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What are the things that make a girl look attractive? Please give me tips and ideas I don't want to be a femcel forever. I started exercising and dieting, dropped 10 kgs and still going. I recently discovered mewing since my jaw is kinda staying in behind (or my lower lip is more behind than the top lip) so my side profile looks chopped af. I always have pimples on my face in summer even though i dont go out of the house. (I only go for a run at 8 pm) And i wash my face with soap everyday because i heard that most products are a scam. and even though im in a healthy diet i look like i do crack (people ask me if i smoke or do something) i have eyebags or idk what they called even though i sleep enough.
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>>33737294
what's your current weight op?

if you are not obese you should be fine, for your face idk, maybe ask a friend or your mom/sister for some makeup/skincare advice
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>>33737294
Assuming you're an actual girl... Cardio weightlifting and pilates are all good. If you have more muscle you can eat more and not get malnourished. Mewing doesn't do anything unless you're still in puberty. Check out facial yoga and gua sha for depuffing your face which can make your jaw sharper. Most products aren't a scam, soap is pretty harsh for your face. You can get neutragena foaming cleanser (gentle for all skin types) and aveeno daily oatmeal moisturizer (for sensitive skin), or cerave moisturizer. You should wash and moisturize every day before bed. Make sure you change your pillow case twice a week, and don't touch your face if you haven't washed your hands recently. If you only get them in summer it's probably caused by humidity or not washing your face properly. You can look into "cooling" gel moisturizers if you want, to deal with the heat. What kind of diet do you have? For eye bags you can easily cover them with concealer.
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>>33737294
What kind of hair do you have
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>>33737294
how am I supposed to say anything without a photo? if you want it to be more private you can add me on disc. VengefulGhosts. I'm probably alot older than you but I'm also on the looksmaxxing train, best thing you can do for yourself is lose weight. what's your height and weight?
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The sun is actually good for you, you should get a little bit. Not saying bake all day, and you might have more wrinkles when you're old, but who cares you will look like shit when you're old anyway. Glad to hear you are avoiding skin products too, good call.

I had bad acne problems but they went away when I started eating better. You said you are working on your diet and that's great, what staples do you eat weekly? Also what exercises? Not that it matters, almost anything is fine as long as you like it enough to do it consistently

As a girl, the two things to do for attractiveness is don't be fat, and be a nice, kind person. Anything else is a distant 3rd at best.
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>>33737294
People literally ask you if you do crack or drugs? That's insanity. I'm kind of afraid wth you're talking about. What does a dermatologist say? How old are you?
You can use mild product like Cerave in the value size, or even Clean and Clear for nearly no cost, why would you say products are a scam.
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>>33737294
Face features also your nose and skull structure
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>>33737294
For me weight. Probably the biggest factor in our very overweight world. Everything else is kinda picky. That bull nose piercing is also a big no no.
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>>33737434
Im not obese my height is 1.72 and my weight now is 60 after i lost weight >>33737505
I tried doing pilates but they're so hard so i stick to abs workouts and running for 15 minutes everyday but sunday. I just turned 19 so i think im still going through puberty i think mewing will work for me because i saw a girl on reddit who did it when she was 19 and posted results 1 year later: https://www.reddit.com/r/orthotropics/comments/1jel1xw/one_year_of_mewing_20_f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
I will try the skin care tips you gave me. I eat whole grain sugar free toast with an egg in the morning sometimes because im not really hungry then so i dont eat breakfast everyday. But my main meals everyday are always like: Liver, fish, chicken, meat and so, i drink raw milk everyday 2 hours before i sleep
Concealer is good in hiding outside but i would also like to be pretty naturally >>33737522
I have a curly dry hair doesn't get oily or idk what its called
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>>33737662
Yeah im thinking of waking up early in the morning to catch the early hour's sun when i go running instead of going in the evening. I eat liver mostly half cooked because its more nutritious like this nad i eat chicken i like eggs and i like raw milk these are my mains sometimes i eat meat. I do light workouts at home for abs and leg and posture i focus more on running.
>>33737677
Yeah some people asked me so far, random people like in grocery stores and stuff. Im 19 and im saying products are a scam because you're not really sure of the side effects of what you put on your skin. Idk i just like natural things as a conspiracy theorist
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>>33738057
>>33738082
Random question femanon, what's your opinion on height in a guy? Do you have any preference?
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>>33738113
Yeah i think if he's not shorter than me its fine
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>>33738082
Liver has parasites/bacteria, please cook it fully, the nutrition you gain from it is minuscule compared to the viral load. I also hope that raw milk is boiled, as someone who's parents grew up on a farm, they always boiled the milk.
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>>33738549
"boiling milk decreases its nutritional content by impacting vitamins and proteins, as heat degrades water-soluble B vitamins and can alter the structure of whey proteins, reducing their digestibility. Studies show losses in B vitamin content, such as folic acid and riboflavin, and altered protein structures that may lower protein retention. While some nutrients like calcium are relatively unaffected, the overall nutritional profile of milk does decline when boiled. "
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>>33738674
And? Killing harmful bacteria is more important. You'll get more health benefits by just eating cooked food that is non gmo and avoiding all processed foods. I'm not going to argue with some internet randos while my family who were literal farmers always boiled their milk for centuries.
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>>33737294
Go into a public place with a bunch of nerdy looking guys, and loudly say "I am now accepting boyfriend applications". If you say it somewhere without chuds it will still take only about 5 tries on average.
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>>33737294
Getting out of femcelhood is actually pretty easy if you're from Finland. If you are, you will receive love eternal from me.
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>i heard that most products are a scam
That's a yes and no. There are no miracle products that drastically fixes your skin overnight. They require at least a week of daily applying to have any noticeable effect. Even then, the effects are almost microscopic. My routine before bed is: serum/oil, toner (clear, liquid lotion), then moisturizer cream.

