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What is the difference between sex drives between men and women? Do women actually enjoy sex considering the amount of dead bedroom marriages?
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>>33780614
It's not THAT much. Female sex drive peaks at what, 14-17? They're on par with men aged like 19-22, the difference is only +5 years.
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OP, you should check out deadbedroom plebbit. Around 40% of posts are women complaining about their impotent husbands. Its not a one sided issue, and is caused by complacency and lazyness. Sex stops being interesting when you have it all the time.
As for female specific stuff, they do like sex. But their arousal is completely different, and since they are receivers and in a more vulnerable position it is also more easy to ruin.
Some men have low sexual drives - dont project from yourself. So it is pointless to ask about it as men-women thing when it is just individual thing. Women usually don't have passive horny thoughts on the background, their sexual drive has to be triggered by something.

>>33780621
>Female sex drive peaks at what, 14-17?
This is scientifically incorrect you retard. It peaks between 25-35 depending on woman. It is male sex drive that peaks at like,1 16-25. No one has peak drive during early teenagehood due to variety of reasons, sex hormones are still foreign and confusing to the brain.
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>>33780677
>This is scientifically incorrect you retard
Hm. Wonder why my experience is so atypical then.
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>>33780614
It's relatively similar for teens and 20-somethings. It rapidly drops off for women as they age, and is particularly correlated with duration of relationship/marriage.
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For men, unless I'm mistaken sex is more of a primordial urge. It can be a means for release, dominance or love. But for women weather are aware of it or not it is the urge to procreate. When a woman has sex she wants everything from a man.
And yes I do believe that woman thinks of it more often. I come at least four times a night for my husband's one. We also hit our highest sexual desires point at around 30 so we can pump out a few more darling children.
Watch out for the cougars lol
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>>33780721
>When a woman has sex she wants everything from a man.

Explain this
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Women also act apon primordial urge.a women wants a man to think that she is everything. She wants (if she says so or not) to be the most special person in his life. She wants a man to tell her it's the best sex and she is the most precious thing to him. This may seem contradictory due to modern feminist actions but as creatures we really haven't changed that much. What's a 100 years ?
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>>33780779
>She wants (if she says so or not) to be the most special person in his life

Best ways a man can do this?
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Just tell her that her but looks grate... And that you like her dumb face. We're changing, I know. What she really wants is marriage... We really just want a man that we can trust, who love us best and will defend us no matter what and that's what sex really boils down to.
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>>33780754
Its kinda like she wants to consume his essence. She will take his sperm, his love but also his beating and abuse,all of it that expresses him.
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What a women really wants is to for fill her god given right. So she wants a man that will be by her when things get ugly. She wants to know that you actually care.i know the modern feminist movement stuck a peg in this but deep down that's all we want. Idk tell her she has the best ass you have ever seen.
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>>33780614
>Do women actually enjoy sex considering the amount of dead bedroom marriages?
Yeah. I have had multiple women literally ask me for sex and I have to say no to them. Not because I don't want sex, I just don't want sex with a woman I'm not married to.
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>>33780826
This is why you should never take advice about women from women. Telling a girl that you actually care is the number one way to lose a woman's interest. Maybe you can try SHOWING her that you care, don't try too hard, but never ever say that to a woman.
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>>33780614
Men
>Woman hot, want to insert penis
Women
>Other women say man hot, want him to inset penis
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>>33780920
Stop being a wannabe Patrice O'Neal retard
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women think about sex way more than men, and are also driven by sex way more

