Is it too late to turn my life around at 28?Im:>28>unemployed (but I have a university degree and a little over a year of experience on mediocre jobs)>no friends>kissless virgin >no hobbies>already starting to bald>live with my parents and just stay home all day doing nothingCan I turn things around? I want to get a good and well paying job, a beautiful girlfriend, things to do in my free time, maybe some friends, independance.
Not too late OP, but you might want to get moving.All those things you want won't magically come to you while you just sit around and hope for the best.
>>33747013If its too late why even try? If getting a succesful career is not possible at this age my backup plan is gambling all my money and try to get rich that way and live the neet life. Of course, this is very unlikely to work, but my other backup plan is suicide.
>>33747106>If its too lateI literally said it's not too late, my illiterate friend.>why even try?>backup plan is suicideI think you should have just answered your own question.
>>33747013Ok i read it was too late. How do I start? I apply to jobs but no one calls me. My father said he will find me a job by the end of the year, so i have to make good use of my finak months as neet. Also, it wont be a very good job so i have to find something quick before that happens since i wont have time ti attend to interviews when im working
>>33747310Kys, jump from a tall building.
you can do it. I am also a late bloomer in the sense I never did anything in my teen years. now I'm 23 and things are a bit better, I have hobbies and such. it's always better to do it later than never.
>>33748095What are your hobbies?
>>33748095>Pic rel
I have to be honest OP, you sound really whiny.I'm almost 32, I'm mostly unemployed other than some odd jobs here and there, and on disability.I literally have autism. Like I was diagnosed at 8. On top of that, I have PTSD. Ya, no cap. My childhood was so shitty that my brain thinks I grew up going to war.So yea, I underperformed at school, had no friends, did no sports, no gfs. I was as unremarkable as you can imagine.I barely graduated high school at 18, but since I had to do something my grandparents got me this shitty job at a factory. But at least I was making my own money. I realized then I had to take big steps to improve my life. I started exercising, started talking to girls, learning new skills to improve my income. I sucked at all of it bc I wasn't getting treatment, but I did have several small victories which propelled me forward.So I tried talking to girls, not always successfully, got laid quite a bit actually. I learned coding and was actually making some money from it, got stronger, learned martial arts. I've been mostly rly good about staying healthy, and interestingly enough, I look younger than pretty much everyone my age.As of now I live with my mom, who I hate, but I pay rent. I think I still waste more time and potential than I should. I'm trying treatment for my condition, which has been really hit and miss. Some days are depressing, but I still try and push through life.My point is, if you want to turn your life around, you have to change your attitude. You can't be passive, you have to be more active than most people would bother being. So when you say shit like:> apply to jobs but no one calls me.Well fuck man, apply to more. Make your resume better. Don't expect to just be handed stuff.
>>33749309>>33746994>My father said he will find me a job by the end of the year, so i have to make good use of my finak months as neetOk, so daddy is taking care of everything for you? Seriously dude, it sounds like your life is how it is because you just expect shit to fall into your lap. Plot twist, it doesn't.
>>33746994it's too late, give up.nobody over 28 has ever done anything of meaning with their life. there has never ever ever not once not ever been a failure of that age that has made something meaningful of their life.>>33747310>I apply to jobs but no one calls meyou already lack agency. why not call them? send follow-up emails?maybe you need to be a more viable candidate, or at least sell yourself better.
>>33746994It's over dude. You've missed the boat. Enjoy the neeting while you still can. Some people in poorer countries don't have such a luxury.