Hyaluronic acid helps with hydrating your face.
Retinol is anti-aging, but harsh on skin so use occasionally depending how sensitive your skin is.
Niacinamide reduces redness and minimizes pores.

It's kind of a trial and error in figuring out what works with your skin. Honestly I buy most of my facial stuff from Marshall's and Burlington where it's heavily discounted (both brand name and obscure), but work decently.

Another way to looksmaxx as a girl is to dress feminine. Wear colors according to your seasonal palette, and pick clothes that suit your body shape.

Best of luck, you got this!
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>>33738900
I think you should find some actual factual statements from either scientists or doctors. Your farmer familie is not qualified at all to answer these questions. They are farmers. This "but we have always done it this way" is not really a good way to evolve society. I'm not the guy you argued with, but just wanna say he is completely correct.
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femanon you sound like my identical twin just flipped gender. i have been worried about becoming more attractive prob since around age 12 (19 now) and even though ive succeeded in a lot of ways i still really struggle with finding happiness. my point is that you should also worry about your happiness and socialization along with your appearance. i dont think improving your appearance is a pointless mission but you should question what your end goal is/will lead to. maybe i am projecting but if you are a femcel due to insecurity + socializing issues and you are worried about your appearance as a means to solve those then you will just be dissapointed in the end when you realize you have more work to do internally despite now becoming "attractive". people always say that women have it easy when it comes to relationships as they dont have to do anything to get a partner so consider that if you are celibate at this age then maybe appearance alone won't save you. retarded rant but hope it makes you introspective and somehow helps
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even if you somehow manage to make yourself attractive it wont change your life in any meaningful way.
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To any men in here entertaining this zoomette attention-seeker, kill yourselves
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>>33739052
Its not about having a boyfriend, i have one anyways and i love him but i just don't feel pretty enough for him.
>>33739104
Im in egypt there's no escape
>>33740830
Hmmmm thank you homie im gonna try that you're right
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>>33740918
I know what you mean but i really can't find anything that makes me happy I don't even have hobbies anymore nothing entertains me and im lazy to do anything idk if that makes sense and i dont wanna sound corny but i keep searching for happiness and I can't find anything to do that will make me happy. I only have 1 friend since i changed country and I don't have money to go out there's no nature in egypt where i can go and chill its all desert and whenever i go out i just get harassed by men not like in a really bad way but they keep looking at me
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>>33741012
Wheres the attention seeking in my question? Im seeking help in an advice thread i dont understand what's wrong with that
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>>33741401
All of you are attention-seekers. You’re not even human. What makes a woman attractive? You’re a girl, you can get any guy you want and live life on easy mode. “Femcels” don’t exist. Kill yourself
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>>33741398
>>33741401
>>33741408
Also, you’re brown. “Men are HARASSING ME” when they’re literally just looking at you. You’re too lazy to do anything? This is all a non-problem, a YOU problem. Get the fuck off this site. It’s not your blog. It’s not your diary. You just want attention from dumb fuck simps because you know they’ll be here. I hope you get ass raped by a camel in Egypt
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>>33741408
Yeah, I second this. This girl is an attention seeking slut whore. Stop entertaining this shit.
>>33741391
>a boyfriend, i have one anyways
She even already has a fucking boyfriend. Femcels absolutely do not exist.
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>>33741413
>I hope you get ass raped by a camel in Egypt
kek
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>>33741428
Lmao I didn’t even see this. Calling yourself a femcel WHILE you have a boyfriend. I hope a mummy joins in with that fucking camel
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>>33741445
kek
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>>33741428
>>33741445
I used the term femcel as sarcasm but you guys don't seem to have a sense of humor so that's not my problem. I asked for advice and if i wanted attention I wouldn't have said that i have a boyfriend. you're hating on my skin tone which's slightly tanned and I cant change but you don't even try to be a better person as i see, coming here to humiliate women.
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>>33737294
Books, wide hips, thin (relative to hips) waist.

