She put on John Legend - All Of Me and gave me a massage, she made me relax and then whispered that she loved me in my earI've never felt something fuck up my heart as much as that. I began feeling sorry for myself and shit.How do I move on from here with my dignity intact?
>>33758685>How do I move on from here with my dignity intact?Break up with her immediately.
>>33758685I don't cry unless my girl is there, alone I can live with the hurt just fine but she makes it easier toget out of my system. I'm a strong guy, but once or twice a year it gets to be too much and I let it out. She holds me and tell me things will be ok, asks me questions about why I felt the way I did about what I did and helps me process things in a healthy way. God I love that woman. I hope you can find that same peace.
>>33758685Has she brought it up since? Because if she's that supportive and kind, and doesn't think less of you for crying in front of her, unironically marry her. That kind of emotional support is fucking rare in women these days.
>>33758685The most you’re ever allowed is a single tear unless your dog or parents die, and even then you go do it alone. Man up, pussy.
>>33759064Delete this post immediately. This is one of the cringiest posts I've ever read in my life.Your woman isn't, and is never going to be, the mother you crave.You need to grow up. Your woman wants YOU to hold her. She doesn't want to hold an oversized baby.Welcome to the man's world. Women are weak and have anxiety 24/7. Men are strong and need to hide their weakness 24/7.
>>33759079Yeah we talked about it in the night. I didn't cry out loud, I just teared up and tears started streaming down my face and I began feeling sorry for myself like a cunt, making myself cry even more. I was quiet for a while and she realized something was wrong and saw my face. I told her that the combination of the moment and her timing triggered something from childhood but that I also loved her
Lol. My wife keeps telling me I don't have any feelings because I don't cry in front of her, and it actually pisses her off a bit. Didn't even cry at our wedding!You're probably fine. Don't do it often, though. Gets annoying when it's a pity party.
>> 33758685As a woman i genuinely don’t see anything wrong with this. You just shared a sweet intimate moment with your partner and it made you feel so loved you got emotional, if she tries to use that against you then that’s fucked up
>>33758685You didn't do anything wrong, crying in an intimate moment with your girlfriend is normal and she probably liked it because women like honest emotions. enjoy your life buddy
>>33759198>Your woman isn't, and is never going to be, the mother you crave. She doesn't have to be, I love her just the way she is.>You need to grow up. Your woman wants YOU to hold her. She doesn't want to hold an oversized baby. I do, often. I work my ass off to provide for her, keep her happy and safe, but she works just as hard for those goals and needs me to be there when it gets to be too much. She's a lot more sensitive and comfortable crying it out, and I'm there whenever she needs me to be.>Welcome to the man's world. Women are weak and have anxiety 24/7. Men are strong and need to hide their weakness 24/7.If that's the world you live in I pity you brother. In my world a man supports his woman and a woman supports her man. Two partners in love are comfortable and trust one another with their low points because they know they can get through them together. I hope you find that kind of happiness one day too.
>>33758685My fiance has tried for 6 years to get me to talk about my emotions more and cry and all that gay shit. She seems to like it although there's obviously a limit. I still do my best to avoid crying in front of her. If you keep it to 2 times a year you'll be fine.
>>33759198jfl
>>33759198Trvke that many will not like hearing
>>33758685>She put on John Legend - All Of Me and gave me a massage, she made me relax and then whispered that she loved me in my ear Livin the life over here huh
>>33760389That's not reality lol
you're luck bro, she sounds great
>>33759198so wrong.>>33760175sounds depressing.
>>33760548These manly man andrew tate propaganda victims are so funny. They don't realize they are massive bitches for being stuck in a mindset like that. They are either underage virgins or 30 year old boomers who can't into women
>>33760548>>33760845>lol knowing your woman isn’t your mother and won’t treat you as such means you like andrew tate and are propaganda victimsWhy do you have underage virgins on the mind? You can’t get pussy to begin with by using your bitch as a shoulder to cry on, showing her how much of a faggot you are. Have fun getting every girl you meet leave your ass for a guy who actually knows how to conduct himself.
>>33760857>Have fun getting every girl you meet leave your ass for a guy who actually knows how to conduct himself.You genuinely do not live in the real world if this is how you think. Sure, a man who cries at the slightest provocation about trivial things is probably not going to win many ladies affection, but a man who is willing to be vulnerable and share his deepest pain and emotions with someone he trusts in emotional moments is something any woman who isn't a shallow teenage whore wants. This mentality of "don't cry, don't feel, stuff it down and never deal with it because men are meant to be providers and fighters, not humans with emotions" is not only incredibly stupid but actually harmful, since suppressing emotions and refusing to show them around people you're trust and care about ends up leading to depression, anxiety and a whole host of issues that end up affecting your life in a negative way, which will ultimately either kill you early or make you utterly miserable.
