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ever since I realized how bad my balding is, I've just shaved my head and given up even trying to talk to women
At this point I simply cannot imagine any women being physically attracted to me.
So rather than try to get with women, I try to conquer and kill my sexual and romantic urges altogether.
But in my mind theres that melancholic feeling of understanding that I am trying to give up what is effectively the primary purpose of life.
How do people find purpose living alone?
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Get a cat, or a dog. Or a large parrot if you want something that lives a long time. Personally I have a veg garden that gives me something to look forward to when I get home every day.
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>>33733065
> I've just shaved my head and given up even trying to talk to women
Hahaha You are an idiot.

>t. baldy who talks to women
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>>33733065
>ever since I realized how bad my balding is, I've just shaved my head and given up even trying to talk to women
>At this point I simply cannot imagine any women being physically attracted to me.
anon you know why you are bald right
it means someone whose genes led to you WAS BALD/BALDING AND HAD SEX
being bald means nothing except that you wont on-sight attract women who hate balds and these are mostly the really young and immature women you shouldnt be going after anyways
i understand its a blow to your psyche to have your look drastically change but its really not the end of the world
in fact if you want to cope and hang on, take a serious look at your balding. are you TRULY balding or is it just thinning and a slightly receding mature hairline appropriate for your age? in either case, you can do meds to stop the loss and if the loss is sufficiently advanced, transplant if you really really care about your hair and have the money and desire to maintain it
fuck, if you have even an iota of handsomeness/charm you can get women with the horseshoe monk shit
george was constantly pulling bitches on seinfeld and by extension larry david. just ask some friends to be honest about what does and doesnt work for your look.
are you fat? get less fat.
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>>33733065
Shitpost on 4chan everyday.
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>>33733193
desu I'm already a wizard in training and for me its already been years since I last even tried to talk to a woman. I think its probably easier for me to just try to continue my plan. If I've gone almost 30 years without ever having a woman express interest in me, whats another 45 or so, y'know?
>>33733201
Oh I get that its not the end of the world. But I cannot imagine I am ever any womans first choice for a man, and so the idea of being with a woman makes me feel guilty. Like as if shes only with me because she doesn't want to be alone, but then I feel like I am being the buoy she clings to, instead of swimming out into the difficult waters in order to pursue her actual goals, and thus, a more fulfilling life.
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>>33733308
I feel this post in my bones, it's our reality man, some people just don't get it.
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>>33733065
Be a cute skinhead
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>>33733317
Don't get me wrong. I know theres more to people than their appearance and fundamentally I like who I am on the inside. So I don't know if I would say I have low self-esteem. I just accept my unfortunate appearance for what it is, whilst still trying to make the best of and appreciating the beauty of life, having accepted that I will very likely live it alone.
>>33733329
Actually, I'm trying to have fun with my appearance so I've gotten myself sound round frame sunglasses and have begun growing out my mustache. It feels funny like I'm turning into dr. Eggman from sonic kek
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>>33733308
>But I cannot imagine I am ever any womans first choice for a man, and so the idea of being with a woman makes me feel guilty
low self esteem induced mental illness. you are putting women on some magical pedestal that you cannot fathom a woman could ever just like you except out of pity or for lack of viable options because you dont see women as people which is frankly insane. being bald has never stopped a pussy crusher from crushing pussy
be cognizant and actively aware that what is going on in your brain is illogical and seek professional help if you cant get around that
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>>33733065
>gives up on women because balding
I'd understand if you gave up on women after having your heart broken several times, being played with, having relationships that seemed like they'd last forever fail, and realizing women are inherently unlovable. Because that's what I did.
But you're just being a bitch.
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>>33733065
Voted Sexiest Man In The World 5 years in a row
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>>33733308
>But I cannot imagine I am ever any womans first choice for a man, and so the idea of being with a woman makes me feel guilty.
that should fill you with burning rage to rub your abjection in their face, not retreat and give up. nothing better than making them rub your bald head as they jerk you off. show them what you are is lovable!
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>>33733065
>At this point I simply cannot imagine any women being physically attracted to me.
You do realize there exist bald men with girlfriends and wives right?
Talk about throwing in the towel, but whatever makes you happy OP.
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>>33733065
>ever since I realized how bad my balding is
Chlorine dioxide CDS, scalp massage, and back sleeping without a head pillow.
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>>33734119
Well yeah but i talked about this up here >>33733308

>>33733436
I talked about this a little bit too. >>33733370
I don't hate myself or anything. I understand theres more to people than their appearance. I have female friends, in fact one of my best friends is a girl who keeps wanting me to come visit her. I know theres more about me to like than my appearance. I just feel like the appearance is what determines physical attraction and I just don't have it.
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>>33734553
>If I've gone almost 30 years without ever having a woman express interest in me
And this is where you told on yourself without realizing it OP.
Were you bald or balding for all those 30 years, even as a young man? I doubt it.
So that obviously wasn't the reason you weren't having success with women then. And for all you know, it's still not the main reason now.
Like every thread of its kind, this is just a cope thread.
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if it makes you feel any better, though it may be a bit cringe, I have heard of multiple men having lots of success with women even while balding.
what they do is, they become fashionable and wear hats and beanies, if you look good and work on talking to them, you'll be fine even as le bald
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>>33733065
Go gym and get swole.
Bald muscle heads still get pussy, but first they get confidence.
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>>33734041
Deau I could see that
Though it helps he has an aged appearance that can support his scalp.
So I'm not sure, maybe I could be attractive once I reach my mid 40s to 50s
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>>33734623
No, but I was rather shy and avoidant. For a brief time as a young adult I was talking to women online. But then the norwood reaper came for me and I gave up
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>>33733065
What girl would wanna be with a guy who feels like that about themselves? YOU GOTTA FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT!!! You find purpose by looking in the mirror and loving yourself, admiring yourself and having hope and confidence like a normal fucking human being. By telling yourself you look good and enjoying being in your own skin so you can actually attract another human who wants to be around you.
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copers gonna cope
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>>33736132
>No, but I was rather shy and avoidant
>I gave up
So exactly as I thought then. These are your real problems, not that you were bald then (which you weren't, even) and not even that you're bald now.
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>>33737030
nah because there was a time where I was talking to girls. Because there was a brief period where I didn't have things holding me back.
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>>33733065
my friend is bald, fat and peruvian and he pull girls
not the cutest girls but girls nonetheless
what's your excuse
>inb4 he's making it up
nah, we went to a birthday party at a bar a couple saturdays ago and I saw it happen
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>>33739867
The only thing holding you back is and always has been you. Also way to try and change your story around.
>this thing kept happening
>actually wait no it didn't lol



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