t. expert
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>>33780614
>Do women actually enjoy sex
Yes, with Chad. Women have a dualistic mating strategy where they will settle with an unattractive man (women consider at minimum 80% of men unattractive) where she will give him duty sex in exchange for continued provisioning. She doesn't have any actual sexual desire for him, or have sex with him for the sake of enjoyment.
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>>33780614
>Do women actually enjoy sex
Yes, with Chad. Women have a dualistic mating strategy where they will settle with an unattractive man (women consider at minimum 80% of men unattractive) where she will give him duty sex in exchange for continued provisioning. She doesn't have any actual sexual desire for him, or have sex with him for the sake of enjoyment.
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>>33782035
He is kind of right, per my lived experience.
The appeal of a warm, open man who heaps praise on their partner seems to wear very quickly on most women. I think they find it emasculating, but also know they'll undo hundreds of years of feminism if they were ever honest about it.
A certain degree of distance seems to consistently prevent the oft-toted ick from forming.
I ask you, how many posts on deadbedrooms type places do you see where the woman describes the man as
>He is warm, loving, great with our children, supportive, kind, loving, but I just don't feel it with him
compared to posts which say
>He is cold, distant, reserved and always keeps me guessing, so I don't wan't to have sex with him.
Yeah, I've never seen the latter either.
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>>33780677
>>33782135
So how do I as a man make sure I don’t end up in a dead bedroom situation? I am sort of worried about this, given my gf is quite religious and religious people tend to have guilt/shame about sex
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>>33780677
I’m 30 and need to jerk it 5 times a day or I’ll get erections at work.
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>>33782337
You poor man.
You should have your S.O. draining your balls.
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Imo, both men and women love sex, but men want it more. Scientific evidence, anecdotal evidence, and males of almost every single species on the planet supports this.
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>>33782468
I’m a virgin and always wanted to worship a white womans feet but my only options are moon face and monkey face I hate being white
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>>33780614
Dead bedrooms are just as often the result of the man losing interest (or never being interested in the first place) as they are the result of an uninterested woman.

Woman typically have a far greater *capacity* for sex than men. (One of my exes once had more than 30 orgasms in 90 minutes - not many men can do that). Assuming a skilled partner they're strongly attracted to, women enjoy sex more than men, but tend to crave it a little less. Men sometimes have this thing where they want sex desperately, but once they're actually having it they just want to get it over with as quickly as possible.

Women's sex drive generally is every bit as powerful as men's at its strongest, but it's also much more focused and more variable. Men often just want sex, and hardly care who it's with; women want sex with certain specific people very badly, but the drive isn't indiscriminate in the way a man's is.

Women's drive is also more obviously variable, depending on hormones, peaking twice a month. Men have a cycle too, but they can go right through the whole cycle in two hours, so it's less obvious.

Women's drive is also much more closely linked to what's going on in the brain than men's: if she's angry, or upset, or feeling unattractive, her drive can turn off like flicking a switch.

Men's drive decays steadily with age; women's stays almost constant right up till menopause; then it tends to dip sharply, but does sometimes come back - sometimes stronger.
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>>33780614
women do everything for money and social status thats the difference

men actually enjoy sex more

half of women enjoy sex to but they end up being whores or using it for social status or money

thats the difference
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>>33780677
its because women all married actual faggets for social status and money that dont actually like women

lmfao

women are stupidasses and do everythng for money or clout (3/4's of em anyway)
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I often fantasize about sex and enjoy doing it several times per day, but I do it alone. My sex drive was mistakenly directed at my husband during the honeymoon phase but years of conditioning;
>sex with husband -> blueballed, frustrated, no orgasm, annoyed, left feeling used and disappointed
>sex with hand -> arousing fantasies, feels amazing, a dozen orgasms, left feeling sated and relaxed
fixed it. I think porn led to unrealistic expectations for me. I would resent my husband less and have more sex with him if I hadn't expected sex to feel good.
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>>33780621
>Female sex drive peaks at what, 14-17?
You are objectively incorrect (and also fucking retarded).
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>>33780614
Men just aren't physically arousing or appealing like women are. They're big and oafish and annoying and almost always bad at sex. Women will go out of their way to get good at sex for a man and they always enjoy themselves and will continue to seek out more. Women just get bored and frustrated at the lack of satisfaction coupled with feeling a need to perform and men constantly seeking to degrade them throughout. It gets old fast.
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>>33780614
women are freaks, but you have to realize that they don't work the same way men do. because a man reading this will see a phrase like "women are freaks" and run it through his own code. and he wants lots of women. so he goes "they're not freaks like me. women are prudes." but no. they are freaks. they're just freaks for a select type of man, a pre-selected, top-of-the-foodchain man. they're more intensely horny for this man because he's more rare than hot women are. men will have sex with any woman average or above, even below average. we don't care. hot is a bonus but we really don't care. for women, imagine how life is when you're ovulating, you only find 0.001% of the male population hot, and you see one.

