don't stick your dick in crazy
or single moms
or women over 30 and single
or women whose goals aren't compatible with yours

sometimes jerking off truly is better

>just get out there

>>33733305
those too. Glad I heard it,and never engaged with any of those women.

Green flags
>parents still together
>has brothers
>android user
>no tattoos
>no piercings
>no cigs
>long natural well kept hair
>dogs over cats
>natural finger nails

>>33733360
what's the dude version of this

>>33733497
I'm a girl. My list of green flags would be:

>parents are happily married
>no social media
Especially tiktok, instagram, snapchat.
>handy, and willing to learn how to fix stuff
>no cigarettes, weed, excessive alcohol
>strong friend group
>in good shape
>dogs over cats
>clean home
>stable job

>>33733497
>no twitter
>no reddit
>no 4chan
>clean shaven
>well kept hair
>job
>good physical shape
>irl friends

>>33733305
>or single moms
Terrible adivce. Just make sure you are the guy for whom she sends her kids to grandmas for the weekend, and avoid any woman who gives off the impression of lookign for a replacement daddy instead of good dick.
>or women over 30 and single
Utter garbage. I konw some retards are taught to not be single at every cost, but being on your own beats being in a shitty relationship by a wide margin. The last sentence is actually very good advice for dating.

>sometimes jerking off truly is better
Absolutely. For example, when you are confronted with a woman who is desperate to be in a relationship for being in a relationships sake, not because she actually likes you.

>>33733360
>>33733504
Thats some real NPC shit lmao

>>33733300
Quit 4chan.
>>33733504
>>33733507
You'll never be a woman.

>>33733519
You like slobby neets?

>>33733516
fucking old women or single moms is a fruitless endeavour which only ends in heartbreak or disappointment.
Being le next dick stops being exciting after getting cucked and being the side guy multiple times.
I just fucking hate women and would only fuck one if she gives me kids at this point.
Juice is not worth the squeeze at all.

>>33733300
Whatever you do, don't be boring for women. You need to be able to evoke emotions in women, positive or negative, doesn't matter

If a woman likes you, or loves you, she'll be willing to forgive all sorts of wrongdoings. "Icks" and "I don't think this is working out" is for guys she doesn't fancy

>>33733526
I don't think hating women is a good advice

>>33733531
be my guest by all means, but incels and sex havers share the bell curve and all eventually hate women.
You can be the muh dick side piece, or the lovey dovey prince Charming all you want, but one day you'll realise their true nature.
Do whatever you want with women, just make sure you're never emotionally attached to her. They aren't capable of love like you or I.

>>33733516
>Thats some real NPC shit lmao
It works pretty well.

>>33733562
If you've interacted with so many of them you'd realize i was one just from the way i've said that
Unfortunately it sounds like you spend more time with men instead

>>33733569
interact is a strong word; I don't if I don't have to. Am 32, once divorced, with a bodycount above 80.
I've yet to meet a single good woman who isn't my mother, but then again I bet my father has horror stories regarding her too.
I actively avoid women, have no energy to get to know them at all. It's all fruitless since they'll all fuck you over the second your defenses are down.
Shame because I wanted kids, but whatever.

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>>33733588
A lot of women have horror stories from their lives too, but i think that the general idea people have of women in some places is very influenced by americans and online posts
I'm not here to discuss that tho, already replied to OP, hope things get better for you

>>33733603
they won't. I can't bring myself to ever open up to a woman after being with a serial whore for 5 years.
You have to realise that the social contract is utterly broken and most men are fucking done at rhis point. The incels hate women because they don't get pussy, men who have sex hate them because they see your deceitful nature head on.

>>33733611
>serial whore

>>33733613
yes

>>33733627
Don't be surprised if being with girls you find on Tinder doesn't really lead anywhere, but you should work on those feelings instead of placing every woman in the same category, last reply from me

>>33733300
Unless you are ready to marry just Hit it and quit it

>>33733635
I don't use social media or sex apps, I lie to bitches in bars and at work.

>>33733654
Most women want you to lie to them. They too aren't in it for a relationship they just wants some dick and go on their way. I agree pussy is plentiful but most men make a satisfying for both parties, one fuck and move on, too difficult for the woman. Too many preconditions and expectations. Women want to fuck like it was their last with no shame. Lie, fuck them silly, move on and leave no trace.

