I don't get women, you literally went from making her wet to giving her the ick between these texts

Some extra stuff, back in January I asked a friend of hers to put in a good word for me with her, but her friend told me she already has a bf. however I have never seen her post that guy or talk about him, despite yesterday being National Boyfriend day, and plus she is entertaining my conversation like this. Should I even bother with her or should I back off?

Some physical info about me is that I'm a 5'8 Pakistani guy with a patchy beard. She's a 5'6 (I think) blonde white girl. We both study in Canada.

I also haven't liked any of her instagram stories once. Most of the time they are about some fancy food, or a picture of her with her friends, or maybe her being present at a Spin class.

So are you going to the pilates class?

Take her up on the pilates thing, girls like a man who's comfortable with his masculinity enough to do something compromising. Then afterwards go get food or ice cream or something. You dont have any shared classes so a study date doesn't make sense. Also if she's going out all the time it means she's getting FUCKED all the time, proceed as such

>>33759366
Now that I see she's white and you aren't I'd advise you to leave canada

>>33759342
>set up a study date
Don’t pussyfoot. Ask her on a date date. You can even do the charming asking without directly asking, like “i want to take you out on a date to such and such this weekend”.

>>33759342
be direct
plan what you want to do
and say hey I want to go here
link the place
you should come with me

and if she gives any excuses at all, you know she's not into you

We are all busy with our lives, yet we all find time to waste time on our cellphones
so when a girl is slow to reply, she's just not prioritizing you at all
this is usually not a good sign

it's best to prioritize girls who will reply fast
and who will show up to hang out when you ask them and don't make excuses

>>33759368
For the Pilates thing I said " ight bet I'd look good in that", but she forgot to respond to it. Kind of my fault as well cuz in a moment of hype I went ahead and told her to come to my prof's lecture (best calc 3 prof and only course we got together) cuz her prof (he's terrible) and mine teach at the same time. She couldn't come because she thought his lecture is always crowded (I told her if she comes fast she doesn't need to worry plus I save seats for my boys). Then she told me she usually skips lectures just to study for her calc 3 quiz.

>>33759403
you're retarded, she was flirting with you and being kinky mentioning crossdressing

be more strict with her and tell her right now that you want to date her, she'll appreciate it

do it right now I'm serious

>>33759342
omfg i only read picrel and i hate both you OP and this girl. i'd rather stay single the rest if my life than be with such subhumans unironically

>>33759368
>Also if she's going out all the time it means she's getting FUCKED all the time
Relax dude she's only 19 (I think). Right now she's at another party school with two of her friends and she's dining on oysters. I only this info cuz of two story posts, neither of which I've liked or talked to her yet about.

>>33759376
>>33759385
Guys I'm a commuter, it's not that easy for me to just take her anywhere. I live in a different city than her. Hell I don't even have a driver's license yet and driving through downtown Toronto is the worst shit ever.

>>33759342
just ask her for a night out you retard??
why a study date, just do a proper one

>>33759479
See >>33759472
Also my schedule is completely different from her schedule, and her priority is to either get to her job quickly or, I'm guessing, her home.

Ffs I literally invited her to be join my team in a rocket design competition, and she was hyped for her it but her work prevents her from committing.

>>33759342
The two replies in the center of your pic are cringe. Would you really say that to her face to face?

>>33759490
What else would I say? I don't know shit about Pilates or working out. How would you reply to "u think I'm cool" ?

>>33759489
okay, not a night out then but some daytime activity together. what time would you do the study date at? instead of studying do a cafe/museum/the pilates date, whatever really.
or do the study date if that seems fun enough, but you might want to do that outside important study periods, cos she might actually just want to study during that time
>>33759500
just say yes in some creative way without putting yourself down, I don't see why you would do that

>>33759516
>just say yes in some creative way without putting yourself down, I don't see why you would do that
I have trouble coming up with clever/creative responses irl on the spot. Behind a phone I have more time to plan a response.
>>33759500
>instead of studying do a cafe/museum/the pilates date, whatever really.
Well there is an art gallery at 12 minute walking distance from campus, I could try that but I have zero idea if she would be into it. Lots of cafes and eating spots around campus but I never eat out so that's an issue.

>>33759565
>but I never eat out
uuh, don't tell her that then.
>I could try that but I have zero idea if she would be into it
oh I was just going off things I've done. you obviously know her better than any of us. what has she told you she enjoys. just do that

>>33759500
You don't have to add anything, because "u think I'm cool" is not a question. Your reply to that is way too robotic and needless and just beta. Sounds like something Brian Kohberger would say. Also, do not try to sound too clever or funny in messages if you're not like that in person. It will be a massive turn off if she meets you in person and you're not charismatic as you appear in your messages.

>>33759434
You're a very hurt person.

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>>33759372
dude's so jealous that a total bombshell like pic related is chatting with me.
>>33759589
seems like pilates and spin classes are her favorite. How do I ask her to do that with me in a cool way?

