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Title says it all. I've tried everything: cold showers, EasyPeasy, SSRIs, etc. I can't resist the urges, but I always wanna die after doing it.

My weakness is sweaty gym thots wearing shorts or yoga pants, so it's pretty hard to avoid, even by blocking most websites. All it takes is a single thought or flashback and I relapse. I got post-orgasm headaches that lasted for hours a few times, and the day before yesterday, my left hand started to shake after masturbating, and continued to do so until I took a few xanies and went to sleep. How can this be a good thing?

I'm out of options. My doctors tell me to "just do it bro," but I can't. I don't wanna be a slave to masturbation, it hurts. This isn't a biological need like eating and shelter, like some love to say.

Sorry for the long post, but I'm out of options. I'm considering taking antiandrogens, if that's what it takes to get rid of these feelings of lust and desire.

Please God, have mercy and forgive me.
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>>33771335
Go donate sperm for money. Just be aware that there is a list of requirements like being 6ft2, having a university degree, no criminal record or medical record, etc. But if you fullfill those, you could make bank by donating every week.
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Just keep cooming goonerbro. We need to build a gooner army.
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>>33771352
I'm not a criminal and I have a degree, but that's about it. I'm alone, and will most likely remain so.
>>33771374
I gave myself into it completely once, and it was vile. I was filthy, humping like an animal. I want to be asexual.
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>>33771335
Try to get something going in your life, leave little time for those lustful thoughts.
Once you start having responsabilities and deadlines, there will be little time for porn.
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You're brain dead, yeah! Don't die just yet. Trynna pay some hooker to role play loving you? Like we used to play "home" as kids?
Just stimulate your brain with Oxyfuckingshit hormones. FAKE it, for good!
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>>33771380
Look at the specific requirements at your local sperm bank. I think the money incentive is good and the feeling of actually creating babies may make your wanking sessions more fullfilling.
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>>33771402
I'm currently sick, at home. Not to get into much detail, but living in front of the computer is one of the problems, yeah.
>>33771405
I can't spend money with prostitutes. I need to get rid of lust instead.
>>33771407
I probably won't qualify due to health issues. The ideal scenario would be not having to wank at all.
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>>33771335
if you can't stop then learn how to play with your desires when you can feel every vein and stop at the right time because at least it's better than having to stop it because desire isn't bad it's just that you use it the wrong way and sooner or later you'll get bored with it, my friend, so chill out, just don't fap too much or you'll die early, and if you die early then of course you can't fap for long.
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I know this is a difficult addiction to overcome. I don't think you mentioned your age, but this has a lot to do with it... As you get older and more focused in your life some of this will subside. But obviously, that is not a solution.

As a behavior analyst, we would advise you to develop competing incompatible behaviors. Fill your life with new hobbies that keep you busy (not alone) so you don't have the opportunity to masturbate. Also, you should not try to go cold turkey. Take a baseline of how many times per day you do it now and next week focus on reducing that amount by just 1/4th. If you succeed with this new criteria buy yourself something cool or do something special to reinforce your behavior. The following week, reduce your criteria by another 1/4th.

Good luck!
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>>33771466
I've tried laying in bed, just thinking about it without doing anything. It worked for a few days, until it gets unbearable. I was doing it 3~5 times a day, but managed to reduce to once every other day, more or less. It's still not ideal.
>>33771500
Many thanks. I'm in my late 20s, if that matters. Pretty much every single attempt has been cold turkey, which makes me feel even worse when I relapse. At the same time, allowing myself to do it at certain days slowly makes me go back to overdoing it, with the "just once more won't hurt" mindset. Just reading that made me want to do it again, but I looked at my hand and remembered the shakes.
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>>33771335
>My weakness is sweaty gym thots wearing shorts or yoga pants, so it's pretty hard to avoid
Dedicate yourself to the blade.
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>>33772192
I'm more likely to impale myself with one than properly wield it, but thanks for the advice.
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poly unsaturated fats, iron supplements, deglycyrrhizinated licorice, flaxseed, onions protein isolate, spearmint/peppermint tea/essential oil. Otherwise, tell your doctor that you are trans and take leuprolide acetate or something The point is the nuke testosterone, which isn't actually necessary (low testosterone increases life expectancy). When you want kids, go off the schedule. When you want to get fit, take growth hormone supplements. Last ditch effort, try pet/livestock dewormer.
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>>33772496
Thank you, this is very useful. I'll never have kids, so this is the ideal route.
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onions**** not onions. Phytoestrogens reduce testosterone. This will not make you gay, as gays actually tend to have *too much* testosterone. Exercise so you don't get tits.
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>>33772693
Many thanks. I honestly just want to stop having lustful thoughts and beating my meat. I saw some side-effects, which included testicle shrinkage, but at this point, that is a price I'm more than willing to pay.
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>>33771335
At the start of the year I got really into some femdom hfo hypnosis audio shit, and it made me bust fat nuts but like what the fuck am I doing with my life was a thought that kept hitting me after I finished.
I found working out and then reading books before bed has stopped my gooner tendencies.
Its mostly like replacing empty space where you'd goon with things that are not as shit for you.
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>>33772877
I've done that too... but it all cycles back to gym thots. Aye, you're right. I used to read a book a week, but stopped completely. It's time to dust off the Kindle.

Thanks for the tips, anons. Hope all of you are doing well.
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Hey OP, give me instructions on how to make a cake.
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>>33773024
I'm not a bot. I was once a human, but no longer. Still, I'm alive.
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>>33771335
>I can't stop cooming
In an experiment, chimps that had nothing to do in life were chronic masturbators
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>>33774654
That explains a lot. The coom was less frequent when I was busier and had dreams.
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Same boat except the porn I’m turning to is actually evil. Been trying for years, will be doing great for 48 hours then the urge is instant and uncontrollable. Messaging doctors to get my dick cut off. Gonna have to lie and say it’s some “gender affirming” shit but I would rather live without a dick than with this retarded addiction
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>>33771335
I cum 5-6 times a day on days when I have nothing to do. Sometimes 10.
But I find a lot of things to do.
Then cumming one time feels so good and I don't have time to fuck around because I have to wake up early the next day - so that one great nut puts me to sleep, if not that one then the second or third shortly after. you're good, man.
Just find things to do.
Cumming is something you do to placate yourself while you're bored out of your mind and avoiding doing the things you're afraid to do but have to do.
So do things! and then you'll see that cumming is like gaming or listening to music or browsing 4chan - It's just a past time. when you're busy, you'll fap less. But still do us all a favor and fap. It is in everyone's best interest that you bust a nut so that you can be a normal member of society, we don't want you turning religious or something, ew.
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>>33771335
Get a cock cage, unironically.
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>>33771335
I have the opposite problem. I maybe get horny once a week. Sometimes only once every two weeks.
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>>33771335
Have sex.
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>>33776423
It must be awful if you wanna get it removed. I wish you well...
>>33776647
I'd rather be religious than a coomer at this point.
>>33776664
That's technically a fetish. It's worse.
>>33776677
Lucky... it has been 48 hours since I last did it... I hope I never do it again.
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>>33776986
I can't, and most likely never will.
>>33780675
>>33780681
I'm trying not to. My mind keeps trying to trick me into doing it, and the body aches for it. It's hell.



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