women are absolute freaks for this man
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>>33781981
this is pretty much it, and men never get this. we can look at her and think "she is hot." she has to look at our context, but it's just as instant
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>>33780614
>dead bedroom marriages?
You must be a teenager. Dead bedroom marriages have nothing to do with people not enjoying sex.
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>>33780614
who is this
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>>33780614
>What's the difference between male and female sex drive
Nothing. Aside from it being more socially acceptable to discuss and be aware of male sexual drive. Women are supposed to be "chaste" and "pure". But they want it just as much, if not more, than men do. If your girl doesn't want to have sex with you much she either has serious health issues or she's just not truly attracted to you. You don't need to "convince" a woman that actually likes you to fuck. They actively look for reasons to do so.
>>33784259
>Men just aren't physically arousing or appealing like women are.
Lies. If you go to the gym, build your body up (basically making yourself look strong / a guy who *can* fuck) and walk around with grey sweatpants and no boxers, letting your dick swing around, you will find out very quickly that women are visually and sexually stimulated by you just like women are to us.
>>33784564
I agree with everything you said except
>They're just freaks for a select type of man, a pre-selected, top-of-the-foodchain man.
No. Just like there isn't an objective "hot" among men, there isn't the same for women. Some women prefer bigger, huskier men. Some prefer slim nerds. There's always gonna be tons of bitches who don't think "chad" is really all that. It's more about embodying your masculinity with confidence and finding the type of woman that likes you. *That* is what's rare. Any man, regardless of his looks, can embody that. And thus they can all get women who legit get wet for them. It's just a matter of paying attention to the type of woman that likes you back instead of focusing on the "10/10" thirst trap aesthetic ecause you jack off too much.
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>>33784050
>women do everything for money and social status thats the difference
Written like a woman hater, lol.
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>>33784963
Nah, written by someone who has never been in a relationship with a woman and doesn't have regular conversations with 3D women.
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>>33780614
Women need some sort of narrative. Yes they like the physical stimulation but they also like need something else. Men get a lot of sex early in relationships because the narrative of the relationship is happening and fresh in the women's mind.

Look at all the book shit the ladies love and openly coom to.
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>>33780614
Who's the girl in the OP?
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>>33782304
First off, get married before you have sex.
Second off, don't act like a pussy. Simple. Figure it out with what I just told you.
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>>33785628
nothing from tineye. surprised it's not a bigger question
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>>33787482
Google image search says her handle is yellz0
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>>33780754
>makes shit up
moids, why are you like this
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>>33782304
religious people only have sex to reproduce, so you are setting yourself up for failure by dating one and expecting regular sex for fun
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>>33780677
>deadbedroom plebbit
Reddit aka "The digital synagogue" has a lot of really low T individuals.
I honestly think most guys don't have a sex drive so much as the glands are full of fluid time to empty them. Like a chick who's breast feeding doesn't desire to feed the baby (sometimes) so much as reduce the swelling. Chicks don't have the "have to cum now" swollen feeling so they seem to have less of a drive, but I don't think so.
Sometimes if my wife is sick / tired / just not feeling it, I get a HJ from her, so its important to define what you mean by lower sex drive. She will rub something for a few minutes even if she's not super into it.
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>>33787487
She's not as hot as the OP picture. What a disappointment.
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Far as I can tell, the interior of the vagina is practically insensate. And logically so, since a fetus has to go through there.

