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My 4chan bf makes me feel uncomfortable about my cringe hobbies, like I I feel I can't really talk to him since he either doesn't engage at all or "playfully" makes fun of me for having them. Like he likes my quirkchungus cringe personality but only when it is male gaze appealing in the form of It coming of cute/flirty. It feels like I can only talk about small stuff about my life or things to keep him entertained and already feel insecure, drained and put off myself about my hobbies
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>>33786462
I would be astonished if you can't do better than that.
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Yeah he sounds like he could a lot better
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>>33786462
Yes. Have you tried communicating this to him though? I tried being diplomatic with my 4chan bf but I had to break up when he became a stalker. Literally girl, I couldn’t post in threads without him harassing me begging me to talk to him. It was embarrassing for both of us.
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>>33786522
Sorry I am scared of that too, well if I mention it he says it's OK but I feel that is hollow
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>>33786462
>My 4chan bf makes me feel uncomfortable
The WHOLE purpose of a boy (or girl)friend os to make your life happier.
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>>33786462
>Actually meeting people from this site irl
>Let alone being in a relationship with them

Wtf is wrong with you? I would rather date an obese redditor than a 4chinner degenerate
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>>33787511
What's the difference?
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>>33786462
what cringe hobbies does he make fun of?
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>>33788828
Not saying them
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>>33786462
Why the fuck should he have to give a shit that you enjoy your murder porn and soap operas? Why the fuck should he have to take interest in your cringe hobbies? Get the fuck over yourself already.
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>>33786462
you clearly don't even like this guy so why are you still with him? What do you mean when you say he playfully makes fun of your interests?
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>>33786462
Just break up, don't argue with him or criticize his behavior. To him you are just a lesser being, and if you don't go along with whatever he already thinks he will respond in a manipulative and passive-aggressive way, and if you keep pressing he'll turn hostile and aggressive.
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>>33786462
Does he ever admit fault or apologize? This isn't a big deal if he does, but you sound unattracted to him
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Idk it just feels off-putting
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>>33789472
if it's so off putting then dump him
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Good thing you havent catch the feels. Just break up asap and dont do sunk cost relationship with someone that only makes your emotional state miserable.
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>4chan boyfriend
what does that mean? online boyfriend? or irl boyfriend that browses this basket weaving deepwater factory?
>quirkchungus cringe personalit
say what now? please do explain what that means?
>>33787511
>date an obese redditor
well, then, if I may, go back and stay there?
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>>33786462
You should communicate this to him, that it hurts that he dismisses your hobbies.
You need to communicate to keep a relationship.
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>>33786462
Do you meet this person in real life or online? How tf did you meet someone who openly admits they browse 4chan?
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>>33793746
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prolly a nufag zoomie tourist, as the first rule of /fightclub/ is, theres no such place.
also 2nd rule. their friend would know if they lurked more
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>>33786462
Remember Opie, communcation only works if the other side is receptive. If it doesn't work, leave.
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>>33786462
Bitch you got a 4chan bf??
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Dump and try not to date a guy you know browses 4chan next time lmfao
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>>33786462
No hehehe
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>>33804909
>t. 4chan bf



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