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How do you deal with your reputation being destroyed by rumors, by people who hate you? What to do when you have no friends and no one wants to be in a relationship with you?
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>>33740114
Find legal methods of making life worse for your fellow human, criminal defence is an exeptional method
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>>33740114
There's an old expression , "there's never been a prophet in their own hometown" for a reason , a place that knows all your skeletons is deadweight and a reason why people like to move. If u live in a big city , best thing is to start laundering your reputation in a different part of town. Basically don't get involved with your school , but your local community league? nobody cares about high school rumors unless this is a small town.

No friends and nobody wants a relationship? Isolation until you figure out if its actually you or them. If you can wear a smile on your face and actually engage with people - its probably them. If you a mopey sack of shit and shock that nobody gives you a chance - its probably you.

Generally speaking in day to day , just keep moving , don't linger anywhere long enough for people to be reminded of you - hide in the library or whatever. Maybe you'll have to socially downgrade to the nerds or whoever still gives you a chance.
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>>33740114
>by people who hate you?
if you are doing right by the world and other people, you will get haters, guaranteed. If you do not succumb to emotional taunting, you will be fine. If you react in an angry manner about things- people will come to understand that those rumors are true. So, you just keep on your goals and leave the people who believe the rumors behind. They were not on your side anyway.
>What to do when you have no friends and no one wants to be in a relationship with you?
learn how to live life alone and independently? You don't need others to be happy. If you keep doing right by yourself, the world and other people- you will naturally attract the right kind of people in your life. But you must be sincere in that and not try to be dishonest with people.
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I won't read imaginary problems threads.
I won't read self-inflicted problems threads. You're straining at a creation of your own mind, relationship thing included.
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>>33740114
You gotta just pick up and move on man. It happens. It sucks. Im sorry. Life isnt a movie. We dont get satisfying endings sometimes.

>>33740140

You watch too much TV.
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>>33740213
Not OP. Cool phrase.
I never heard they before and looked it up.
That expression is a Bible verse, said by Jesus. It means everyone closest to you take you for granted and dont know your worth. You shine better to new people.

Honest to fucking God, what a great expression. Thanks for posting today.
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>>33740398
>I won't read imaginary problems threads.
>I won't read self-inflicted problems threads. You're straining at a creation of your own mind, relationship thing included
PSA: Whoever wrote that is not me, the "I won't read guy" but simply one of *my* haters (we all have them, OP) or maybe a fan.
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>>33740466
>you shine better to new people
Sorry, hadn't actually grasped it before posting.
You dont grow close to home with familiar people was the point.
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>>33740114
Realise I've seen this exact thread before.
Realise that you are going to provide exactly 0 details because you're a massive faker and you just want to play the victim for validation.
That said, you have successfully destroyed your own reputation.
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>>33740114
This poster/cover is equally awful and beautiful somehow



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