Getting married soon, my first girlfriend, and we met over books. I feel a little scared of marriage but imagining reading books with her, and discussing books, for many years to come? As well as our general thoughts on the world? It makes me feel a lot more sure in it.

Also hips and waist -- I think it's something a lot of young or inexperienced men may not realize they want. I cared about breasts most of all before meeting her. However after being with her I realized how nice it was to put my hands on her waist and then feel her hips pushing out below my hands. Incredibly sexy and just relaxing, honestly.
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>>33737294
What
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>>33741576
This entire post is pointless. The only reason you would want to improve yourself is so you can dump the dude you are already with and get with chad.
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>>33741916
Lol, they always want chad. They're never satisfied with the perfectly nice dude that they have.
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>>33741916
I have zero sympathy for this bitch. Where's that fucking camel.
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>>33737294
I bet you're already beautiful Anon, at least in my heart
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>>33741988
lol simp
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https://www.jsanilac.com/dispelling-beauty-lies/

>>33741960
Correct. Only keep one man so make sure you're not demoralizing yourself and him by settling for trash.
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>>33741916
I believe what i have is already a chad thats why i feel like im fucking ugly don't you understand? I feel like he's too handsome for me thats my problem. If you have bad past experiences with girls dumping you after improving thats not my problem nigga
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>>33742316
>what i have is already a chad
Easy mode. Don't worry OP, girls always date up
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>>33742316
>I already have chad and he's willing to lick my pussy and be my personal boy toy but he's just too chad for me I need a chad that is worthy of my ugliness because in my mentally deranged mind I am hideous and I need a chad that appreciates that
What... what even is this shit? What the fuck am I reading here? Even when this bitch has chad she's looking for some other type of chad. Unfuckingbelievable.
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>>33742427
Where the fuck did i say that im looking for someone else you stupid blind ass nigger? I LOVE AND ADORE my boyfriend stop being fucking stupid i asked a simple question and i wanted tips because i dont want people to look at us and say "how did she even pull him" do you get the idea or are you a fucking schizo who just wants to accuse women of something that never happened?
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>>33737294
Step 1. Quit 4chan. You know this.
Your ugliness reflects your ugly soul corrupted by 4chan.
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>>33742541
4chan had nothing to do with this. This bitch is using her body dysmorphia to seek attention. As evidenced by her lying about being a femcel while already having a boyfriend.

