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How do I attract love psychos that will prey on me and potentially stalk me?

I can't come to grips that we live in a society where men gaze with clear interest at you yet say/do nothing. I grew up when boys who were attracted to you asserted manly dominance, now everyone seems a boring and gentle pussy
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>>33737122
socials?
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>>33737124
Some of us have detoxed our lives from social media. It is oddly calm, now. Socials such as a campfire? Or a walk through the park? A gathering for a fall event or something?
What were socials in the 90s?
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>>33737132
All the psychos and stalkers have moved onto social media. You are complaining about a problem and refusing to adapt to it.
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>>33737122
Good question. About time someone asked for some decent advice. This is a psychological game but it can be played and won quite easily. Ok, in order to do this, it's almost like visualization which they sometimes talk about on /x/. It's essentially the same technique. Just like I tell people on here all the time, look at yourself the way you want females to look at you. That's literally all it is. You have to look at, perceive and carry yourself as if you already have females seething over you. Just pretend if you have to and completely absorb that perspective and state of mind and state of yourself that you'd be if that were true. Literally just be the person you'd be with a bunch of psycho girls preying on you and slowly but surely, as you go through life and begin to make changes and operate under that mindset, girls will start to come and will follow suit. If you know you know. If you don't well hey, get used to being lonely. I have girls seething over me rn but I also know what that kind of guy is supposed to look like and be like. If you don't know how to manage having a lot of girls and a lot of friends or don't know what to say to them or how to talk to them then it's gonna be a lot harder but still possible. It's a visualization technique. Just like with pretty much everything else in life. Master your mental powers.
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>>33737132
you're so old you're not preyable anymore
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>>33737122
By roping, you attention starved NPD riddled whore/tranny
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>>33737122
>I grew up when boys who were attracted to you asserted manly dominance, now everyone seems a boring and gentle pussy
Maybe the problem is that there's actually nothing interesting about you beyond your looks?
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>>33737132
>Socials such as a campfire? Or a walk through the park? A gathering for a fall event or something?
Yeah, you're right. It's not like the good old days when you could just get together with your friends at the malt shop to enjoy a chocolate shake and a nice Chuck Berry vinyl on the jukebox before heading down to the ol' sock hop down at the community center so that Bradley Prescott could take you by the hand and dance the jitterbug with you before taking you up to Makeout Point and giving you his letterman's jacket before giving you a good roll in the hay.
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>>33737538
This problem is generational and worse for younger people lol. Society has turned men into pussies

>>33737169
Manifest it eh? And how have things changed for you?

>>33738148
Yeah that's how it works, from stranger to stranger I can tell by your reply you're not interesting either
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>>33737122
>I grew up when boys who were attracted to you asserted manly dominance, now everyone seems a boring and gentle pussy

gee. I wonder if there was any sort of external pressure that led to this outcome. Anything at all....
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>>33737122
Is this board seriously just stunk up with all rhetorical question-asking, bitter women? Like r9k?

How about you kys if you’re just gonna be a crusty dusty old sour hag. Go wear something scandalous then go get raped behind a dumpster in a bad neighborhood if you’re that desperate to attract stalkers, bitch

Dudes you know the drill. Dni unless you are grilling her
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>>33737122
so how old are you?
also you're an old dude that trooned out in their golden years aren't you
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an interested anonette here:

how come you read and hear about the most basic bitches, if not downright ugly, experiencing the most intense and passionate soap operas? they're often much older too (30-50) so clearly it's not about beauty or age or something, it's about finding the "right" guys who will chimp out on their love. what do they do differently? aside from being much more social

but i try to be social too, except i think i come across intimidating unfortunately. i have a serious pensative face even though i try to smile when i engage people. ive been told i seem arrogant or lost in thought until people get to know me. but how will people get to know me if they don't approach me or reciprocate?

for example i know a guy at the gym i go to regularly who stares at me often from across the gym. i also stare back. we've also interacted very nicely before when he was working out at the same machine as me and he seemed enthused and interested and was eager to share his machine with me (in the end it was not necessary anymore). so we talked and smiled at each other and what not, for 30 seconds lol, and since then nothing, no more words or even saying hi. tho we look at each other. what gives? should i pretend to need to use the same machine again? he's cute but the fact that he's not coming forth lessens my interest in him
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>>33740955
Why are you waiting for him to come forth? Has it occured to you that you are equally capable of approaching him? Lmao the problems women come here with. "I'm attractive and get attention from guys, the most obvious course of action for me is to come forth towards him, how do I avoid doing this?'
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>>33740955
>he's cute but the fact that he's not coming forth lessens my interest in him
Bitch go to your fucking girlfriends about this

Why do women think taking their non-problems to 4chan is ever a good idea
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>>33740962
>Has it occured to you that you are equally capable of approaching him?
But it's not her job; it's his.
By him refusing to do so he's just proving that he's a bitch. Can you really not see how that's a disappointing turn of events for a girl who is interested in a guy?
>roastie reee
I'm a man you idiots, just getting that out of the way. I'm just not scared of women like you guys are.
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>>33741371
You’re a simp AND a faggot. Congrats
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>>33741390
>what, you can talk and flirt with women with no hesitation?
>what a FAGGOT
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>>33740962
no sane real woman would make the first move
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>>33741414
Wrong
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>>33737169
but i have aphantasia
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>>33741395
Are you esl or retarded? You never once mentioned anything about you talking or flirting with women. Only showing how you’ll suck up to one. You are gay
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>>33741419
>this guy thinks women make the first move
Women don’t make any moves, guy. They are mentally toddlers
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>>33741426
>You never once mentioned
If you can't make a simple inference, you shouldn't be calling anyone retarded.
Calling YOU a faggot is not somehow sucking up to women either but we can let that one slide when the greater issue is that you're braindead.
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>>33741419
OP is literally complaining about men not being men anymore and not doing manly things like being assertive and initiating things

your solution is to have the feminine(receptive) and masculine (active) roles reverse. Are you retarded?
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>>33741432
What is there to infer when your only post was sucking up to a deluded, attention-seeking hoe?
>it’s not HER job; it’s HIS
>he’s a BITCH
You reek of reddit
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>>33741442
Well let's think about this. If I say that a guy is being a little bitch for being too scared to talk to a woman, doesn't that imply that I, on the other hand, am not? Otherwise by what right would I have to judge someone for something I am equally guilty of?
Only a negative-IQ third worlder such as yourself would not instantly grasp this. You seem well-versed in what people say on reddit though so maybe it's time you went back there.
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>>33741450
Thanks for the paragraph, bud
>You seem well-versed
>Well let's think about this
Where’s ur fedora? Do you hear yourself? Who knows if this guy even wants to talk to this bitch? Thanks for outing urself as a third worlder though. Makes sense why I thought you were esl
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%>>33737122
Tranny thread
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>>33741468
Just admit that you've got nothing and that you're a scared bitch. It's ok anon.
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>>33741481
You’re still projecting? You didn’t ask for OP’s discord yet?
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>>33740793
>Yeah that's how it works, from stranger to stranger I can tell by your reply you're not interesting either
Kek chill out, I was just offering constructive criticism.
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>>33737122
>How do I attract love psychos that will prey on me and potentially stalk me?
By having a genocide of all your man hating sisters who say blind man were watching them at a gym. Then wait a generation or two for the culture to change.



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