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What would you do if you found out your gf's sister is a prostitute? It's legal where I am, at least kinda, and she needs to do it in order to pay for the house she and my gf lives in. So I kinda admire it. And yes I am 100% sure my gf is not a prostitute, so dont try to go there. I am however considering the possibility this somehow becomes a problem later on in the relationship since most prostitutes experience violence, drug abuse etc.

What do? I really like my gf, but since it's her sister this isn't something to break up over.
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>>33775806
Yes i'm trying to get my gf to live with me we have been together for almost a year now. But her sister is the only family she has. My gf she is a very good girl and never has interest in doing this. And I trust her, but knowing this is 4chan people will probably flock in and say " durrr your gf is having sex for money behind your back" i'm really sure she isn't or I would've ended it already.

But I am worried about the safety aspect.

I want my gf to live with me to keep her far away from this life, but seperating her with the only family she has is also probably not the best idea.

My idea right now is try to make my gf to agree with me so we can together try to educate her sister in order to do something different with her life. But without this income, she probably will not be able to pay for the house. Especially if my gf decides to live with me.

So i'm pretty much fucked arent i?
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>>33775806
>So I kinda admire it.
Welp, if you admire a whore for being a whore…then what do you care?
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>>33775813
I would find out more. It makes a big difference if your gf's sister is seeing clients at the house or not. If she is fucking men at some third location, it shouldn't be a problem
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>>33775833
No I admire she takes care of herself and her sister no matter the cost. Or they would be out on the street. I do not admire someone being a whore, I admire someone being a whore to take care of herself and her little sister.

Some background info: My gf is 19, i snatched her when she was 18, she only had 1 bf before me which wasn't great only couple of weeks. So i'm the 2nd man she has been with or has had sex with. The minimum age for prostitution is 21 so there is a very small chance my gf ever had sex work.

>>33775834
It's mostly outcall, but I heard some 'trusted clients' might come over when my gf is not home. This is a concern regarding the safety aspect and I am not happy with it and I want this to stop, but they are pretty naive. I personally think the risk of seeing the same client multiple times because of 'trust' is a big red flag, man can be dangerous especially if they try to earn trust or manipulate them any way.
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>>33775806
>What would you do if you found out your gf's sister is a prostitute?
Nothing, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.
>most prostitutes experience violence, drug abuse etc.
If your girlfriend's sister gets beaten up, that's obviously very sad, but it has no impact on you. As for "drug abuse" that's bullshit. Sure, people who are drug addicts *already* sometimes turn to prostitution to fund their habit, but that's the only connection. Quit worrying.
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>>33775850
>i am proud that my gf’s sister is a whore
Anon…
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>>33775806
I would pay my gf's sister to have anal sex
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>>33775862
You realize that if my gf's sister is the only family my gf has, and she experiences problems, this also becomes my problem right? Either suddenly she is on the doorstep here late at night, or she does get addicted to drugs and cant be trusted with money/stealing and also if her health and safety suffers this has psychological impact on my gf which affects me too.

>>33775863
I think I mis phrased what I mean. What I say is I admire she does everything she can in her position to take care of her family. I wish it wasnt this and wish it wasnt needed.

>>33775866
yeah fantasies are nice and all but i really love my gf so obviously the only family she has also becomes my problem
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>most prostitutes experience violence, drug abuse etc.
What makes you think that? Don't believe everything man-hating feminazis tell you.
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>>33775892
No shit, are they gypsies?
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>>33775899
I literally just looked up statistics in my country and it's over 50% who have all of those problems
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>>33775901
No
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>>33775902
>>33775899
It's either getting harmed, self-harm, drug abuse, depression or suicide (attempts)

I'm a pragmatic and rational male, it's not a question of if it happens it's a question of when it happens.