People talk about the nerve endings in the clit, but they don't talk about the lack of nerve endings elsewhere. It's like no one wants to say the quiet part out loud.
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>>33787976
you should check out the extent of clittoral nerves, interesting stuff
also orgasm brain scans
male/female nervous system is totally different its pretty cool
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>>33787976
Here we go. The "women don't have orgasms" brigade.
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>>33789360
That's not what it is at all. What it is is nobody talking about this important detail, except by implication. Let's call it a taboo.
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to put it simply, women don't like sex because men want too much of it and beg constantly.

sex with a monogamous partner very quickly becomes synonymous with sexual coercion. whatever sex drive the woman had before is ruined because she has been conditioned to give it up when she doesn't want to. on top of that, the average man is incapable of understanding that foreplay is something that lasts ALL DAY. you have to butter her up ALL DAY, not just 10 minutes before you feel like defiling her.
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>>33780614
Dead bedroom marriages are a problem with marriage itself and the relationship its built on.
Sex drives vary person to person and over time, but I've meet some very horny women.
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>>33780677
>peaks between 25-35

Only a roastie could’ve written something so monumentally stupid. There’s absolutely no 30 year old woman on the planet that is nearly as man-crazy as your average teenage girl.
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>>33780614
Women genuinely want to have sex but only with men they find very attractive. They will put up with sex for men they find valuable. Men want to have sex with most women most of the time.
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>>33793514
>There’s absolutely no 30 year old woman on the planet that is nearly as man-crazy as your average teenage girl.
I mean, you can say that, you're just factually incorrect. Sex drives peak for women much later in life.
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>>33793381
This has to be the dumbest load of horse shit I've ever read. Clearly written by a dude who's never been in a relationship and has a theory that only works on paper and not irl, lol.
>to put it simply, women don't like sex because men want too much of it and beg constantly.
Wrong. Women don't like sex with men they **aren't attracted to**. You wouldn't know this, but there's this novel thing called a whore? Yeah. They exist. Additionally, anyone who's been in a relationship with or dealt with a woman who was genuinely attracted to them knows they don't have to really beg or ask for sex much. Attracted women *look* for reasons to have sex. Unattracted women abhor it because they don't like you in the first place.
>sex with a monogamous partner very quickly becomes synonymous with sexual coercion.
Dead bedrooms exist. Husbands aren't just going around raping their wives like it's the 50s or something. Also there's this thing called divorce where women largely take half or more of the mans shit...even if *they* cheated and not the man. Oh, and 80% of divorces are initiated by women, the number 1 profession behind this being stay at home wives/mothers.
>on top of that, the average man is incapable of understanding that foreplay is something that lasts ALL DAY. you have to butter her up ALL DAY, not just 10 minutes before you feel like defiling her.
This is the only thing of value you've said
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>>33793855
>Also there's this thing called divorce where women largely take half or more of the mans shit
Factually incorrect. Less than 10% of divorces in the U.S. are filed with no alimony agreement and the average monthly child support payment in the U.S. is around $400. Every study performed shows that women fair economically worse than men in divorce. The internet has massively mislead you with propaganda.
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>>33793883
>Ignore the meat of my argument and focus on the technicalities of a tangent that doesn't change the leading point
Nice try.
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>>33793902
The meat of your argument is based on a set of facts that are incorrect. You can't start from a place of falsehood and then complain about the rest of your argument not logically following from a fiction. Nice try, though. You almost snuck that one past.
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>>33793923
My conclusion is exactly the same with the omission of that data point, but hey. Niggers that are used to hypotheticals, working on paper and not doing anything IRL have no concept of that. I can't blame you. Peace anon. I wish you well and I love you, despite your clear flaws.