>>33733300
Pay.

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>>33733674
holy shit you truly don't understand.
I am not a walking dick. I am not a one night stand.
I will rather jerk off forever than entertain another easy option, loose women give real men the ick, as you call it. The only reason women have it easy in the first place is because of the simps who answer their every beck and call regardless how lousy said women even are.
I only date for a wife and children, I have standards, and I'd rather be alone forever than settle for less once more.

>>33733588
>Once divorced with a body count above 80
Of course you have problems, you're a ruined whore no different than the town bicycle. Did you think women are the only ones who emotionally suffer from promiscuity? You've ruined your ability to bond.

>>33733939
Yes.

>>33733300
1. Actions speak louder than words
2. Ask yourself - did they show a genuine interest in me, or did they just yap about whatever bullshit? Even if it was a funny / flirty conversation - lack of curiousity about you means they're not even remotely serious about you
3. Don't ever make excuses for lack of effort, and do NOT pick up the slack i.e. keep initiating, keep paying, keep being generous in bed if they aren't reciprocating
4. Remember, it's meant to be fun. The above basically = don't ignore red flags. Otherwise just go out and be your retarded self

>>33733504
>check
>check
>check
>check
>strong friend group
I never had friends, I'm a diagnosed autist
Well... I mean I'm working on it. I'm muscly/fat. It at least sits ok on me
>check
>check
I have no job...

I'm a friendless fat autistic NEET. Does that cancel out my green flags?

>>33734068
Yeah, of course.

>>33734076
Having friends isn't an option, I can't do it. SO what if I were just a friendless /fit/ autist with a home business? That's what i'm working towards

>>33733529
This 100%
But it's really hard. For me at least, having 0 emotinal intelligence

>>33733611
>I hate that women will actually have sex with me
>but not enough to actually follow through with not having sex with them
Nice strong principles you've got there anon. Way to be the change you want to see in the world.

>>33733300
Reply slowly
Don't ask any questions
Withold attention
Withhold affection
Don't give compliments
Do what you want in bed
Withdraw after sex / after a good date
Leave them on read
Make them ask you out

Basically, treat them like an option and their ego kicks in. Then they get obsessed

It's sad desu but if works

Note: this has the negative side effect of training you to use others as a means to an end. You'll turn into a cynical asshole who doesn't respect women

Honestly I think you're better off being yourself, getting rejected 50x and finding one who likes you for you

>>33733529
>>33734118
This works for retarded women only

How can you possibly buy a house / share finances / have children with a woman who needs an emotional rollercoaster to stay invested? You can't. This is how you end up divorced.

>>33733300
just because you're dating someone doesn't mean your issues will go away. Don't wait for someone to "fix" you. Be a man, stand tall, straighten your back, and fix yourself. Stop being so dependent on a woman to be the one to end the misery in your life. She should be a benefit to being alive, not the main goal; because, once you have a girlfriend, now what? Most people (here) never think that far ahead and simply think "me=sad" but "me+girlfriend=happy" without any deeper thought. They're so stubborn in this belief it's hard to convince them of anything else.

>>33733300
Don't worry

>>33733300
>She's not yours, it's just your turn.
>For every beautiful woman you see, there is a man who is tired of fucking her.
>If she smokes, she pokes.
>You can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you'll never lose women when you're chasing money.
>Avoid alcoholics, drug addicts, and the ones that let you know they're mentally unstable from the get-go.
>You'll rarely fuck a woman you didn't start with a conversation with first.
>Fuck their minds first.
>Women love drama, they love playing games. Some play games for too long and stay children. Some play dirty, and you should leave them to play in the mud.
>Don't ever try to save a ho
>Don't ever try to turn a ho into a housewife. If she belongs to the streets, catch and release.
>Women want quality dick just like you want quality pussy.
>Attraction is instantaneous. Never try to logic your way into pussy, they work on emotional excitement. Money, status, power, fame, and physicality are all paths to primo pussy.
>If you're not attractive to many women, you'll never be attractive to the right woman.
>Someone who chases women incessantly needs a better hobby.
>If you're a good storyteller, you'll never be at a loss for women.

