Okay so I'm: 1) 29 years of old2) Still in school (bachelor's) for 3 more years 3) 42 pounds overweight (BMI 30.8)4) Dress well, take care of my hair and hygiene5) 4 days out of the week I'm part of interesting, expressive hobbies where I interact with a lot of women daily: I'm in a Latin couples dance school, 2 student choir groups, and 1 amateur acting group.6) My personality is friendly, understanding, outgoing, inviting for connection, I speak to everyone everywhere and make friends constantly, wherever I go7) I fight my expectations and allow myself to be drawn to nice people (men and women) who reciprocate my energies, instead of *just* seeking girls8) I've made girl - friends, but nothing that progresses into something more, I have 3 girl friends and we see each other once a month or two.9) I got out of a 5 year long relationship where we lived together for 4 years, just over 1 year ago, I ended it because she cheated on me. I'm over her already and have experience with relationships.So niggle me this - Why is shit not working with girls? My two best guesses:1) Is it the fact that I'm old and still a student? 2) is it the fact that I'm overweight? (BMI 30.8)PLEASE help me to understand, I just am suffering, it's taking so long, I'm old
Bump, please help me
>>33743509>>33746825How did you meet your first gf? I think you should just be assertive and ask more women out.>old and still a studentProbably not an issue. I know NEETs and drug users with normal partners>overweightLike big in a normal way or unshapely?
>>33743509>I got out of a 5 year long relationship where we lived together for 4 years, just over 1 year ago, I ended it because she cheated on me. I'm over her alreadyWell now i know you're lyingBeing a mature student is a bit alienating for sure, but it didn't stop me from pulling a girl 5 years younger than i am.Maybe they think you're gay, on account of all your gay activities
>>33746941She was learning my native language and wanted help on a reddit thread, I ended up moving to her country and I live here nowBig in a normal way, not unshapely, but still it does age me to have this beer belly :(I really hope you're right about being old and a student not being a problem. Maybe I'm just old? Maybe it's still because I'm out of shape? Maybe both? >>33746964Good for you, I don't know why you assume I'm lying, I'm on an anonymous forum trying to get advice, I'm telling you the rawest truth and being the biggest most honest loser I can be because I WANT help, and I need help. Also my activities aren't gay, I'm around women and I do expressive things, I guess these activities are gay in spirit, especially acting, but it's a good kind of gay. A "wow this guy is so easy going and cool and just has the confident to put on a show and perform in a moments notice" kind of gay, and it's a positive. I make a lot of friends for being as open as I am. But I don't care for friends as much as I care for a girlfriend :((( so I still need help, please