Goodbye.
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>>33793934
>My conclusion is exactly the same with the omission of that data point, but hey.
You casually regurgitate false incel talking points without even checking to see if you're correct. Nothing about your conclusions should be taken seriously if you put this little effort into factually substantiating your own opinions.

>Niggers that are used to hypotheticals, working on paper and not doing anything IRL have no concept of that. I can't blame you.
I mean, you just got caught having no clue what you're talking about and saying factually incorrect shit that would've taken you 20 seconds to google. Now you're running away out of embarassment. I accept your concession! Good day to you.
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>>33793855
too long didn't read. i'm a woman.
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>>33780614
>Do women actually enjoy sex considering the amount of dead bedroom marriages?
They do, but only with men that they're actually physically attracted to. They're not attracted to their betabux husbands, they just want a provider, human wallet, and sperm donor
Any man who says something like "women don't enjoy sex" is just telling on themselves
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crazy how males brag about making sex agonizing and wonder why women opt out.
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>>33780614
>Do women actually enjoy sex
Women have VASTLY more physical pleasure via sex.
Their genitalia is a mucus membrane.
For simplicity sake if you touch your skin, say on your hand, then touch your mucus membranes, in your mouth, nose or rectum and notice the extreme sensitivity compared to the skin. Women experience that extreme sensitivity in their vaginal cavity.
One would assume the reason being that women need to crave sex more as to reproduce. Like an evolutionary "benefit" as a coax to keep reproducing.
Obviously also why women are generally whores and seek sex always.
the irony is that they tend to think men are more promiscuous, yet it is the woman who has triple figure sexual partners.
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>>33780677
They've admited to pushing all the women who post on the sub to the top and that it's mostly men who post there.
As for the dead bedrooms, it's pretty clear that once women have the man, feel safe and secure etc. Then they lost desire, thats why you hear so many stories of women becoming hyper sexual when their partner is on the brink of leaving.
The key to not having a dead bedroom is to make he aware you can leave at any time, this is why dudes don't like getting married and having kids.
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>>33784953
i'm not advocating for "chad" as defined by men, i'm saying they perceive this attractiveness with a completely different set of cues which are primarily based on social status and behavior
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>>33794461
Since when? Who are you fucking that thinks like this? Why are you fucking them to begin with?
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>>33793847
>you're just factually incorrect

Your personal opinion does not equal "factually correct". Anon is right, among multiple studies done on the topic only ONE, from 2022, suggested the "women's sex drive peaks in their 30s" nonsense and it got savaged for its piss-poor methodology.
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Imagine marrying a women and she refuses to put in the bare minimum.
I wonder why there are so many fuckboys who don't commit?
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>>33795219
>Their genitalia is a mucus membrane.

Your genitalia is a mucus membrane too, except you got circumcised and what was membrane is now keratinised. I'm sorry this happened to you.
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>>33780677
>It peaks between 25-35 depending on woman
you are uneducated and think reddit-tier virtue signaling is real science. women do not peak sexually at 35
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>>33780677
>It peaks between 25-35
>le 25 full brain development meme
lol
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>>33780677
>>33780621
>>33780614
dead bedrooms happen because most women get married 28+ to men they aren't actually attracted to but to men that are safe providers. after 25 they are too old for men that have options so they have to settle for less attractive men
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Women are hornier than men but they get so many options because men are willing to fuck any and everybody so they get their pick of the litter. Simple supply and demand.