I love my gf, but I dont want these problems going into my house at some point, and if my gf will live with me, and my gf's sister will have problems, these problems will come into my house one way or another.
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>>33775904
If she is living in the west, then she WANTS to be a whore. And you have respect for that? Whatever. Good luck. The absolute only way i would ever even possibly entertain a relationship with the sister of a whore, is if she has been disowned, cast out, castigated, and utterly a pariah to the family. Even the fact that you know that she exists means that she is not. Best of luck.
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>>33775924
Are you from north korea where you punish the entire family/
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>>33775930
You go ahead and marry into a family where a literal whore daughter is no big deal.
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>>33775806
what does ur gf think about her sister's whoring?
if she's ok with it it's a major red flag and you shouldn't commit
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>>33775936
nobody said it wasnt a big deal, why do you think i open this thread? I want to solve this problem
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>>33775940
she obviously wishes she didnt had to do it and told me her sister also did not want to do it and was crying telling me that if her sister doesnt get the money they could not get to keep the house they live in
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>>33775941
>why do you think i open this thread? I want to solve this problem
Fucking reddit brain horseshit. A daughter who is a whore who has not been disowned, in the west, and the boyfriend of the sister is proud of her? What is there to solve?
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>>33775957
I think you do not really understand anything.
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>>33775958
Then why don’t you grace us with your expansive wisdom, faggot.
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>>33775892
>You realize that if my gf's sister is the only family my gf has, and she experiences problems, this also becomes my problem right?
So you would dump your girlfriend because her sister gets beaten up? That's pretty fucking harsh. And forget about drugs: drugs aren't an issue here. As I said before, people who are already addicts sometimes turn to prostitution to fund their habit, but if the sister doesn't take drugs now, she's no more likely to start than you are. Stop inventing problems.
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>>33775979
>Stop inventing problems
Yeah, “my girl’s sister is a literal whore”, no problem there.
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>>33775985
>Yeah, “my girl’s sister is a literal whore”, no problem there.
Correct, yes. There is no problem here.
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>>33775989
…says the desperate for sex coomer.
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>>33775806
Speaking as someone who has actually known several sex workers socially (unlike anyone else in this thread I suspect): everything you think you know about sex work is a lie.
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>>33776008
>enters thread
>says nothing of value
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>>33775806
Book her
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>>33775946
ok so your gf lives on sex-work money too. just not her sex-work (yet).
what kind of example and frame of reference do you think her sister is setting at the moment?
what will your gf do when she has financial trouble?
in the end,
whats wrong with finding a normal job and getting a smaller apartment or roommates?
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>>33775946
>obviously
Uh huh
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>>33776012
Rude.

I'm saying, from experience, that the things OP is worrying about are things he doesn't need to worry about, because they're based on lies.

If you want me to elaborate, I can. I used to intern for something called the Sexual Freedom Coalition, which (among other things) offered legal advice for sex workers. I got to know quite a few of them, sometimes actually as friends, so I probably know more about the lifestyle than most people around here.
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>>33775979
No? Im saying it can become my problem.

>>33776023
Housing market is fucked here like literally very bad

>>33776008
As in its much safer or what do you mean? I know its very common, but far from ideal
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>>33776040
>empowers whores
>still says nothing of value
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>>33776040
Yes here its also legal and we have these institutions too. But it still sucks and it would be better if not
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>>33776047
>Im saying it can become my problem.
How?
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>>33776047
>As in its much safer or what do you mean?
Among other things, yes. Also, the idea that sex workers all take drugs is crazy. But in general, almost everything people think they know about sex work is wrong.
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>>33776069
The hole continues in this thread as an apologist to whores. What’s your of?
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>>33776054
Health safety and so on

>>33776069
Yes i am aware in my country its legal and my knowledge does not come from american movies. Yet you cant deny its less than ideal and if it can be fixed it has to right
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>>33776082
>What’s your of?
Kek, if I had one, you couldn't afford it!
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>>33776082
>>33775957
>>33775936

Incels please fuck off from /adv/ nobody cares about your advice.
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lmao dude I'm 100% certain your gf either whored around before or will eventually. If not, the WHORE sister will always be the devil in her ear.
Fucking run from that household and forget them.
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>>33776086
>Yet you cant deny its less than ideal
I certainly can. Your average sex worker is a hard-headed businesswoman who has realised she can make a comfortable living working one day a week.

>and if it can be fixed it has to right
What do you imagine needs "fixing"? Are you some kind of deranged feminist who thinks sex workers all have Stockholm Syndrome? It's her body; what she chooses to do with it has no impact on you.
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>>33776101
>Your average sex worker is a hard-headed businesswoman
Holes supporting whores. Who could have guessed?
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>>33775806
Ask for a family discount
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>>33775892
>yeah fantasies are nice and all but i really love my gf so obviously the only family she has also becomes my problem
It already is your problem bro. The more hours you buy out railing your gf sis the less skeevy men you will have to deal with
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>lives with prostitute
>uses her money
if your gf was a male he'd be a pimp and would be risking very big



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