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I met this guy online recently and he's totally my type and all, but hes kind of racist(towards blacks and indians) and transphobic and possibly homophobic. I'm not a hateful person, but Idk if ill be able to look over this quality if it gets too excessive? Do any non-racist anons ever married or dated racist people before? How do you deal with it? Should I just overlook it? Outside of those 3 qualities hes a very nice person
I've only ever dated people who were aligned with my values and such
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>>33765156
I had a gf who was extremely racist against East Asians and I have no problem with them. You really just have to not care unless it impacts your life. I knew she was racist, she knew I disagreed, so we didn't fight about it, she go on a rant about Chinese eating dogs and I'd just say "you know my opinion on this" and that would be the end of it
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>>33765156
All men are like this. Also its funny you said all your previous partners aligned with your values but interesting they all didn't work out either.
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>>33765194
>previous partners
Never said partners, but of the 2 guys I dated long term wise, I broke up with them because they were artist bums

>>33765175
I doesnt impact me now, but I guess im just not so sure if it will in the future since so many things can happen. Im also not a fighter so even if it did Im not sure if I would even do anything about it. But this is solid advice, thanks
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If you give a guy a lobotomy he'll have a liberal tier IQ like you
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OP, everything you said has been programmed into you by jews. Jewish media, jewish professors, ... And jews are the most racist MFs on the planet. But they want all western societies to be destroyed by immigration, trans/ and globohomo/gay.

So your question should be, where to find NPC "men" that you are compatible with. Well, go to washington DC, or some other big city that has a bunch of bullshit white collar jobs, that don't do any work but are about bureaucracy. That's where feminine, weak men go.
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> where feminine, weak men go.
Govt and academia, basically. I hear they like pegging..
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>>33765156
No you can’t change him. He’s racist because he is logical. You cannot change that part of someone’s brain but if you stay with him you might mature and become racist too.
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>>33765156
Why not be a little racist and transphobic yourself? You're expecting them to change, why not you?
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>>33765375
>He’s racist because he is logical.
he is the smartest person I know which is why I like him and am willing to overthrow my values somewhat.
>but if you stay with him you might mature and become racist too.
>>33765386
>Why not be a little racist and transphobic yourself? You're expecting them to change, why not you?

I was raised catholic and have been taught to not discriminate anyone and to be accepting and to help people, I don't thinkI could single out a group on the basis of identity. I treat everyone with kindness, I just am not sure if I'll end up regretting anything because of the values I was engrained with growing up. And to be honest, I am wondering if I am a bad person because I like him and am willing to forgo my values to be with someone like him
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>>33765554
Is he racist from a place of hatred or just based on pattern recognition of behavior? That's an important distinction to make. Not all racism has the same core. Learning to recognize that will help you.
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>>33765571
From what he says his hatred seems to based in experience of interacting with individuals and their country and overall culture and because of that his feelings is towards them as a collective.
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>>33765599
After reading all your posts and seeing you post tranime repeatedly with every response, you are dead retarded and not worth another half a second of his time. He recognizes patterns and is the smartest person you know. Self-explanatory and you answered your own question. Problem fucking solved, foid.
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>>33765156
Maybe stop caring about the feelings of inferior races more than your loved ones.
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>>33765240
>artist bums
LOL anon-ette wants a successful guy with loser politics and philosophy. Good luck anonette, guys don't get successful by having loser beliefs.
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>>33765240
>artist bums
Could you elaborate on that? Like were they art teachers or literally just neets drawing or making music haphazardly?
And what was their appeal to you even?
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>>33765156
>>33765554
>>33765599
this must be larp. women don't lumpost
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>>33766414
>why isn’t chad also an effeminate leftie?
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>>33766810
Well, one autistic one does now. What are you gonna do about it?
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>>33766844
>What are you gonna do about it?
Be extremely jealous of your boyfriend
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>>33765156
Monitoring this thread to make me immune to foids' bullshit
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>>33765240
>Show girl my deranged sketchbook
>"Yeah dude I love Mao Zedong"
>Score pussy
Is it that easy?
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>>33765554
God says to kill the deranged lest he find them and punish us all
Everything taught to you has been lies and half truths stupid fuck
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>>33765156
Are you black or Indian? Are you a fag or a tranny? No? Then what is the problem here exactly?
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>>33766962
Depends on what her definition of "artist bum" is
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>>33767049
The retarded brain worms of our society are getting uppity inside her skull
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>>33765554
>>33765599
He's too good for you. Accept him for who he is, or move on.
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>>33767143
How is he too good for her?
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>>33767147
Racist autistic 4chan schizos spread the meme that they're the top of the dating food chain to cope with the fact that they're viewed by women with the same regard as a piece of gum on their shoe or a random piece of trash.
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>>33767201
You missed this part
>>33765554
>he is the smartest person I know which is why I like him
> I am wondering if I am a bad person because I like him
She's complimentary, but at least she isn't claiming she can change him. Nobody can change the beliefs or standards of another person. My point is that you have to come to terms with who they are, but if you can't you have to stop trying to "invest" in people in a deluded and pointless hope that you can convert them to what you want. A lesson that OP still hasn't learned after dating "artist bums".
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>>33765156
you are almost certainly using the term 'phobia' incorrectly.
Besides, if you ever had to live in the same house as jeets, you'd become racist too. Liberalism is a lie
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>>33765156
So you want to make him dumber?
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don't settle for a loser like that. everyone saying "it doesn't matter" is stupid. it takes a lack of critical thought, lack of empathy, and a high degree scientific illiteracy to be racist/homophobic/bigoted.
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caring about gay people takes a certain amount of rumormongering bitchiness. the kind of man who secretly loves to gossip. he isn't husband material.
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>>33766507
One was a musician that made 'unmarketable' music(his friends' words not mine) and the other was making shitty art. Both individuals were hoping to rely on their craft to provide a means of living for them when neither of them knew how to market themselves and also making art nobody wanted.
I wouldn't have minded dating an art teacher.