That's why they can have "types", in regards to every aspect, personality, looks, political views meanwhile men just get whatever they can. Men would be the same if they got their pick of the litter too.
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>>33787497
Depends on religion. The bible specifically says to not refuse sex to each other.
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>>33796692
This doesn't explain why women go cold after a certian amount of commitment?
Judging by what women say, you'd think they'd be sopping wet after being with a man for a long time, safe and secure etc. But it's the complete reverse.
Huh, funny that.
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>>33780677
The funny part is you're not wrong, but when a woman reaches her sexual peak is also around the same age that men stop finding them attractive as say a 19-21 yr old. Interesting that, like im 35 and I'd much rather fuck an indifferent to sex 20yr old than a chick whose 32 and always down. I wasnt always like this, it's just how libido in men changes, younger women are hotter but they don't sex as much.
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>>33794006
This. My ex reached this point but I also realized I became a soft bitch to her so it made sense. Be the guy she wants to fuck, even if you truly aren't, and your dick will never dry. I've gotten lots of pussy by just straight up not caring when every fiber wanted me to actually love the bitch
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>>33796670
>women do not peak sexually at 35
You're confused. Their sex drives peak in their 30's and 40s, not their perceived sexual appeal.

>>33796673
Adult brain development and the rise and fall of hormones that dictate sex drives are two completely separate concepts.
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>>33796992
>This doesn't explain why women go cold after a certian amount of commitment?
It has nothing to do with a certain amount of commitment. I wouldn't expect the young kids who populate this board to know this because it comes with experience but long committed relationships are hard work to keep exciting. Once you start living with someone and especially when you start having kids life just isn't sexy. Most of the time when you talk to your partner its about picking up groceries or taking out trash or calling someone to fix the gutters and the drudgery of life makes it hard to feel aroused. Additionally, any kind of resentment that you let fester over the course of years will kill your bedroom. Remember, when you're married that means you don't get to go back to your house and your room and cool off when your partner irritates you. You live together, often sharing a bed together. It gets so easy to start despising the sight of your partner if you let problems in your relationship go unaddressed. Between that and often being so busy with work (sometimes opposite schedules) that by the time you get home and in bed you're exhausted, there's so many reasons why sexual attraction between couples can fade over the course of years and decades. Keeping a love life exciting with the same person in the same bed for years and years can be difficult, especially as you get older and both of your bodies change and the stresses of adult life impact your libido. Its not like when you're a teenager and a strong gust can put you in the mood. Again, this is knowledge you'll only gain once you've experienced it. The teenage virgins that spend their time on this board wouldn't know anything about it.
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>>33780701
Anon, did you fuck a child? Or alternatively, did you get groomed or some shit?
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>>33797142
>committed relationships are hard work to keep exciting.
So why are women so fucking lazy in this regard?
>when you start having kids life just isn't sexy
This is completely understandable, no honeymoon phase lasts forever anyway but it shouldn't be a dead bedroom either, you make it sound like theres no middle ground so why commit to a woman in the first place?
>any kind of resentment that you let fester over
Yes a dead bedroom will have your partner hate you in time. People that aren't willing to communicate and put in work shouldn't be in relationships to begin with which is something most people so why are the rules suddenly different when it comes to sex?
>Keeping a love life exciting with the same person in the same bed for years and years can be difficult.
So it's ok to not bother and just go cold on the person you married? It's ok not to try? Who wants to be in a relationship with someone like that? But the problem is TOO many women are like this.
>The teenage virgins that spend their time on this board wouldn't know anything about it.
Would that count yourself? If not then you must realise not every here is a teenaged virgin.
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>>33780621
I NEED to kill myself
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>>33782135
Grim. How are you supposed to be in a successful, loving relationship?
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most guys suck at sex simple as that, women are mental more then visual while men are more visual and cant realize it
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>>33780614
Women LOVE sex but only with a man they want at that very moment. They also lose interest very easily.
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>>33780779
It's weird that you say women want this yet if a guy acts like she is the most special person in his life and focuses too much on her it's clingy and the worst fucking thing a guy can do to a woman in her eyes. It's worse than rape even which for men sounds insane but given they fantasize about rape very often while they never fantasize about a clingy guy with no options tell me that is how it is.
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>>33793847
this is pop science that has no actual backing behind it
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>>33797025
>Adult brain development and the rise and fall of hormones that dictate sex drives are two completely separate concepts.
25 being when "adult brain development" happens is completely false. stop spouting trivia you learned from uneducated reddit comments as fact
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>>33797025
>heir sex drives peak in their 30's and 40s
>women's sex drives peak when they are nearing menopause and have geriatric pregnancies instead of their peak fertile years with the most raging hormones
it's amazing how people can't just think and be logical
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>>33797003
men are meant to hagmax when they're young and then marry 18 year olds when they're 35. women are meant to settle when they're 18-22
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>>33807125
I'm 35, how do I get my 25 year old gf?
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>>33807122
Both things can be true. A woman's sex drive usually increases when the risk of children are no longer on the table, but young women are convinced to not have children in their fertile years. The result is a bunch of women nearing the wall who suddenly want children and more sex because they see past the bullshit of their younger years, but by then it's too late. Atleast 3 of my exes didn't even get the kid itch until they were late 20's
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>>33807131
25 is hardly an age gap for a 35 year old. aim for 20
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>>33807125
You're right. I did find alot of my older teachers hot as fuck in my youth, if I were the same age as they were then I probably would of rejected them off my current mindset. Life truly is a bitch. I'm at my peak, but of course society likes to act like a man is a hyper pedo because he would tap some 18-21 yr ass at age 35.
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>>33807141
This, I've been looking for a chick whose atleast below 23 for awhile now.
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>>33807117
read their fucking post you dense bitch
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>>33780910
based
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>>33807350
I read it you. I was dispelling the "25 equals adult brain development" myth
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>>33807663
>>33807663
READ THEIR POST
at no point do they spread the 25 = adult brain development myth
they are talking about hormones across a lifetime. HORMONES. not brain structure. not the brain at all
fucking retard
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>>33797142
>when you're married that means you don't get to go back to your house and your room and cool off when your partner irritates you. You live together, often sharing a bed together