>>33759489
sounds like it's not meant to be bro
distance is the number one killer of relationships

move on and find someone who lives near you
and if you really like her and distance is not a problem
then simply ask her to hang out with you over video calls bro
it's the only other method that i've seen work with friends

>>33759366
>Manlet paki thinks he has a chance with a white blonde
Fucking l m a o. Curry niggers are even less attractive than chinamen

>>33760189
most modern women (at least here on the west coast) are liberal and don't actually care that much about race. It's really just men like you who are obsessive about it. I'm brown and I never had a problem hooking up with women of any race, they genuinely don't care. I'm also built with a nice jawline which helps.

If you'd ever talked to women you'd realize this, but you obviously don't. You should do some deep self-reflection as to the source of your hatred - being racist won't make your shitty life any better

>>33760202
Nice larp

>>33759368
>Take her up on the pilates thing, girls like a man who's comfortable with his masculinity enough to do something compromising.
That’s not being “comfortable with your masculinity”, that’s being a faggot and bending down for the woman, taking part a woman-dominated activity. You’re the type to use the word “insecure” improperly like every woman does

hey man, good luck, you're better off than most of us
>t. indian in france

>>33759366
OP here, I have been checking her VSCO, and she still has a repost from the supposed boyfriend back from 2024 (where she is sitting with on a date presumably), and I'm pretty sure that on Instagram she reposted the same guy's story in which she was present at the Canadian Expo.

I feel like I shouldn't continue this any further. Even though she is talking to me, it just doesn't feel right that she is doing this while supposedly having a bf.

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>>33760202
You've hooked up with brainwashed trash.

Women are more racist than men.
At least men will work with others.

>>33760258
>you're better off than most of us
>t. indian in france
Hey at least you’re an Indian living in a white country

>>33759732
I love how a 5 8” shitskin with cringe-worthy game is getting pussy from this brown girl with blonde highlights. Makes sense though I guess since it’s America and every white/brown girl and their mothers are mixing with actual shit for funsies.

Too brown to realize a blonde girl doesn’t mean she’s automatically white though I guess. OP is probably like 18 and is a gymbro and this thread is somehow getting entertained lmao.

>>33761008
Actually, let me revise this a little bit. OP is getting 0 pussy from this hoe and is her bitch through text, after going back and checking again. Your filename for her pic calling her “my girl” is just sad btw. If anything, she is being patronizing to you.

And I mean shit, Canada? I guess the only options foids have there are curry brown or suicide bomber brown and that’s IT. Bleak.

>>33761008
>>33761025
Stay mad lil bro. If you had any game and weren't such an insecure little shit, you wouldn't be so mad at another dude's game and would rather be helping out.

>Indian trying to get with a Canadian white girl
Lol

>>33761049
Lmao keep misusing “insecure” like every woman does, newfag terrorist. You’re so insecure you had to come to 4chan over this whore. I didn’t even mention how you invited her to your “rocket design competition”. Are you fucking serious?

>>33760977
>Women are more liberal than men.

FTFY. It's hilarious how much polcels seethe at the truth that women genuinely don't give a shit and will have sex with anybody that gives them tingles.

>>33761071
Women are more hivemind than men.
The hivemind doesn't like shitskins.

>>33761078
Whatever helps you cope /pol/cel. White girls are still getting dicked down by non-whites while your inferior ass seethes online.

>>33759732
wtf that's my mom

>>33761068
Keep seething incelbro. I don't see you talking to any bombshells unlike me. Oh and for the design team, she was actually excited and loves rockets, so idk what point you're trying to make.

>>33759342
>>33759361
sucking up too hard,
>omg you're such a cool girl!!!! I wish I was cool like you!!! I wish I had your cool lifestyle but I just don't have the cool resources :((( You could teach me sometimes :DDDD

bro was dancing for her like a little poodle, and now she's saying she wants him in a little pink outfit in class in public.

OP should've just said
>pilates? is that greek or something? what is that?
or go full clown
>pilates? is that what they call pirates in Japan?
if she's into cheeky racial humor

I would love to see more of OP's texts. These threads are always a gold mine of what not to do.

>>33761858
Your jokes are fucking horrendous and would've fallen flat on her.

>>33761869
yeah no like I said, that sort of humor isn't for everyone.

The main thing is to match her tone, and to just be casual. Double-texting a girl to tell her how cool you think she is 3 times in a row is too much.

Like OP said
>she often forgets to reply to messages.
then he should be "forgetting" to reply to her for twice as long

>>33761661
>Keep seething incelbro. I don't see you talking to any bombshells unlike me.
LMAO do you hear yourself? Bombshells? She’s talking down to you, esl retard.
>Oh and for the design team, she was actually excited and loves rockets, so idk what point you're trying to make.
No she wasn’t. She was babying you and will probably block or ghost you soon.

>>33761891
OP here, would intentionally ignoring her messages really work?