>>33734488
>>You'll rarely fuck a woman you didn't start with a conversation with first.
this isn't true at all. situations where the woman started the conversation first have a much higher success rate

>>33734655
The point was that you won't jump directly into the pants of a woman without talking to her first. Either her or you, doesn't matter.

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>>33734488
>>She's not yours, it's just your turn.
>>For every beautiful woman you see, there is a man who is tired of fucking her.
black pilling bullshit, that shit will fuck you up.

>>You'll rarely fuck a woman you didn't start with a conversation with first.
don't get it. of course you gotta talk to them, wtf are you saying? you can't fuck girls that are the ones initiating the convo?
>>Attraction is instantaneous. Never try to logic your way into pussy, they work on emotional excitement. Money, status, power, fame, and physicality are all paths to primo pussy.
I like this one a lot.
>>If you're not attractive to many women, you'll never be attractive to the right woman.
not true, not even speaking for me, but for other men I've seen.

I agree with everything else, so well done mate

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>>33733300
>What's the best dating advice you've ever received?
Dating and courtship actually has nothing to do with women. If you're actually fun, outgoing, successful et al, then women will pick up on it and throw themselves at you. You can do things to throw off women's radar the same way women use makeup, but this isn't as effective. Inversely if you're some kind of dysgenic freak women can pick it up no matter how well you think you hide it.

Don't call her.
I know you miss her, but don't humiliate yourself in front of her, don't be needy, don't throw away your ego
I know it sounds like chud advice or muh "toxic" masculinity, but it's for your own good, believe me, if you don't call her, if you try to move on, there's a decent chance she will try to find you in a few years, and you're gonna think "nah I'm better without her"
Also, I know this sounds obvious for most people, but I know some zoomers right now are going through this, and it's hard, man, love is a bitch

>>33733300
>What's the best dating advice you've ever received?
Never, ever be yourself: be someone more confident, funnier, and more interesting instead.

>>33734488
>If she belongs to the streets, catch Nd release
Kek'd. And made me feel better

>>33734488
>Attraction is instantaneous.
Probably the most sound thing in this whole thread.
If you don't feel mirrored in your attraction to any given woman, it isn't going to be worth your fucking time. Starting things off with them on a pedestal leaves you being looked down upon for the remainder of your relationship.

>>33733504
>no instagram
women (25-35) have told me that this is a massive red flag, usually they are like "what are you hiding?"

Don't fall in love before you've even asked her out

>>33733588
>with a bodycount above 80.

Yeah anyone with a "bodycount" this high has something severely wrong with them.
Banging one or two dozen people okay, but at this point you've been frequented more than a public toilet. Running through other humans like a coomer runs through wanking tissues is not normal or enviable.

>>33734488
>Attraction is instantaneous. Never try to logic your way into pussy, they work on emotional excitement. Money, status, power, fame, and physicality are all paths to primo pussy.
very true, in rare cases women do develop strong attraction after spending lots of time with a guy in a neutral setting but that's like finding a unicorn nowadays
>If you're not attractive to many women, you'll never be attractive to the right woman.
so if you're not a chad you will never attract a compatible partner? disagree with this one, it maybe harder to find the optimal woman but plenty of men find a woman

>>33735232
If a tree fell in the woods and it didn't post an insta story about it, did it really happen?

>>33735359
>in rare cases
More often than not, it's generally a mix of boredom and realizing that her only options are limited. She'd rather devote herself to someone she's minimally interested in to receive attention simply for self-validation, than continue waiting around for someone who checks more boxes. There are "unicorns", but a lot of them pose as such to expedite their sprialing egos.

>>33734488
>You can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you'll never lose women when you're chasing money.
Peak goyim thinking. Of course you will lose time you could spend bning women when you "chase money" , which in most cases just means dumb wageslaving in hopes that bossman throws you a crumb.
>You'll rarely fuck a woman you didn't start with a conversation with first.
Bullshit.
>Women love drama, they love playing games
Bullshit the sceond. This just enables dramatic women by making men think they have to tolerate this shit instead of cutting them out and looking for a better one.
>Money, status, power, fame, and physicality are all paths to primo pussy.
If you're okay with havign a live-in prostitute who doesn't like you and only your money, then yes sure.
>If you're not attractive to many women, you'll never be attractive to the right woman.
Bullshit the next, it just means "the right woman" will be your looksmatch and may not be all that physically attractive at worst.