That’s actually a really interesting pattern — and not as rare as you might think. There are a few possible reasons why women 10–15 years older might be drawn to you:

1. **Energy and novelty:** Younger men tend to have a more spontaneous or adventurous energy that some older women find refreshing compared to men their age who may seem more settled or jaded.
2. **Physical appeal:** If people say you look younger than your age, that “youthful” look can be attractive to women who want to feel younger or more desirable themselves.
3. **Less baggage or ego:** Older women sometimes find men their own age controlling or emotionally unavailable. A younger guy can feel more open, laid-back, and less rigid about expectations.
4. **Different goals:** Some older women aren’t looking for marriage or kids anymore — they might just want companionship, intimacy, or fun without long-term strings attached. A younger guy can fit that dynamic perfectly.
5. **Confidence or curiosity:** Some older women enjoy being the “experienced” one in the relationship and feel empowered in that role.

As for **risks**, just keep these in mind:

* **Emotional mismatch:** If they see it as casual but you start catching feelings (or vice versa), it can get complicated.
* **Different life stages:** They might already have kids, careers, or long-term plans that don’t align with yours.
* **Social perception:** Some people might judge the age gap, especially if it’s on the larger end, but that’s more about others’ opinions than anything truly harmful.

If you’re cool with the dynamic and everyone’s clear on expectations, there’s nothing inherently risky about it. It might just be that your vibe or demeanor resonates more with women who are confident, mature, and know what they want.

Would you say most of these women were looking for something casual, or were some wanting something more serious?

>>33787660
Thanks for that, really insightful! Now a human can respond too.

>>33787663
>Now a human can respond too.
You're retarded. There you go. Glad to help.

;)

>>33787669
Thanks for the bump

>>33787676
Welcome NPC.

>>33787652
Same here. Unfortunately they've all ended up being severely damaged or controlling. Younger girls don't like me, never did, and I honestly just resent them at this point so I'm kind of fucked.

>>33788055
You're literally me. Remember those younger girls will start showing interest in you when THEY turn 35 but of course at that point we won't want them.

>>33787652
>I thought they would prefer more mature guys?
You mean men with careers that don't have enough time to fuck them? Men that are struggling with erectile dysfunction? Men that are looking to settle down?
Only downside is risking a downy baby. Many of these women are probably dissatisfied with their sex life either having been married for 15-20 years or recently divorced seeing their physical youth fade away and want to feel young again like when they were kids being flirted with by every passing man.
Have the sex. They probably see you as nothing more than cock seat in the carousel.

>>33788055
You're not alone on this. It was the deal with me when I was 21-26. I see it with nerdy friends too.

Now that I'm 28, it's stopped.

Looking back, some of the 29-33yo ass I was pounding was pretty good. One girl hadn't fucked in 5 years and her pussy was too tight for me, and she had beautiful tits.

Another looked 23 (Asian) and had the most amazing legs. Thick and firm. Did anal a lot.

>>33787652
I find it much easier to get dates with older women too, I'm also 26 and still look like a teenager. I think it's because western zoomer women are basically impossible to date at this point (unless you drop your standards to the floor)

Young women want resources and stability. Older women already have that so they can focus on finding someone sexually attractive.

>>33787660
What in the fucking ChatGPT shitass is this?

Go kill yourself you AI tard.

>>33787652
Older women naturally prefer younger guys and are attracted to you as that age goup is better looking.

The women your age tend to be attracted to older guys with money and stability.

>>33790702
>Now that I'm 28, it's stopped.
I'm 27 now and I've been seeing a 35 year old all this year. What's your dating market look like now? I don't know what's going to happen to me once I'm in my 30s.

>>33787652
You have women into you?

>>33787652
Take the chance. Theyre cougars that let you NEET.

>>33787652
tldr they are more desperate and it's not a troll. Nobody wants to wife them, they are not top choice for one night stand, and you are safe and easy

>>33796270
>that let you NEET
Not really true. They've always been on my ass about having an unstable job situation

>>33787652
They're basically looking to exploit you, anon.

>>33790702
if you ever questioned if 4chan had bots, Here you go

have sex with them. older women are a gateway to heaven, theyre sweet and caring no matter what, and trust me, youre gonna be unfathomably happy 2 months into a relationship with an older woman. youll be glad you didnt fuck women younger or your age.

>>33787652
Get experience with the older women and it will become easier to get the younger women.
But I don't know the reason why you attract who you attract.
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

>>33787652
I'm late 30s now but it was the same way for me in my 20s. It always confused me because I'm extremely baby faced. You're more attractive than you think and older women have the confidence to go after it while women your age want you to make the first move.

>>33787660
No clue if this is ChatGPT or not, but that’s fairly accurate. For me, this usually happened in my early 20s with some 30-year-old or older MILF.

I will say that some women like to reminisce about their youth or just have a fun fling to escape real life.

If you’re open to it, just go along for the ride. It can be a lot of fun. :)