I was dating a woman for about a month. I went out on maybe 5-6 dates with her. She even kissed me first. I am 30 and not really experienced with these kinds of things. I actually did like her a lot but she chose to stop seeing me. She did let me down nicely though. Never got to call her my girlfriend either. I think I have a lot of misconceptions that are not true.>1What does a kiss really mean? I was under the impression that a kiss is basically you are boyfriend and girlfriend at that point or rather, very close to it. >2How do I know if I am even doing good when dating? I thought I was doing something right because she chose to kiss me first. I was sort of mad at myself when she chose to stop seeing me because I figured I had done something fucked up and not known it. >3Bit of a side question but when should you tell someone you are autistic? I don't think I am obviously autistic but it shows itself in weird ways. I want to sort of "warn" people before such things happen. Like the woman I was dating made a comment like "Oh, you sure like to go out around 2pm" because every date I planned was at that time. Mostly because I like that time because it avoids crowds and traffic in many places. Its after the lunch rush for most places. Anyway, any help you can provide would be great. I just want to improve and not make the same mistakes twice.
>>33735436>1Yeah, it does.>2Her initiating a kiss IS a good sign. A lot of women are retarded and I wouldn't get too hung up on her randomly leaving.>3Definitely whatever you do, do NOT tell women you are autistic. On the slim chance it doesn't immediately turn her off it will still be a very awkward thing to say out loud and she wont know how to respond.
>>33735464Thanks for the advice. I guess it will be another year before I even get to try dating again. I get dates so infrequently. Not sure how other people even get multiple dates in the same month. I've even known people who have multiple dates in the same week. How is that possible?
