>ex girlfriend from my high school years who cheated on me who i haven't heard from in almost a decade contacts me on social media asking to hang out>tell her to fuck off>"wow, still holding a grudge after all these years huh? says more about you than me."How do you even respond to this?
>>33771336literally the same thing happened to me last year. She is engaged to some other dude.As soon as she started to mention meeting up I called her a fucking slut and told her to leave me alone. Got blocked instantly.
>>33771336Says the one who contacted me. You reap what you sow.
>>33771339Screen it and let her boyfriend know what he's about to be marrying
i would look forlorn at the message and think of what could have been and what she is suddenly, frantically trying to make be, then look into the sunset and smoke an American Spirit (Sky) as i remember why we stopped talking in the first place and ultimately deign not to respond further
>>33771342nah a year has passed since then and I really don't give a shit about him or her.
>>33771336you don't. you said your shit so leave her on read
Don't reply. If you reply she holds the power in this conversation, she baited you and you took the bait
you don't respond at allyou never should have said anything. just block and ignore
Here's the thing, I'm going to reply to her and she's going to reply to me.
You don’t.Not everything in life requires a response. You don’t have to get the last word.
>>33771336It really does. My sister left me for dead 3 years ago and in over it
>>33771336Don't respond and move on. Forget about her, man.
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>>33771336Personally I'd humor her just to make her beg, then leave
>>33771336I'd just block the whore. Nothing good comes from the conversation. She's a cheating whore bro - always will be in your mind. You know it and that's all that matters. She knows it too but obviously doesn't care about her actions or she would have led her message to you by saying, look, I am really sorry for what I did to you...type thing but she didn't. She didn't like your rejection to her messaging you and so she tried to strike out at you again to hurt you once more. You did nothing wrong bro and stood your ground. She is not ever going to bring anything positive to your life, ever so just know you won by not ever accepting a past cheating whore ex as a friend today. You've avoided further drama and heartache. Here's your man card, you've earned it!
>>33771342Don't get into other people's business like this. For all you know that guy could home to your house and kill you because you "ruined" his relationship
>>33771336>How do you even respond to this?If I was busy, I'd just respond "yes." There is no shame in letting her think she "got the better of" me if it means she left me alone. If I wasn't busy, I'd explain how revisiting old emotions is not a positive way to spend my precious time.
>>33771336First mistake was should have asked why. Maybe she had a heartfelt apology planned, who knows.As for her response, yes or LOL would be appropriate responses.
>>33771336You don't Block the dumb cunt, she's at a low point right now and thinks you'd be easy to bag and drag down to her level.
