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What do I do to be content wit(...) 09/30/25(Tue)06:08:42 No.33736915

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What do I do to be content with my decision of never trying to be with someone? Anonymous 09/30/25(Tue)06:08:42 No.33736915

As the title says. I'm a 33 year old man looking for a way to be content without being with a woman. Whether it's flings, relationships or just dating - I'm completely done with it. I gone through the whole thing in my 20s and considering I'm now in my 30s, I think I've done all that I can. Right now, in my 30s, I notice more wrinkles, white hairs and even my hair getting thinner and I know that it will likely get worst in my 40s. Seeing as the bar is set so high and almost every women I've met has issues with cheating, I'm completely uninterested anymore. I want to know how one picks up from here? What hobbies did you get into and did they help with giving any type of fulfillment or happiness? I prefer hobbies that aren't too sociable because I get approached by women that interview me and I'm sick of it. I'm thinking about shaving my head to completely avoid it, lol! Again, what are some things I can get into that will help me suppress the chemicals in my body that drive me to the desire of finding a life long partner?

Anonymous
09/30/25(Tue)06:26:10 No.33736936

Anonymous 09/30/25(Tue)06:26:10 No.33736936

>>33736915
>I'm completely uninterested anymore
>what are some things I can get into that will help me suppress the chemicals in my body that drive me to the desire of finding a life long partner?
Nigga tf are you talking about? You're either "completely uninterested" or you're not.
Considering you wrote a huge paragraph asking for help, you're already a lost cause and that feeling of wanting a partner will always be there deep down, no matter what hobbies you try.

Unless your hobby is staying home 24/7 playing vidya, listening to music, doing shit on your PC, etc, you'll eventually have to face women in society, probably around your age and as soon as one treats you somewhat nicely your brain will instantly think of her as potential partner.
That's how we're wired, anyone that says otherwise is coping.

Anonymous
09/30/25(Tue)06:37:29 No.33736948

Anonymous 09/30/25(Tue)06:37:29 No.33736948

>>33736915
>as soon as one treats you somewhat nicely your brain will instantly think of her as potential partner.
OP here. That's not what I think at all. I have a lot of experience with women and usually my first impression is when one treats me nicely is that she's scheming (which is what they're doing, even if she's interested) and not that she's a potential partner.

Anonymous
09/30/25(Tue)14:03:56 No.33738070

Anonymous 09/30/25(Tue)14:03:56 No.33738070

Holy shit bump

Anonymous
09/30/25(Tue)18:38:16 No.33739184

Anonymous 09/30/25(Tue)18:38:16 No.33739184

Bump.

Anonymous
09/30/25(Tue)18:42:42 No.33739202

Anonymous 09/30/25(Tue)18:42:42 No.33739202

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I won't read imaginary problems threads.

Anonymous
09/30/25(Tue)18:48:42 No.33739223

Anonymous 09/30/25(Tue)18:48:42 No.33739223

>>33739202
Okay, once more bump.

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