hi, 4chan. This is my first post on this board. I think this is the only place where people could understand me. I need help with my ex.in 2022, i've met a girl online from Russia (im from different country), we we're close friends for a while, but started to date in middle of spring. The problem is, she is very weird. She didnt mind dating me while i was underage, she stalked my every action, my every social media. I will skip a breakup and few other moments and go onto 2024.She was 18, while i was 15, and the "stalking" that i've mentioned before gone more intense. Every time i would go online - she would start monitoring my every action. What games i play, who im talking with, what music i listen - everything. After a month of dating, she broke up with me, but the problem stayed. We stopped talking at all, but she continued stalking my medias. Everything. Steam profile, discord, telegram, game platforms. In this year, 2025, i've tried to commit suicide (because im a retard), and because of that - she decided it was a good idea to search up my every friend, or ask random people from irl or my social medias to go up and check on me. She didnt knew where i lived, but in the end, my close (to that moment) friend decided to call me and meet me irl. When i came back online, when i finally started feeling myself much better - in 3 am, in the middle of the night she messaged me out of nowhere. The message was "dont do anything stupid anymore.".First of all, since im a pussy, i got a panic attack, and second of all, what the fuck? Why now? Why cant she let it go?She is still stalking all my medias that she got accsess to. Maybe im too paranoic. But im still scared. Rn we didnt spoke up in 2 months, and i hope it will stay that way. She has a thing going that she comes back in 3-4 months to "be your friend again". And, even if i try blocking her, she has alot of accounts i dont know about. I need your advice of any sorts. Thank you alot.
>>33738129Might be a symptom of schizophrenia where you think someone is obssessed with you without having tangible proof. How do you know she is stalking all your accounts?
>>33738162Well, i was kinda a retard, and because of that posted alot of important infromation on my medias that im gone n shit (i regret this too much). She checks my telegram channel posts, and i know that because 1) she told me 2) my 2 "friends" are only subscribers to that channel, and i dont sit in any groups that could boost my posts views to 15. One of my posts was reposted, and there was no reason to that at all. Like, i didnt spoke with anyone on TG, especially to people who could repost anything anywhere that it would get 135 views. I need to also add the fact that she herself told me that "i couldnt stop thinking about you" before, in this year. Thank you alot for replying :)
>>33738208Then maybe she is the one suffering from schizophrenia. There is a symptom where the patient gets obssessed with someone and starts stalking. I don't know the circumstances of your breakup to say exactly. But in general you should stay away from psychotic women like that. Also keep in mind that there are bots who crawl telegram so this can boost the view count drastically.
>>33738302>I don't know the circumstances of your breakupShe told me that, quote, she doesnt feel like a girlfriend with me. Disregarding the fact that i was near her every time she needed, the fact that i tried as much as i could to help her, and the fact that i started saving cash to buy a trip to Russia.And about obsession part, after we broke up for the first time, her coping mechanisms, ig, decided to start dating people and waste a month on them ( i confronted her once about that, and she told me she didnt want to feel "alone" and wanted "love" ). The people she dated usually had alot of my features, curly or long hair, into tactical stuff, and after i introduced her to my favourite band ( that she listens to even now ) - she started liking Rock. Before she usually just listened to pop music.I dont know if im stupid or she has something wrong with her.
