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My wife freaked out that she might be pregnant, we aren't ready financially for children and she screams, biting herself and hitting things.
She cries for hours at 1am from the stress of work, right before I have to go to work also.
I know there's a lot of simple solutions to this but I'm not thinking clearly, I'm on the brink of losing my mind.
What do I do
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Why did you marry an insane woman
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>>33781812
This is why women want a man with money. If you had money she could be happy trad wife baking apples pies at home and giving you a foot massage after work. Instead you have her reverting to being a toddler every day.
Anyway, your question is like "I was speeding down the highway the wrong way and then I hit another car and rolled over into a ditch and now the car is on fire, what do I do?"
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>>33781812
She's just manipulating you.
If she loved you, it would be happy anxieties and she would resolve to make the best of it.

She hurt herself and got sick at the prospect of having your kid.
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>>33781812
have more sex
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>>33781812
It's probably a missed period. Sif she is pregnant she's going to mentally fuck up the baby while pregnant
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>>33781812
Get a pregnancy test to confirm her suspicions.

If she's not pregnant, use this behavior as a sign of what is to come if she does become pregnant one day. Women act crazier as the due date approaches and it's not stress-free if you're an involved father-to-be. It's a get-out-of-consequences card for her, so her behavior will become more unhinged if you can't calm her down. The self-harm stuff is troubling but a lot of women do that.

If she is pregnant, get your shit together ASAP. Get a better job, look into paternity/maternity leave in your state (it varies and the pay rate is a lot less than you think), get your house in order, buy reliable transportation, find a way to save some money to float you 6 months after the baby is born. Pregnant women barely can move as it progresses and there are a whole bunch of appointments you'll need to attend with her. You should expect a lot of lifestyle changes like no alcohol for her, avoiding certain foods because of listeria, more sleep for her, she'll get stupidly horny at times, and a lot of people telling you how to live. She'll need a support system of people who can help her with child duties, so family and close

If she's stressing about work regularly, you gotta help her get away from this. Don't turn her into a stay-at-home wife just yet. You'll want to make sure she can take maternity leave for extra income and insurance if her job can provide that. You need to man up and take control of the situation or else you will be in a world of hurt dealing with craziness.

>>33781883
Don't listen to this blackpill, anon doesn't know your situation.
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>>33782545
I said the same thing as you with less words. Thats not blackpilled, it's just better.
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>>33781812
Deal with it.
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>>33781812
>muh financially stable

There's a shit ton of work out there.

Most of it is work you don't want to do because you're a fucking pussy. That tells more about what kind of bitch you and your woman are. I'll tell you the bottom line but you won't like it and you won't listen to me:

Move to a rural shithole, start living on rent and do whatever jobs are needed. If nobody wants what you do as a professional, then do whateve trade they need. Tell the boss about your difficult situation and have him recommend you to someone else, do the work they tell you and keep escalating that way.

Oh, but working off the land is too uncomfortable, working with your hands is not what you sunk years of study for. Oh being a rentcuck will never set you for a cruise trip until you're a frail old man. You will keep crying that the world is unfair and there are no jobs and you will starve on the street. And in the end you will have to make ends meet anyways, so you'll just be holding the world as it crushes you on your shoulders instead of trying to escalate step by step through effort.

Yeah, modern society shits the kind of people you are down the drainage, it's because people like you exist that others can revel in lavishness. Think about that the next time you think of having a quick fuck without a condom.



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