Get opportunity to get a gf! Only to realize I'm going spend Time, Energy, money on her, and overthink of regretting it all when she does leave me.Every time. I'm so negative towards relationships. Every man around me that are married praises me of how lucky I am to be free. I never feel like a winner being single and never feel secured being in a relationship. Any help?
>>33741547It is weird, I get called “lucky and free” too when I mention I’m single and have been for a long time now. Is it some kind of good mannered joke making fun of me, or are they genuine and annoyed by their ladies at home? Weird indeed
>>33741547>>33741668The novelty of being with a woman wears off incredibly fast, especially if you're not crazy in love with her. At some point you realize that you're paying for a bunch of shit, doing a bunch of extra work and tolerating a bunch of nagging for crumbs of pussy. While you watch young fellows like you go free and not have to worry about providing for an ungrateful creature who nags them.But I guess being in a pussyless desert makes you think like that the voluntary servitude of modern marriage is somehow a better condition for a man
>>33741668Because who wants to cuddle up to a warm human who you have grown to know and care for? Who wants to smell the sweet wretched bowels another human desecrates the pure air with? Or who would want to be loyal to one person while dedicating their life to partner up, support, make each other better and have someone to share your thoughts and feelings with?
>>33741721uhhh *blushes & raises hand
OP hereAfter going for a quiet walk in the park, I realized I'm just a man-child coward. Always wanting the easy way out in life. I had no will to change; to make something out of myself. Clearly, there are other plans for me to reach out and achieve. I want to be better and will be better. No one is gonna save me. Thanks for stopping by and reading my self pitty post. I got this.
What's the opportunity/situation you're in?
