Are women at all into this if the man can completely provide for them? I am realizing I can only have so many kids with 1 woman. My wife has already said she is okay with it. It was even her idea. She says she could use a friend at home that helps with the chores and kids. The biggest hurdles are going to be the social taboo. We will be judged by everyone and our conservative family will probably have a freak out as if it’s some unnatural perversion when it’s probably the most natural relationship you can have. I’m only talking about a max of 2 wives. Anymore is too much. So how do I approach a woman with this idea without sounding crazy?
>>33741502>Are women at all into this if the man can completely provide for them?If you mean "polygyny", then no. If you actually do mean polygamy, i.e. they get to have multiple husbands as well, then some women are into that, yes.
>>33741502>My wife has already said she is okay with it.You do realise she's lying, right?
I won't read creative writing erotica fantasy threads.
>>33741532Why did she bring it up though? >>33741533Not really that erotic. It’s family focused. 2 homemakers fully provided for in a giant house. They never have to get a job but their life will be cooking, cleaning and kid activities which moms seem to really enjoy. We already have 4 kids but I’d like at least 4 more
>>33741531How do you know that women aren’t into that? Or is it because you personally are against it?
>>33741502Move to Utah and become Mormon .But as a woman myself I’ll tell you this, your wife doesn’t like you that much. If she did she wouldn’t be so calm about sharing you with another woman. We don’t share. So there’s that to consider …
>>33741502So, first off, your wife is NOT okay with this. There are three possibilities I can think of: 1) It's a shit test and she is desperately hoping you'll say no. 2) She is engineering a situation where she can divorce you and take you for every penny you have. "Not only did he have a mistress, he actually moved her into the house with us!" Judges absolutely lap up that kind of thing. 3) She DOESN'T want you to have a second wife, she simply wants a live-in housekeeper and nanny, and because she never wants to have sex with you again, she doesn't mind you fucking the help. However, if this is what is happening, it is important to understand that, in your wife's mind, the new woman will be a maid, not a wife. If you give the new woman equal emotional status to your wife, your wife will freak out more than you can possibly imagine; but if you don't do that, the new woman will be a maid who is expected to work for free and fuck her employer, and no woman in the world would ever sign up for that.This anon >>33741531 is basically correct: some women are up for having a non-monogamous relationship, but ONLY if it is non-monogamous in BOTH directions: you have to be okay with her having other partners besides you, and one of them will probably be more important to her than you are.
>>33741566FOUR MORE FULLY HUMAN CHILDREN IN THIS ECONOMY????
>>33741589>How do you know that women aren’t into that?Because if I make an educated guess about how old you probably are, based on that, I've been into ethical non-monogamy since before you were born. (And I'm a guy, by the way). I've met hundreds of people who were into every possible permutation of it, and NONE of them would be okay with this setup.
>>33741599>If she did she wouldn’t be so calm about sharing you with another woman. We don’t share. So there’s that to consider …To be entirely fair, if his wife is bisexual that might play into her calmness about the idea, if she thinks she will be getting a partner as well.Of course, that could also mean her approval of the idea is rooted in the idea that she has someone she can leave OP for so there's that.
>>33741599Thanks for that perspective. I get the feeling she doesn’t really like me too much. She’s very loyal and focused on taking care of the kids. I am almost like a room mate to her. Maybe she wants a friend in her life. Shes too busy for friends right now.
>>33741621She is definitely closet bi but I don’t think she’s sexual enough to act on that. We are focused on raising kids not sex fantasies
>>33741626>Thanks for that perspective. I get the feeling she doesn’t really like me too much.If that's the case, you need to work on your relationship with her first. Completely providing for any number of wives includes providing emotionally as well.
Why the fuck do you want eight kids? kids are cute and all but what the hell.
>>33741641Bisexuality isn't just sex, dude. If being bi was part of her rationale, it would also include romance and emotional vulnerability, and a second wife would be someone she could open up to and share tender moments with alongside you. Get it?
>>33741602What can I say? I’m blessed and want to raise more great kids. I am already spending more on food than our mortgage
>>33741626>I get the feeling she doesn’t really like me too much. She’s very loyal and focused on taking care of the kids. I am almost like a room mate to her.In that case, stop fucking around with impossible scenarios, and get an amicable divorce like a sane person. A woman *might* be okay with "I'm recently divorced; my ex-wife and I still see each other fairly regularly because we have four children together, but it's entirely platonic now". At any rate, you have a far better chance of finding someone who is up for that than for what you're suggesting.
>>33741662I watched a reality show where a guy was in a polygynous relationship with like three wives and 9 kids and they were ex-mormon. honestly i only see mormons do this.
>>33741646It is such a great feeling to be raising kids. It’s this drive I have that can’t be explained. I’m a very proud dad.
>>33741680I am a dad too, I've got a daughter and a son I love to pieces, and I think you're nuts. My kids are great, but no fucking way would I want to have to raise eight damn kids, I'd go fucking nuts with stress.
>>33741502advertise for a bi third, they'll que up
>>33741748>advertise for a bi third, they'll que upKek, there's a reason why they're called "unicorns".
>>33741502What is a Mormon doing posting here? You won't go to heaven
