsely assume the woman is an extension of themselves, their brain keeps looking for acceptable women because that's how it works, and at some point he forgets the wife is her own person who may disapprove of looking for other women

>>33732816
>They falsely assume the woman is an extension
so you werent made from adams rib? who or what are you then
jk

>>33731620
>Do men really become bored and sick of being with the same woman? Does honeymoon phase end in every relationship?
Yes and yes.

>>33732195
Lmao you're no hopeless romantic but rather an ape subhuman

I am tired of this shit here. Y'all from broken families or somethin?
My gramps and grandma are wed together since 1962. They had their fights but never cheated on each other. They would know each other since childhood as they come from the same village and in the 40s and 50s all village kids knew each other as they all would meet in schools and some sort of tea parties or something.
They both would work their asses off, obsessed with making money. They are both workoholics with anger issues and also very fat but love each other. Or like, love-hate each other. They also hate everyone else and love to rip off others. From what I know they would act like old grumpy people even when they young.
Gramps was born 41, grandma 46

>>33732967
I should also mention that they both were coming from itinerant peddlers families which were hated during the communist times. In these communities marriage was pretty much sacred.

>>33732940
...said the boring woman, without a spirit in her soulless husk, as she thought desperately by herself "maybe i should go for another merry round on the dick carousel, trying to fill that deep hole inside my very being, as this damn ape catched me offguard"
see, you make it very hard to invest my time and energy in you. how shall i elevate you to lofty spheres, make you divine even, if theres no motivation (=interest) in you
energy flows to where consciousness goes
and you cant even make yourself interesting 4me

but it is a-ok, the search continues

>>33733025
Don't cry bitch. your hurt wall of text is longer then ur dick

>>33731620
Honeymoon Phase, in the sense of wild obsessive passion, does calm down after a while. In healthy relationships it evolves into something calmer but no less loving.

>longer then
indians and jews, i swear.
as i said, the search continues

>>33731620
I have been with the same woman for 18 years. I am not bored of her at all and still love her completely.

>>33731620
yes.
however a lot of men will pretend/persuade themselves they're happy with their long term relation.
because they're unsure whether they'll manage to land fresh pussy after dumping the old broad. and same old sex is better than no sex.

>>33731620
I only ever loved my partners more and more until they inevitably cuck and discard me, so no

>>33732193
>do everything right
Why od fags always pretend there is some kind of manual to life that you just need to follow. "Doing everything right" isn't real, because life is all about adapting and finding out what works for yourself, not copy&pasting from a bunch of garbage society tells you to do.

>>33731620
46yo here, 16 years married, two kids.

Stay interesting, stay slim, take care of yourself, and develop yourself further.

Possibly your man will be the one who gets lazy, fat, retarded, etc = then you will be the one who runs away. Do it, noone needs to stay with an idiot.

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>>33731620
People dont do anything to maintain the relationship or "stoke the fire". They get complacent and that's what ends the relationship

>>33733391
>>33733402
this right here. I'm always flabebragsted by how many people believe they can just stop being attractive once they have "locked down" someone. Completely forgetting that locking down other people is not a thing outside of chattel slavery.

every couple I know who has been together 30+ years hates each other but stays together for other reasons. It's so sad to me.

>>33731620
I will never become sick and tired of the woman that I love. That is absolutely not the type of man that I am.

I do not even understand how people can even do that. But mark my fucking words... that ain't NEVER... EVER... gonna be me.

I will love and cherish the woman that I love till the very fucking end of eternity and fucking beyond.

The fuck is this bullshit of getting bored of the woman that you love? That is fucking retarded whoever does that.

How the fuck are you given this precious beautiful woman that loves you and you fucking get sick and bored of her?!

What the ever loving fuck is that bullshit?!

Holy fuck that is absolutely retarded.

>>33731620
I never get sick of having my cock sucked and cum swallowed but women eventually get tired of doing it.

>>33735570
kek

Depends on the guy.