>>33742533
>I LOVE AND ADORE my boyfriend
Zero sympathy.
>i dont want people to look at us and say "how did she even pull him"
Zero.
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>>33742631
I didn't lie i just said that i was being sarcastic. Im not stupid, if i was lying I wouldn't have said that i have a boyfriend. And even if im seeking attention, what's wrong with a girl seeking attention it's known for a girl to seek attention isn't it? Why are we shaming women now for seeking attention? Despite that, i am not seeking attention i only wanted tips and wanted to know what men find attractive. There is nothing that makes you think that i seek attention in my questions. You only want to shame a woman on the site for living imo. So instead of wasting your time on shaming women for wanting tips go get a life.
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>>33742701
Op Deez incels are going schizo with their upsetti at women, ignore them.
Your situation is a perfect example of why some girls date more mid guys. In the meantime, do you want to optimize more for being more attractive/beautiful for your Chad bf, for the others you feel judged by, or both?
Also since you're already taken, I can't provide advice services for free. Actual content will cost 1 blowjob please
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>>33742701
Think for a while you retard on what board you are right now. People who are in position to give advice are few and far between here and those who genuinely want to help quickly get tired out by encountering nothing but people with loser mindsets who either just want to be comforted like infants or want others to agree with them that life sucks and they suck and they should off themselves. And in their time off from being pathetic, they browse other threads and pick fights with whoever they think is vulnerable. These are chronically online dopamine junkies and you give into their addiction by trying to engage with then in any meaningful way

but on the other hand

You are a girl who is already dating and you call yourself by qualifiers that don't apply to you. A lot of people here are filled to the brim with traumas and are because of it extremely lonley and they resent young women for dating up. Still a lot of people gave you advice, and then you come here say 'uwu how can I make myself more attractive for my chad boyfriend' and you lash out when they turn on you - like you did not ask for it. You are so fucking dense
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>>33742906
One more thing. Don't think that first part of my post does not apply to you. You have proven beyond reasonable doubt that you also came here for advice second and to get comforted first with saying shit like
>i'm so uglyyyyy
>don't want others to think how i pulled him
What is saying shit like this supposed to achieve? that's typical attention seeking behaviour and everyone hates it here
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>>33740842
anon you're grabbing a cows tits and squeezing them until milk starts leaking into an aluminium bucket. unless you wash your cows and buckets all the time (both farm animals and farm equipment isn't gonna keep itself clean all the time), youre dealing with an unnecessary risk. besides, it's just nasty
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>>33742701
>what's wrong with a girl seeking attention?
It's a crime punishable by death. Go do that on Reddit, not here.

>i am not seeking attention
lmao... wait you're serious?

>There is nothing that makes you think that i seek attention in my questions.
You have Chad as your loving devoted boyfriend yet you come here with this bullshit problem of not feeling good enough either for him or other people. Bitch are you for real? There are starving children in Africa that have actual problems to deal with.

>>33742533
>I LOVE AND ADORE my boyfriend
You even say that you love your Chad. What the fuck is the problem here?

>oh woe is me this attractive man wants to lick my pussy forever but I just don't feel like I'm attractive enough for him even though I was more than attractive enough for him to want to lick my pussy in the first place
Yeah... you're seeking attention for your body dysmorphia, anon. It's very apparent.

>and wanted to know what men find attractive
Fine here's a tip from a man. What men find attractive are women who show their tits in order to earn the attention they seek. Oh and are not looking for Chad. Fuck you and your fucking Chad.

>You only want to shame a woman on the site for living imo.
No, just women that behave like you.

>>33742740
>Also since you're already taken, I can't provide advice services for free. Actual content will cost 1 blowjob please
lmao kek
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>>33741576
>femcel as sarcasm
You’re a stupid brown bitch who is attention-seeking. You need to kill yourself
>you’re hating on my skin tone
>here to humiliate women
Yes, I hate you things. It’s 4chan you dumb fuck foid. What do you expect. It is not tumblr. It is not your blog. It is not twitter. Fuck off and die in some pyramid. I had to wake up to this shit. You’re still alive? You’re NOT dead yet? How disappointing

>>33742316
>WAAAAAH IM FUCKING UGLY
Then how about the both of you kys? Or, better yet, kill each other? How about that? You’re saying that word then bitching about racism btw, this girl is way too retarded. And it baffles me how this thread is still alive

>>33742533
>YOURE ACCUSING WOMEN
Oh my God go walk into some quicksand bitch please. You AND ur boyfriend

>>33742701
Yk what men find attractive? Girls like you slitting their throats. You never once asked that in your post, you asked what makes girls attractive, period. That’s something you go to your girlfriends over you brown sack of shit. Get a life? Look at your embarrassing ass post that everyone is laughing at you over now. YOU get a life
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>>33742238
I'm just shooting my shot man. I'm also ugly af and currently trying to change
still, I was hoping that my shot go in and I can finally get a girlfriend
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>>33746799
I've been trying to do that on /soc/ for like 15 months now. Absolutely nothing. No girls here are interested.



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