Unironically, having two bedrooms helps avoid having a dead one. It's nice to have our own separate sleep schedules.

Biggest cause of my bedroom was me being bad at sex, and my wife not knowing how it should work for her either. After I did all the research, (sex-ed research she should have already done) now she gets orgasms from intercourse and never turns me down.
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>>33807122
It’s a myth that originated from the idea that testosterone levels slightly increase in women as they get older. They do but they don’t impact a women’s level of horniness just makes their sex drive function more like a man’s so they become more visual and are ready to go instantly instead of needing to get warmed up.
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>>33782100
>women consider at minimum 80% of men unattractive
This is the kinda shit that's annoying. You're entirely within your right to find 80% of the male population ugly, but how can you feel like that with a straight face, how can they do that shit while hiding behind pounds of make up and filters, shit ain't fair
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>>33782700
>I'm a virgin
>my options are
?
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>>33780614
>the amount of dead bedroom marriages
find me a non-biased statistic on this because i think it is a jewish psy-op. i see non-married people also in sexless relationships, i think marriage has nothing to do with it.
>>33793381
>not just 10 minutes before you feel like defiling her.
what a horrible way to look at sex. many women don't need that much at all, my ex didn't, she was dtf whenever. for women, sex is in the mind though, it is about being sexy and being hot and having a ferocious tough beast to protect her.they have to get turned on, and that can take 10 minutes. though for non-whores it usually means developing closeness so they are comfortable with you. which can take days, but that's not really foreplay it's a different emotional requirement.
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>>33784953
>and walk around with grey sweatpants and no boxers
I partially did this by accident once, I had on boxers, but I had no idea how "outlining" my dick still was, the amount of looks I was getting from women actually made me uncomfortable lmfao
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>>33780920
i hate and love women as a natural instinct, i dont get the people here who has to act. Like its a biological thing and most women are dumb and overestimated in value
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>>33807117
>25 being when "adult brain development" happens is completely false
True. I never said otherwise.