>>33766810
I've been a fan of urusei yatsura since /a/ had that /a/ watches channel on youtube
rip to that channel

>>33766975
Im pretty sure he doesn't say that, but I was taught from the King James version of the bible, so I could be wrong, but if you can tell me where it says that Ill look into it

>>33766821
He is not really a chad, hes a lonely thincel although he has a very dominating personality

>>33767049
Im not either of those things, but I am wondering if his racism or bigotry would extend to me at some point in the future. I do think he might see my race as somewhat compatible to his preference because of trad family values.
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>>33766975
It's crazy how that's not the real Creator.
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Op black guy here. You must be asian, let me be first to say this, if you want a easy life with no problems my best advice is to stay far away from blacks and Indians. There are some good from both groups but it's hard to tell which is which so I say you should try to become more like him and tell your daughters and sons to stay away from them too. Who cares if people see you as racist, you will be in a higher bracket society wise.
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>>33765156
>but hes kind of racist(towards blacks and indians) and transphobic and possibly homophobic
so is everyone else nowadays get with the times. racist instagram reels with uncensored slurs in them literally get millions of likes in current year
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>>33765156
racism is a survival instinct, non-racists end up robbed, raped, and murdered because they relaxed around blacks
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>>33765156
>but hes kind of racist(towards blacks and indians) and transphobic and possibly homophobic.
Avoid like the plague he is.
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>>33765156
Only an issue if he's like the average chud and constantly talking about it, or you have friends that he will hate. Most people dislike other races and trannies, it's just not their whole personality.
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If you want someone to not be racist or transphobic the worst thing you can do is bring them around black people or trannies. It will only make the problem worse.
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>>33772171
>You must be asian,
Im not asian

>>33772374
But what if I come to have indian or black friends or someone gay/trans am I just supposed to have them avoid him forever? Is it really that simple?
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>>33775080
There is no such thing as trans. Women are followers, stop following stupid shit that literally sterilizes you, and follow a man who will actually get you through this joke of a life.
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>>33765299
yea jews are behind everything for sure dude
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>>33775080
>or someone gay/trans
woke women just can't fucking stop being fag hags
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>>33765554
I too am catholic and am more racist than that guy or you could ever be because I am catholic and also smart
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This has to be bait, why the hell would you ask such a thing on 4chan? You know you’re gonna get stoned so, why anon? why would you post something on the internet that would awaken a reaction from the people?
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>>33775868
not an argument
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Dump him and let his ex love him or email his ex and ask how she dealt with it, all 4chan men have at least 1 ex.



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