How do you know a crush is or isn't unrequited? Especially if both you and the other person have a reason to avoid showing obvious attraction (like you're cousins or that person is your brother's gf's underage sister or some other unfavorable situation).What are the "signs" a person cannot fake? I just want to know for my own ego at this point because I find them attractive.
>>33742530>How do you know a crush is or isn't unrequited?If you tell them you're romantically interested in them and then they say it back. Chads don't waste time mind reading. Pursue what you want and if you won't do it some other guy with a spine will.
>>33742530>What are the "signs" a person cannot fake?There aren't any. Your only option is to ask. /thread
>>33742558I'm no chad and will not risk my reputation (and my reputation would 100% be affected if I asked them out and they told others)I kind of hope the crush would go away if I could have some level of certainty of their feelings. But obviously that's impossible at the moment. So maybe I could at least to some degree deduce how they feel.Normies like you need not complain.
>>33742570>thread/ing your own postLmao.And I know there are though.
>>33742577>I'm no chad and will not risk my reputationSo instead of having a reputation as a confident guy who asks girls out and isn't afraid to assert himself in social situations you'd rather the reputation as a giant pussy. Got it.>Normies like you need not complain.Consider the possibility that normies have figured out something you haven't. Here's some other advice - don't come to advice if you don't want advice. We're giving you accurate and good information but you're trying to fight it because the solution to your problem is too scawy for you. If you want a hugbox go talk to your mom.
>>33742588I ask a question on how to do something, and you come then whine and assert that your opinion on not doing it at all is superior. That isn't advice.Anyway great bait though.
>>33742530I won't read threads that require the audience to be mind-readers. Heaven forbid that OP should actually talk to her to discern her openness.
>>33743203I have talked, but I am kinda shy admittedly. It's the kind of person who always seems to be mildly flirty 24/7 so it's hard to tell.
>acting more girlish/flirty when it's just you two>touching a lot>laughing at objectively unfunny things i say>asks a lot of personal questions>asks what type of girls i likeyou might think these are surefire signs but i've gotten rejected TWICE by TWO DIFFERENT foids who acted like this to me. it's impossible to know what womeme feels without just asking verbally.
>>33742530>What are the "signs" a person cannot fake?There are signs that can't be faked but they can still be misinterpreted. They're inconclusive. She could be aroused while talking about to you for unrelated reasons. She could care deeply what you think about her for reasons unrelated to attraction.There are no signs that 100% confirm they are interested unless they're literally saying as much.The best I have is when she looks at you like you're saying the most interesting thing in the world and she's eager to hear what you're about to say AND you happen to know that she isn't particularly interested in what you're talking about.It's a sort of gooey eyes look.My advice is to assume that she's attracted to you, but not attracted "enough".>>33742582>And I know there are though.I'm wondering what you mean and how you "know".
>>33743364So that could work as a sort of (but still inconclusive) "test"? Talk about something unrelated/boring and see hoe they react? Because that is something I've actively avoided doing, I mostly stay silent because these are always group conversations/situations.
>>33742530You flirt with her and if she flirts back that's a good sign. Later flirt with her harder and if she doesn't dodge out or the conversation gets awkward then you go ahead and ask her out.>signsIf she smiles at you, laughs at your jokes and doesn't mind being close to you. That are good signs. At least if she isn't trying to sell you something.
>>33743485>If she smiles at you, laughs at your jokes and doesn't mind being close to you. That are good signs. At least if she isn't trying to sell you something.Smiling yes, laughing at my jokes no because I have no social skills and never make jokes. Laughing at me yes (like when I make a silly mistake, they laugh the hardest, but it doesn't feel negative). And doesn't mind being close to me yes, they initiate hugs with me when meeting.
>>33743508Well, there you go. Ask her out.
>>33743529So these are decent signs of attraction? I just feel very conflicted because despite all that, I get ignored 99,9% of the time. They don't even do that thing with me where you often glance at someone you like, I glance somewhat often and never see it back.
>>33743508^_^God you're Beautiful
>>33742588BASED>>33742845He gave you the ultimate advice for your case right there >>33742570 you dumb nigger. Yeah, women may give men the famous "signs" which may vary entirely from woman to woman. You want to avoid the PAIN of FAILURE and REJECTION. There are no shortcuts. You're the man, you have the OPTION to make your move and ASK.
