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People, please help me sort out my thoughts. To begin with, after the death of my girlfriend's father, her mother has been sleeping around, and this is normal for her, and there is no resentment from the girl. The question is, should I be concerned that my girlfriend will follow in her mother's footsteps? We have been dating for four years, and we have already filed for marriage, but I have only recently started to worry.
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I won't read larp threads
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>>33743211
So if you were to die after getting married, you're worried that she will sleep around? Hmmm..
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I'm afraid that she'll cheat on me after the wedding, because she doesn't see anything wrong with her mother fucking different men every day.
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I was raised by my grandparents, and in my opinion, there's nothing but a relationship based on trust. Everything else is not normal for me, and this shit is also
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>>33743211
No, your gf is a different person from her mother. Might be a bit worried if your gf saw no problem with her mother cheating, but that's not the case, she just has an odd way of dealing with grieg
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>>33743251
>I'm afraid that she'll cheat on me after the wedding, because she doesn't see anything wrong with her mother fucking different men every day.
Her mother is single, so there *isn't* anything wrong with her fucking whoever she wants. If the mother had been doing this while the father was still alive, and your gf knew about it and was fine with it, then you might have a reason to be concerned.
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The only thing that saves me from paranoia is the fact that our relationship is the only healthy relationship in her life.
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>>33743251
>she doesn't see anything wrong with her mother fucking different men every day.
The question is what her opinion is on infidelity, not her opinion on promiscuity of older single women.
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Thank you for your help, it made me feel better.
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The child should not be punished for the sins of the parent, you have no reason to distrust your girlfriend, don't let her mother destroy what you have
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Her mother IS cheating, and your gf will too
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>>33743519
>Her mother IS cheating
On who?
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>>33743519
>Her mother IS cheating, and your gf will too
She's a widow. You think she's cheating on her DEAD husband?



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