I used to work out 6 times a week, dressed well, i took care my health, read a book a week and socialised alot back when i was 16-18. Then I downloaded tiktok and started getting a bunch of height black pill content which crippled my self esteem (im 5 foot 8 and white) at which point i slowly but surely started to give up on all those things becuse I felt "theres no point since I'll always be unattractive".Im 21 now and ive kind of degenrated into a unhealthy and reclusive misanthrope with constant brain fog. How do i fix myself.
>>33771647>Then I downloaded tiktokLooks like a self made problem to me. Like shooting yourself on the foot.>How do i fix myself.Get a job. Socialize with people. Go back to studying.>I won't do those things. I much prefer to complain online and get my misery validated.Yeah, we already knew that.
>>33771647TikTok content bears no resemblance to real life whatsoever, I'm baffled that people end up believing the shit. You already knew that women tend to prefer taller men. They also tend to prefer more musclar men, men with colour contrasts, symmetrical faces, jawlines, cheekbones, beautiful eyes, money, status, attention, etc. etc. You already knew this before downloading TikTok. Whatever insecurity you're feeling, they're feeling 10x more. It goes both ways. Your average girl or woman would have loved a 5'8'' with his fucking act together, I give you my word. Seriously. The whole 6'5 blabla is the female equivalent of nerds on this board saying shit that pic related is a 4/10 because of slightly deviating nose. It's a form of internal cope. They're the judge now, they feel in control. It's bullshit is what it is, women will sleep with homeless looking people on a friday night. They. Are. Coping.
>>33771674Should be sticky desu
Stop engaging with that particular algorithm and put your energy into something more productive.TikTok isn’t real life. Sure, there may be girls your age with superficial criteria who care about things like height, but that’s on them, not you.Focus on taking care of yourself and the things you actually have control over.
>>33771660I have a job, I socialise with way less people but still a small handful of friends, im also studying. My issue is not that ive stopped doing things but that I have way less motivation since i dont see the point when theres such a big cap on attractiveness, respect and so on.>>33771674This is a good reply and it does make sense. But im still concered that the more this stuff is discussed online and reinforced in echo chambers like the ones ive slipped into the more it will seep into reality. Ive already noticed how it became more common in the last couple of years that girls I knew would call me a "short king" or that my friends would mock shorter people (obviously not me but the fact they'd still mock people not that far from my height reveals a kind of sentiment.)It was never so much about it being a fundamental truth that im unattractive becuse im short but more that that narrative becomes more and more common as online discourse seeps into reality which made kind of lose hope. I think if i lived like in 70s this wouldnt even cross my mind, but since its such a common and obsessive cultural point now i cant help but feel misanthropic and hopeless.
>>33772048If you only knew how lonely women feel after the whole metoo debacle that was used to reinforce the need for some elite women to feel wanted in their old age, you wouldn't offer this a second thought. Listen, women want to be fucked. They want to be taken hard. They're super degenerate if they feel safe and horny. The stats are clear, gen z ain't fucking as much as social media would have you believe. Women actually want to be mandhandled. They literally want a big partner to feel small (!!!) and be looked down on. Literally. Why? Just why would they want that? Because they want to feel submissive but not disrespected, unequal and nonconsentually degraded. They want to be swiped off their feets my a man. They literally crave it. They read literal rape novels ffs. Wake up folks. They want to fuck, nature is on your side if you're not an absolute fucking moron.
In other words, women want to be feminine but they can't trust themselves to be that around you fucks, because you ain't got your act together, the whole enterprise would go under after 2 days.
>>33772117I mean im not really going to be considered big by any metric in my country since the avrage guy here is 5 foot 11 so i dont see how that helps me. I could manhandle a girl back when I was working out so I guess I could be big horizontally but I always felt like ill be seen as pic rel considering im like half a head shorter than my peers.
>>33772232At worst you live in a country where the average female height is 5'8. You're way bigger by default unless you're this stereotypical underweight nerd in an oversized t-shirt, even if she's 5'8.
>>33771647I won't read tape measure of doom threads.
>>33772232you realize that you posted a meme of a married couple?yes, the short wrestler is married to this wrestler chick
>>33771647this whole post screams lack of self accountabilitymuhhh blackpilled tiktaks is just an easy way out to justify yourself without facing the consequences of your own actions
>>33771647>How do i fix myself.chase a dreamthink about anime and movies and shitthe main character has a big motherfuckin dreambe the best at somethingchoose one thing and just focus all your energy to become the best at itthis is what society needssomoe examples>being the buffest guy at your gym>being the fleetest coooder >the most knowledgeable about xxx topicbut the key here is to hahve your goal set to be the bestnot goodthe best
>>33771647>workout 6 times a weekProbably should do 3-4 anyways 6 is too much. 5’8” is not that short, I’m 5’9” and it’s just a matter of having the confidence to talk to people irl and being kind.
im having this dudes problem but im 6'2 and fat I smoke weed at night to make myself feel bad by watching highlights of my much fitter friends with their girlfriends I tell myself that the jealousy and sadness im feeling will help with my motivation what do I do bros?