>>33807122
>it's amazing how people can't just think and be logical
Whats even more amazing is that you have absolutely no clue what you're talking about yet you're making claims about whats logical. You're just guessing. You know nothing about female biology.
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>>33807111
>https://www.medicinenet.com/what_ages_are_women_and_men_at_their_sexual_peak/article.htm

>https://www.verywellhealth.com/more-sex-for-older-adults-2224254

Its crazy that you're so confidently wrong about a thing it would've taken you 5 seconds to google.
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i would say that its because all women are bisexual in nature as proven by recent studies they form good and healthy bonds with women having emotional support and networks so they wouldnt use sex for compensating for things. even without this, id say their sex drive is definitely lower than mens desu. not to mention the majority of women who find men attractive and vice versa wouldnt be the same. its a lot of factors to think about so what i do is just buy it off them. problem solved. also for the love of god DO NOT GET MARRIED if you actually want to keep having sex like >>33793381
>ALL DAY
youre putting too much effort for fucking crumbs like this guy says
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>>33782135
this post kinda fucked me up
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>>33780614
whos the cutie?
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>>33780614
>Do women actually enjoy sex
In my experience, women probably enjoy sex more then men.
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>>33780614
men want sex, women want everything else
everything else is noise
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How does 4chan manage to collect so many people useless in a relationship in one place?
It really is somewhat impressive.
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>>33813439
is this all based on your many years of no experience?
It does sound so.
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>>33807143
>I'm at my peak, but of course society likes to act like a man is a hyper pedo because he would tap some 18-21 yr ass at age 35.
you need to ignore society
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>>33810520
>Whats even more amazing is that you have absolutely no clue what you're talking about yet you're making claims about whats logical. You're just guessing. You know nothing about female biology.
you sound like a redditor millennial lol
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>>33810544
>medicinenet.com
>verywellhealth.com
lol these are not scientific journals
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>>33816454
>Gets proven wrong
>"Y-you're from reddit!"

>>33816457
>lol these are not scientific journals
The sources in the articles are from medical journals, dipshit. The links are highlighted, all you have to do is click on them.
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>>33816468
you're crying like the soijack lol
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women enjoy sex, and there's women with insanely high sex drives. dead bedrooms are a result of menopause and/or partners who don't know how to please them.

the difference comes down to cycles. men don't cycle, they feel the same amount of horniness constantly. women do, and they feel the same amount or more as men at the peak of their cycle and far less at the drop of it. considering how i am at the peak, if i was a man i'd pop a boner constantly.
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>>33782135
damn
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>>33780677
Man I'm glad my horny years are behind me. 27 years old and 50+ prostitutes under my belt, I can basically nofap for weeks at a time without issue. Youth is terrible for men.
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>>33818524
Dude you aren't supposed to become an old man until youre at least 50

What the fuck is wrong with you
You have some serious medical issues if you're being serious
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>>33818587
Nah it's psychological. I'm very introverted so my only sexual outlets were prostitutes I could barely afford because I'm unemployed (student living with parents). Even if I could afford it, I know I'm always paying. The realization that men aren't sexually desired but are instead blackmailed sexually (you must do X, Y, Z, etc. to EARN sex whereas it's guaranteed for women) made it a lot less attractive in my mind, and the brain is an adaptable organ. I'm healthy and in good shape, the reality of sex is just disappointing.
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>>33818666
That’s why most porn doesn’t do it for me, because women don’t actually enjoy sex they just use it to control men.
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>>33818693
Whatever the fuck they think about it, in effect they use it as a manipulation tool. Prostitution is a one sided business and wouldn't even exist if women interested in us and were available anywhere near as much as we are for them. Weakening your libido is just putting things into balance. Elites know what they're doing when they're turning the freaking frogs gay!
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>>33818719
I want to weaken my libido because I’ll never get to be sexually satisfied so why should I be horny almost all the time, even in my dreams? I literally have sexual dreams every day since I was a teen.
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>>33818959
How old are you and what are your experiences.



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