How do accept love is not for me?Ive come to realise im too fundamentally broken as a person to love or be loved. I could write a whole essay but to put it simply life has been thrashing me since I was born and ive now come out the other end a guilt ridden, misanthropic and reclusive adult.Im not attractive nor am I especially unattractive which means I really cant physically compensate for my absolute ruined psyche and inability to form meaningful relationships. In the end I realise love never was or will be something I was meant to experience. Im now left with the hard task of coming to terms with being unlovable and I dont know how.
>>33731862Have you looksmaxxed?Otherwise shut up
>>33731877Having a shrap jawline and six packs won't solve my mental issues. I dont see how this is relevant to the post.
>>33731862>How do accept love is not for me?You don't accept it and work on fixing every single fucking thing about you that can be fixed, and you try again whilst you are doing that.Also damn I wish Asuka figs came inside packs of American Spirits.
>>33731862you are lovable and capable of love
>>33731862I won't read how to cope threads. That language indicates someone who is basically a sessile, bottom-dwelling creature who won't try anything and so there is nothing to be done.
>>33731886Nothing about me can be fixed at this point, ive tried and struggled my entire life to keep myself together, to have some kind of a worthy life but theres only so much I can do alone and only so much i can supress. I haven't given up on life, Ive just realised that my internal state is too far gone for me to be loved.>>33731916Everything in my life and the way my mind has been shaped points to this not being true. Nobody would love the kind of mind i have, i dont love the kind of mind I have. And i want to love others but I feel like I dont have the capacity.>>33731933Ive tried everything and ive not given up on life as a whole but ive lived my own life long enough to realise what is and isn't for me to experience.
>>33731947>Nothing about me can be fixed at this pointLove yourself first and foremost you baka. That's the first step for loving someone else.
>>33731862You keep asking this same question.You don't want to get better, you want to be loud about being sad.
>>33731885>Having a shrap jawline and six packs won't solve my mental issues.Then mental healthmaxx and go to therapy. But stop shitting up the board with this /r9k/ garbage.You will never be able to trula accept that "love is hnot for you" because deep down you know its bullshit and you're just trying to avoid facing your emotional issues.
Is there a point of no return? Similar to OP and I'm 34. It just feels hopeless as I get older
>>33731862>Im now left with the hard task of coming to terms with being unlovable and I dont know how.Me too anon, me too. It doesnt help that as a loveless being, I get humiliated when interacting with other people.
>>33731862Just imagine you're living in a world full of other you's. Where everyone else is also too fundamentally broken to love or be loved. Who's lives have also been thrashing them since they were born and have now come out the other end as guilt ridden, misanthropic and reclusive adults. Who also aren't attractive nor especially unattractive. Who also feel like love never is or ever will be something they were meant to experience and are now left with the hard task of coming to terms with being unlovable and don't know how. That's basically the world you're living in bro. Newsflash!! EVERYONE FEELS LIKE THAT. Why do you people feel as if you're special in feeling unlovable lol?? Everyone feels like that dude. Literally everyone. Like who doesn't feel like this in 2025? I'll wait...
>>33731862Yeah we somehow normalized this. Everyone is mentally disturbed, unlovable and somewhat isolated and weirdo now.
>>33731862You never fully accept it. You just have to limp around with your mind constantly desiring something that you won't get.Read the upanishads and meditate.
