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I'd ask him if he's ok with it first.
unless she just dumped him and/or he's still in love, then that's just bad. wouldn't even ask or try in that case.
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>>33770511
>one of ur good friends
I forgot what those are like
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how long would you wait before asking? they broke up like a month ago and im 100% sure the girl is not taking him back
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>>33770562
>100% sure the girl is not taking him back
who dumped who, you make it sound like she threw him out. in that case you probably should wait or ask your friend if he's ok with this at the very least
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>>33770511
It actually happened to me. It wasn't like I planned it, but thinking back then, I think she did.
One day I receive one message from her, saying she was having trouble with math and needed help. You probably know the rest.
I don't regret doing it, but I regret not telling my friend about it, he ended knowing by other people.
If I was more mature, I would have immediately told him, but I'm almost 30 and I don't consider myself a full man, imagine how it was when I was in my teenage years.
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>>33771108
Wtf
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>>33771534
I had a short relationship with her sister before all that happened.
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>>33771686
Isn't that breaking some form of code? You shouldn't date the sister of your ex, you shouldn't date your friends ex/whatever? Idk. Just be careful they're not going to end up using you for revenge or whatever. People are losing it now a days are becoming a little unhinged.
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>>33771704
Like I said, it's not like I had planned any of it. Sometimes things just happen, and you end up liking someone.
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>>33770562
How long were they together? That's too soon and you're violating man rules, but talk to your friend to find out for sure.
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>>33770511
No. I might fuck them once or twice, but I would not date them.

Part of the fun of dating is that a new person exposes you to new connection and social groups and new experiences. If you're dating somebody your friend previously dated it's just going to be all the same shit and a lot of conversations will circle around to "so... how's [ex] doing?" and that will be it's own specially kind of pain in the ass.
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It depends on how much I valued the relationship with my close friend.

I’ve had friends who were there for me at my lowest. They had these wonderful, kind girlfriends, and after they broke up, I’d keep loose contact with them.

Sometimes there was a spark I could pursue, but honestly, there are so many women out there that there’s no need to resort to betrayal.
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>>33770511
Probably. Unless I had inside knowledge of something awful about her.
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>>33770511
I wouldn't.
Even if bro is like "fuck that bitch", I guarantee you you'll hurt him.
Anything beyond a hookup is usually a serious matter for a person.
If you value your friendship at all, stay completely away. There's plenty of other pussy out there.
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>>33770511
Depends on a lot of factors.
> How much of a friend is it to you?
> Do you really love her or is it just lust?
> Does he have a problem with it?
> Can she be trusted? If she left your friend and went after you, she would leave you too and repeat the process.



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