I really love my waifu. I don't wanna say her name here but I love her a whole lot. I own lots of merch for her, commission SFW and NSFW art of her, think about her, and have a dakimakura of her. I'm starting to like her more than most irl women honestly. The thing though is I still want to have sex. I feel bad. I know she's not real but I feel like she's really important to me. I don't know if I should do the waifuism route or not. I'm not even a good boyfriend I read and watch lots of ecchi and hentai and I have some naked anime girl figures that aren't her. I want to be better to her but I still have my sexual desires and I know she's not real. I'm really confused anons....what do I do?
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>>33739142I don't know what to do anon. Should I be more loyal to my waifu or just keep jerking off and maybe find an irl girl someday? I'm starting to love my waifu more than real people
>>33738220kohaku is my wife
>>33739166Nice anon! I don't wanna say my waifu's name in this thread but I'm happy for you!
>>33738220>Melty blood/type moon maids.Cute.In all seriousness you know what you are doing is wrong because you come here to question about it. You are overindulging in escapism because you have a hole in your life, which is probably romantic/socialization. People with worse lives and people who lack support systems/socialization are more likely to delve into bad habits (such as what you are doing). I am not Goggins or some beacon of masculinity, so I am not going to pretend that I am and lecture you on being a man. HOWEVER, I think you should at least put away the fiction/escapism for a month or so, and go hard in real life socialization. Also lay off the (softcore) pornography for that time, and talk to some women IRL. You should sell the figures and the bodypillow, those are too much imo (mostly the bodypillow). Once you get a solid grasp on IRL socialization you will come back and you won't lean into escapism as much.
>>33739173Thanks for the kind response anon. I won't sell anything because they mean too much to me but I'll be more social and try to talk to girls more often this month.
>>33739182Good on you for socializing, but again be warned on the figure/bodypillow because I really do think they will be offputting to others and any potential .Here is my reasoning for selling the merch:1) Anime culture is looked down up on for various reasons. (if you care about fitting in, which to participate in society you kind of have to play the "game" of socialization and status to some extend)2) Allows you to detach since you feel as if you are in to deep and have formed a parasocial bond with a fictional character.3) You can be (deeply) interested without letting it consume you. You do not have to plaster memorabilia all over your living space just because you like something. You can be a fan without being a fanatic (even though that is where the word fan originated from).
>>33739225They're all very expensive ( most over $150 ) so I a can't throw them out. I'm just gonna socialize and see what happens
