I matched with this girl and we're trying to set up a date. She suggested coming over to my place. Is that unusual? Is it a common thing? I don't date a lot, but I find it a bit off-putting.
>>33771043>Wants to come to your house.>Is made for the streets.eh
>>33771058seems a bit too much for a first date imo, idk
>>33771043>She suggested coming over to my place.The fuck? You hit the lottery. LuckyLast year a bitch working at Starbucks in a town I was stranded in with my grandma slipped her number in a sandwich bag in a campus I was at. I texted her and mentioned going to HER place because I didn’t know shit in the city and then she blocked me. Fed her lies the whole time. My age, college. She was like 4 years older than me lmao.
>>33771069Anyways OP, what does she look like? How old is she? What’s she like?
it can happen but usually it requires good game and lots of persuasion on your part. or her being newish to dating apps.however, you saying>I don't date a lotmakes this suspicious.meet her in a bar or whatever public area near your place.
>she asked if she could come to my placeThe fuck? Are you a player or something
>>3377107922yo, 6/10she seems nice, feels like a bit of a pick me though
>>33771084I'm reasonably attractive and have decent conversation skills
>>33771080I've got some game, and also it doesn't seem like she goes out much eitherBut im glad I'm not alone in finding it a bit weird
>>33771092Yah, that explains it. Well, go get em, Brad Pitt.
>>33771043red flag Max, red flag
>>33771085Pick me’s still exist? I’ve only heard stories. Every woman that I’ve seen and heard of act like GodWhat race is she? Overweight at all?
>>33771103white with a bit of asian, not overweight.
>>33771068She wants to fuck.In my early 20s I would have told you:>Man it up and fuck the shit out of her. (Literally, depending on your tastes).Now I'm almost 30 and I tell you:>Sometimes those types of girls are not good relationship material. But if you are ok with casual sex, and I'm not saying you should be, go for it.If you want a relationship, and she just wants sex, inevitably, she will break your heart.
>>33771118Yeah, I'm looking for a relationship, not a big casual sex guy.
>>33771117Goddamn, the hell? You REALLY hit the jackpot >>33771118This. And maybe she’s like me where she just doesn’t know where else to got. don’t see women as humans
>>33771043just fuck her bro
>>33771043Happened to me once, she was too fat though and so I didn't do the needful in the end. It's more likely that she wants to sex you, and not that she wants kidnap you. Or she's just a nerd and feels more comfortable watching anime at home than going outside.
>>33771043>Is that unusual?It's common if she wants sex; less so it she doesn't.
