im someone who really hates all those small slights , covert bullying, and general mockery but as a small dude I'm realizing I have to get used to it , its just my life. I wish I was sociopathic or able to shut it off like that , but nah I'm just a big emotional softie. Cold for the world, but likes to feel all the things on the inside. When people are mean to each other - it really makes me wonder why such cruelty is even needed. Especially over benign things like money or status, like calling a kid a loser for not having a job when this is just a tough economy etc etc. I just don't want to be mean to people - but this invetibaly ends up in doormat territory cause I think some people genuinely can't believe "who would be this nice?" , I don't expect anything back either - its just my disposition. If you're familiar with Kaiji, I emotionally feel a lot like Kaiji in S1 , I'm just stunned at the cruelty of some of these games/haves vs have nots sometimes but nowhere near as brave because frankly I haven't been tested like that. If u give me an action plan, I WILL act on it.
>>33735967People who are sociopathic aren't that way because they want to be. They have a corrupted relationship with their own values. What are your values?
>>33735967be more autistic you're just a larper. it's all or nothing.
>>33736006>What are your values?Simple Living - Enjoying the small things Treating anyone with kindness at least initially , you don't know anyones story or who needs a conversation or an ear - happy to talk to anyoneStaying Humble - my ideal goal is to be like a zen master that takes the bus and stuff but quietly has like a few million in the bank from my working years / youth Stuff like that - I don't have a lust for power or anything - just enough resources to actually own my own home in full and cover expenses, I just to feel valued by at least a core group of people , but we live in an status and ego chasing era where if you don't chase these things -- people DO think lesser of you or think you've resigned yourself to being a loser.
>>33736049Buy a gas station
>>33736056honestly not a bad idea desu minus the robberies , I need to make the money for that in the first place though
>>33736062Just get robbery insurance. Install an add-on home to save on rent. Have a minimal staff that you can trust
>>33736022He just wants those who call him out on his shit to not call him out on his shit so he gets away with it. He thinks by belittling them he can make them think bad of themselves and then he can continue doing his bullshit. Op is a retard.
>>33736049You want to avoid getting hurt and escape suffering as much as possible. You're not willing to risk anything in order to earn something if you see there's any risk of getting emotionally hurt.I understand that, I'm the same way too. However people who are not like this, people normally get ANGRY at inconveniences, mistreatment, or rejection. They act on it too, and the ones who are capable of becoming angry but decide to restrain themselves are seen as mature, not the ones that default avoid it or get visibly hurt.People like this have their own mindset that they come first, their dreams scope to themselves and loved ones instead of the grand scope of things or big fucking dreams. I am not telling you to change yourself, but that nobody has the answer for the cases I describe, they only point out at trying to be someone else as another source of frustration.Somehow, You MUST get out of the headspace that makes you think the world is unfair and aimed against you, even when there's evidence for it.If you manage to become someone who says "Yeah the world is a fuck, haha. Big fuck you to it." people will flock to you.
>>33736049Here's the problem with that.>small thingsYou reduce compatible people to only those who want small things, i.e. people too tired to keep struggling. These are often unhappy with life and can't get a hold if it.>treating anyone with kindnessThis is expected of living in society, it's not any plus. As they often say, people value more the asshole who decides to do one good thing today for a special reason.>happy to talk to anyonePeople only talk about themselves to people they trust, and that comes with time and shared experiences. "Anyone" is not willing to talk to you.>Staying humbleIn a world of predators, where the majority is prey, humble isn't more special, and it's prone to be exploited. >takes the bus but quietly has millionsThat's just being self-righteous and prideful at the same time.The question is, how do you plan to live happily with all these defects around? You're the one who decides which to stay with but how can you expect life to get any easier? Do you think life is easy for Zen buddhists? Do you think they're in the side of happiness and not coping with a shit life? More importantly how is that working for you? You would plain benefit from being assertive and listening to your selfishness a bit. After all that's the true path of least resistence, and you don't look like you have a lot to resist after being eroded by life.
>>33736576>He just wants those who call him out on his shit to not call him out on his shit so he gets away with it.I feel like this what questionable people tell themselves to excuse being an asshole. Criticism towards a specific task is fair game , but degrading or lowering another persons self worth over it such as calling another person a retard (IRL ofc , 4chan who fricken cares) for example is not cool>>33736602>ones who are capable of becoming angry but decide to restrain themselves are seen as matureif they had capability of "hurting" in the first place, nobody respects an angry wimp > Somehow, You MUST get out of the headspace that makes you think the world is unfair and aimed against you, even when there's evidence for it.Fair enough bro thanks >>33736618interesting perspective thanks
>>33735967Chess trains you to take carefully calculated risks, among other benefits.
>>33735967Good question. I recently noticed this too. I failed to solve it in any way. Gonna kms.
