>>33741337
>I will never find someone like her again
You can start with getting some self-respect. She will cheat on you again if she isn't already.

>>33741337
>I will never find someone like her again.
Pretty sure it's dead simple to find another girl who will cheat on you though.

>>33741478
brutal :(

>>33741370
Yeah, that is what my friends said.

How do you not kill both after seeing that? What a fucking beta

>>33741337
How did your friends find out about it?

>>33742274
I called my closest friend 5 minutes after the conforntation cuz I was still panicking and in absolute denial mode begging for help.

This was probably a massive mistake on my side. THis could have been better if I didn't call I reckon but at that moment I reallllllly needed to talk to someone instantly.

>>33743182
No, your mistake was not dumping her there and then. This will not get better.

Thanks for making me feel better about myself op. Lmao

>>33741337
I get you bro
the well is poisoned tho
it's very probable this will happen again unless she's REALLY changed and done stuff to address whatever made her do that
I'm not gonna be as drastic as some other anons because I believe in change as I've seen it in past partners and myself
but
it has to come from her and be something tangible, if she's just apologized and nothing else came out of it
it's going to happen again. I told people I was quitting stuff but unless I really tacked whatever made me do that thing those were empty platitudes
same with exes

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>>33741337
Bro, HOW does this work so well?

Let's be real here... You probably won't find one that ticks all the boxes, but if loyalty wasn't that far up on the list, then you'll probably be doing just fine. Make it an open relationship, then it's easier for everyone. Now is she marriage material? Nah. But it's all a matter of perspective and what you're willing to put up with that matters here.

>>33741337
>we both act like it never happened
This is your biggest problem. If we assume she actually did make a mistake she regrets, the number one thing she needs to do is own up to it and not brush it under the rug. Just pretending it didn't happen allows whatever caused her to do it in the first place to fester until she ends up doing it again. If you two are serious about this relationship, you need to address this and figure out how to fix the root issue. And above all else, she needs to recognize that she still needs to EARN your trust, so giving it to her freely like that is a massive mistake on your part.

>>33745530
>giving it to her freely like that is a massive mistake on your part.
Yes, I am making that conclusion as well now.

Sorry, I have never planned for such a cucking scenario in my entire life so obviously I am making mistakes left and right.

Thank you others for input as well, I read them all and consider it.

Best solution is always the easiest and leaving her is very hard.

>she just sent me an "I love you" text before leaving for work
:(

>>33745565
Bro, she cheated on you. That's the ultimate betrayal.

>"this is a misunderstanding" yadda yadda
>"I didn't mean to"
>"he is just a friend"
these were lies. you don't just chill on the couch naked with just a friend.
what matters more, your self respect or the sex you get?

>>33745565
Look, you obviously care about this girl. And despite everyone rightfully telling you to leave, if you really want to stay with her, you need to have a serious sit-down talk with her. Air your concerns, let her know that you're still hurting and you need to know she's committed to making the relationship work. No hollow platitudes, no caving in and trying to ignore it, really dig down deep and let her know how badly your trust is broken even now. Put the ball in her court, let her know that you still need her to prove that you're her one and only - if she refuses or gets upset, make it clear this is for the sake of your relationship, and if she continues to act petulant and immature, then dump her. How she responds to your emotional pain will set the tone for the months/years to come, and you need to know she's yours.

>>33745675
>you need to know she's yours.
She is clearly not his, but for the streets.
OP only caught her once - imagine what the fuck she was doing every other time OP was at work.

>>33741337

>most stereotypical shit possible in this scenario (I do crash tf out, no hate for the other dude tho, I attack only her)
Brother, I feel bad for you; but she literally cheated on you. You don’t need to give her a way out especially if she never owned up and apologized. If she apologized then I could forgive her if I was you, but it would have to be really sincere.
>I will never find someone like her again.

If you don’t leave her and let yourself out for other girls you won’t, but there’s always other girls.
>she matches my freak

I don’t think this is a good thing.

>>33741337
Really a no win situation.
The best you can do is have an open relationship or whatever that cuck streamer Destiny had.
Then you can try to pretend that you are just so openminded and don't believe in traditional gender roles or whatever.
You obviously like this girl for more than sex, do you have to decide if having all that other stuff is worth sharing her vagina.

OP here. Broke up. Gave the final word. Said from now on we are both single and I can never tell you "I love you".

They tried to gaslight me, saying I am overreacting and I am ending a happy and long-term relationship over a simple misunderstand that everyone would just move on.

Almost got me convinced but I said it is still over.

It hruts like hell and I am crying rn like a little sissy girl.

>>33747299
It'll be alright, anon. Good on you for standing up for yourself. The pain won't last forever, and eventually you'll find someone who makes you happy and is worth your time. For now, let yourself grieve, maybe call upon your friends for emotional support if you're up to seeing others, but just take the time you need to get through the sadness. You got this.

>>33741337
>I will never find another whore that cheats on me behind my back
This is essentially what you sound like, retard.

>>33747299
The fact that she still won't admit to cheating despite the fact that you caught her is proof you did the right thing. It's going to hurt man, but every time you feel that pain just know it's making you stronger. You're in hell right now, but it WILL pass, I promise.

>>33741337
>furry is also a retarded spineless loser
Lmao. Get some self respect and dump her ass retard, she already doesnt give a shit about you
>>33743182
>it was my mistake to trust my friends and count on them to look out for me
You do not deserve your friends. You seem like a massive retard, how you managed to even get a girl is wild

>>33745518
>t. Cuck

>>33748179
>Get some self respect and dump her ass retard
I did.
>how you managed to even get a girl is wild
It is wild and I considered myself incredibly lucky - maybe you can see why I was so desperate to keep her.

>>33741337
>>however, my entire friend group (some of them have known me for 4+ years) labeled me a pathetic desperate loser cuck and refuse to hang out if she wants to join
your friends are fucking her also

>>33741337
>>she matches my freak
>>including all the furry stuff
>>we play same video games
>>we watch same shows
>>we watch same movies
>>sex multiple times per week for months and we go at it like animals
I need you to know this with my entire being. I need you to read this post and imprint it on your mind. Every single positive trait on a girl means nothing if she does not love you back. If anything, it turns into a negative because it just makes the relationship even more hurtful when it doesn't work out. You should rather be with a girl who has literally nothing in common with you but loves you than a girl who you have everything in common with that literally already cheated on you. Your ranking of qualities in a woman is fucked up. Whether she likes you or not is right at the top, absolutely everything else is secondary.