So my girlfriend well ex now we were together for a while things were cool not perfect but we were locked in I thought everything was solid then out of nowhere she starts acting distant you know texting dry not really calling back little attitude over nothing I felt something was off but I didn't wanna jump to conclusions some weeks later she tells me she needs "space " I give it to her try to be respectful but then boom I find out she was cheating with some other dude the whole time that was the "space" just space for another dude I was so furious we argued I told her we were done fuck her now here's the crazy part the guy she cheated with? It looks like he dipped just ghosted her SO NOW she's texting me like "Can we talk? " "I miss you " "You're the only one who really understood me" All that crap and I'm not gonna lie as much as I hate to admit it anons I'm still in love with her I'm trying but I just . can't forget her but at the same time she fucking cheated on me so I'm stuck between telling her to fuck off or forgive her and seeing if we could actually fix it even though my pride is screaming no what should I do?
>>33732926I get it anon, someone hurting you doesn't make you love them any less. I recommend blocking her and avoiding all contact with her, that's the best way to make the love for your bad partner die
i feel sorry for you OP, but once a cheater/liar always a cheater/liar.back in older times, she would get stoned.you are lucky she isnt pregnant and blaming you for it.also, you blew it by telling her that you catched her cheating. you couldve played along and completely wrecked her for life, if you felt so petty.>forgive heryou can forgive her, but not forget and, split.
>>33732926she's only crawling back because Chad gave her the boot after he found out she's a whore with a stinky hole.Do NOT go back, ever.Tell her to kick rocks.
>>33732926They all do this. Chad wanted pussy and told her enough to get it and it wasn't much. He never wanted her so hes gone. Her play is to retrace her steps back and have you take the blame and take her back. UNTIL she does it again.As another anon suggests cut all contact and never see or communicate with her in anyway ever again. Don't inquire about her and do not allow anyone to provide updates. She is a non-entity now. Cut it all out at once and get it over so the healing begins. Bottom line. She fucked him because she wanted to and having a bf was nothing more than a small encumbrance.
>>33732949> you couldve played along and completely wrecked her for life, if you felt so petty.Curious on your methods. As someone going through something similar as OP (although with a more grey area), part of me wishes I could have given her a tenth of the manipulation she gave me to hurt her
>>33732926Swallow your pride and forgive her. Cause if you do it you're gonna want her to forgive you.
