I live in the states, and recently went to a European country for a week as a solo trip. Day before I'm supposed to leave said country, I meet a girl who I really clicked with. She approached me when I was talking to a group of people in the hostile about where I'm approximately from. She overhears this behind me, and with a surprised reaction, she mentioned she is from the same area too. Specifically, she lives an hour away from me. We talked that night in the hostile for a while, discovered we had a lot of common interests. Furthermore, we hung out the next day all morning and afternoon at a national park she wanted me to tag along with, and later in the center of the biggest city in the country. Had a great time, not much flirting but there was a hint of it, and we hugged before I boarded the train to the airport and said my goodbyes as she stayed needing to get to a town further in the countryside to get to her objective. Now I'm crushing and really want to date her. I texted her on Instagram a day later saying that I'd want to meetup again locally, she said she would be down when the time is right which is good. Haven't said anything since which has been a week but I really don't want to force a conversation when we're both busy. Though without giving away much, despite her "living" near me, her work is all over Europe for 8 months under a contract and she's basically a nomad when it comes to where she goes to do her job that she described to me. Meanwhile, my job allows me the flexibility to travel almost whenever, and wherever I want for really cheap or free. Even in this position I'm in, she mentioned her previous relationship she had which was long distance didn't go well which makes me worried she wouldn't give me a chance at this time or at all. She comes back to the states in December for a little bit in between this contract. If she commits to meeting up and I do see her in December, is it even worth making my move?
Bump
>>33759928As someone who meets a lot of women, all the time - I think it's good to increase your option pool. For girls - they don't think about you again, because there's another guy who will give them this experience the next day they go to a hostel. Every guy courts, every guy wants to feel special. At the end of the day the only special one is the one that she picks in the moment. Women's buttholes and vaginas get used on the daily. They aren't dead organs like our penises are until we get a gf. Girls have easy access to sex, easy access to love, and easy access to attention. All of the time. Why am I seemingly going off on a tangent? It's to explain that this girl didn't find your experience as special as you found it. It doesn't mean that she didn't have fun, I'm not discrediting your real connection, and bless you for having a good heart, but yeah, she and most other women won't hold a long distance relationship unless the person they met turns REALLY special for them in the short span of time you met. And besides a hug, you have nothing to go off here. My course of action would be, live my life, keep meeting women, and make some notification on your calendar to remind you to DM her when she comes back to the states in 8 months. That's your best bet. But as someone who successfully did LDR and moved countries and now lives in the other country I'm telling you that for a girl to do that - she must be VERY into the guy and VERY desperate or inexperienced
>>33760333I thought about the aspect that she has hung out with other dudes on her travel before as she is a very extroverted type. Though seeing what her insta has for photos, the only dudes I seen around her look like faggots who mainly align with her work. Regardless, still would want to see her again no matter the outcome, and travel more solo for further adventures like this to meet more people. It really got out of my shell and it was my first time in years hanging out with a girl one on one.
I'm just as excited to see you on our trip as you are to see me
